u/Glad-Elk-3842

We‘re together for almost 7 years and I feel sexually underwhelmed, not desired etc. i have a super high sex drive, his is close to zero. Sex, if we have any, is super vanilla. I miss some old exes who I had great sex with, often, rough, flip flop, outdoors, sexting…The whole thing. I‘m kinda lost in this situation as I really want to be with him but no talks about sex have really helped the situation. I feel stuck rn…please advice

I need to jerk off 1-2 a day to keep me sane. I think about dicks too much. Is this normal at age 31?