I’ve become submissive to my husband

Our relationship didn’t begin this way but over the few years of our marriage he’s become a dom and I have submitted totally. Obviously I enjoy it or else I wouldn’t have stayed and does fit my personality as I’ve always been one to obey instead of take charge I guess.

But the one thing I’m a little conflicted about is his infidelity. He doesn’t hide it, will have me give him oral when the taste of someone else is still on him it’s like his way of asserting himself and showing my place and it somehow turns me on but afterwards I feel bad sometimes when he does this like he doesn’t value me but my body cannot deny getting aroused when he orders me and he knows it

Edit: I’ve read all your comments and appreciate your concern. I can see how it may look bad based on the limited details provided here. But my husband treats me very well and everything we do came along from pushing boundaries and realizing we both like it and kept expanding.

As for his cheating, it’s something that progressed from talking about after he’d flirt as a sort of roleplay but as time went on I wasn’t against the idea of him actually following through and aroused me very much tbh. There are some rules like can’t be anyone I know, nothing long term, and he “tells” me beforehand with a call or text not to wait up and I know what he means. If I’m against it will tell him to come home but honesty I never am against it.

This isn’t something that happens all the time more like a handful of times a year this past year as it’s just begun. He is open to me being with others as well, obviously, but for me sex is emotional and can’t be with someone else just for the sake of it. I know men are different and can separate sex and love.

This is just one aspect of our life and it conflicts me because I know it’s against norms to feel this way, but I do feel guilty for being aroused in that sense after it’s over

He also treats me like a princess and pampers me and all the other good stuff that comes with this dynamic

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 9 days ago

Guilty fap

Nothing makes me cum harder than the memories of listening to my mother get fucked. I jerked off to it then and just remembering it gets me going years later…but know it’s wrong

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 11 days ago

My BIL always asks about his sister

Ever since I was dating my now wife, her younger brother would always want to talk about intimate details of his sister. For the most part I shut this down but even now years later after getting married he still brings it up whenever it’s just us.

I’ve finally begun to indulge him, talking about what positions she likes best and how she sucks dick and where she likes me to cum and so on.

Idk why but the fact he’s obviously turned on by his sister and must be jerking off to the info I give is somehow hot even though I know I’m wrong to even entertain his questions.

Have even showed him nudes on my phone but won’t actually send him anything, too risky

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 13 days ago

FIL and BIL asking about my wife

I made a comment on my last post about this

link here https://www.reddit.com/r/incest\_confessional/s/ZiLRZ0aJiN

Figured I’d just tell the story

It was a couple years ago when I was still engaged to my now wife, was having lunch at her parents house and afterwards I stayed to watch some football with her dad and bro while she went out with her mom for a bit

At one point during the game they pan over to the cheerleaders and her dad says something like “damn what I’d give to fuck that” and her bro something like “bet she sucked a lot of cock to get the job”

Then my FIL starts saying how he doesn’t get many of those anymore not like before he was married and women change once they get that ring. I found this strange because he’s basically talking about his wife sucking dick with his son right there!

My BIL then tells me that (paraphrasing) “guess (my name) should enjoy them now, right dad”

I laughed nervously but they continued on saying how yeah she won’t be dropping to her knees anymore after the wedding and how my MIL doesn’t even swallow when she gives the rare BJ

My BIL then asks if my wife (his sister!!) swallows and my FIL says that’s if anything like her mom I bet she does a lot now but that’s not going to last

I didn’t say anything just figured they were messing around maybe testing me somehow but they kept going being like “come on at least tell us if she’s good” and I just said don’t think she’d want me telling you about any of that stuff and laughed and they mostly dropped it but during the rest of the game some jokes and comments like “that coverage was tighter than (wife’s name) mouth on (me) cock”

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 16 days ago

My wife and I fooled around listening to our son fuck his wide

This happened a few weeks ago over the 4th of July weekend. We had went away with our son and daughter in law. One night I woke up to some moans and realized it was our son and daughter in law having sex. She sounded quite sexy and I was getting hard.

They got louder and my wife woke up too and we quietly discussed how it sounded like they were having a great time and at one point she says how he (our son) must be really good from the sound of it (daughter in law was really vocal). Her hand found her way to my cock and she started to jerk me off while we talked more about his sexual performance and she starts saying how he’s bjg and how amazing it must feel (for daughter in law) and I start to finger her and she was already soaked!

We quietly got each other off listening to our son make his wife orgasm loudly in the next room

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 1 month ago

Used to hear my parents

When I was growing up always heard my parents fuck loud. I’d stay awake in bed patiently waiting in case they’d do something and got so excited every time they would.

Could hear them clear as day and my mother’s moans and whimpers and dirty talk were amazing. Jerked off to it and can still jerk off to the memories

Would also see her naked occasionally and saw in panties/bra all the time

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 1 month ago

Heard my daughter having sex

My daughter and husband went away with us on 4th of July weekend and one day very early in the morning, maybe 5am, I had to get up for the bathroom and on the way by their room I could clearly hear them having quiet sex

My daughter’s moans and whimpers gave me a weird feeling almost a rush of excitement. I listened until it sounded like it was over, my daughter and son in law audibly orgasm. Went back to my room and then waited some minutes to get up and really go to the bathroom this time as I still had to go but didn’t want them to know I heard.

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 1 month ago

I (F26) like knowing neighbors can hear me

It turns me (F26) on more knowing the neighbors can hear me have sex if I moan loud enough. Can hear normal things from them so 100% sure it’s the same for them and I enjoy giving them exciting things to listen to!

The thought of them hearing me get fucked and then seeing them later and knowing they heard my moans and orgasm is such a rush

Sometimes when I can hear them loudly gaming or watching tv I’ll masturbate and it’s funny noticing their volume go down so know they’re actively trying to hear me better too

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 2 months ago

My stepdaughter flashed me

This morning after her shower she was walking to her room in a towel and I was passing by. When she got in she dropped the towel before closing the door and smiled as me then closed it. 1st time I saw her completely naked but she has been around in panties and tshirt with no bra type of stuff. I’ll consider what happened was my Father’s Day gift haha

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 2 months ago

Masturbate while my parents fuck

My parents always have sex really loud and I (F19) always masturbate to them. Finally realized my bro must hear them too so one time during I texted him joking about how loud they are and after a few more times we both admitted to liking it and that we get off on it

So now we text each other while masturbating to our parents sex and say what we like hearing the most and stuff

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 2 months ago

Realized too late my mom was a MILF

I kind of knew she was pretty but looking back realize how hot she was. Recall guys on the bus staring at her or guys repairing a porch next door commenting to me “that’s your mom!?” when she came out to tell me something in the backyard in a tight white top. She had 34 or 36D bra size.

The worst part is the missed signals. She’d let me see her in bra and panties no big deal, make a point to come my direction in her towel after a shower instead of straight to room. Would even call for me to come hand her the towel sometimes.

Asked me for foot massages all the time and frequently back too. And to top it off, she was super loud during sex and had to know I could hear easily. Even saw her completely naked more than a handful of times

This was over 30 years ago, don’t ask for pics and no don’t want anything now

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 3 months ago

Walked in on my brother

I posted the other day about seeing my brother jerk off in the shower behind the curtain while I was in there. Kinda think it was intentional because he knew I was inside.

Anyway, today I knock on his door to borrow a charger and he says come in and he was jerking off again!! Like he didn’t even really stop or cover up and he said it was ok to come in so like wtf. He definitely wanted me to see. I honestly didn’t mind but I said sorry and got the charger and left but yeah I did look

I’ve heard him and a gf before doing stuff and that turned me on but actually seeing him is a whole different level

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 3 months ago

Saw my brother jerking off

In our home there’s only one bathroom and while my brother was in the shower I really had to pee so I go in quick to do my thing. That’s not crazy we’ve all showered while someone came to use the toilet. Anyway, as I’m sitting I look over and can see from his shadow behind the curtain that he was jerking off his dick and ngl it kinda excited me

He plays football and has a nice body I guess but never thought of him that way but seeing him do that has me real confused with the way it made me feel

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 3 months ago

My daughter in law

My son and his wife are staying with us this weekend because we live close by to a friend of theirs who’s getting a graduate degree tomorrow.

They came back in late last night from going out for drinks etc and not long after I heard them having sex. Surprised me how turned on I got, rock hard the instant it began. Always thought she was very cute, small brunette with a girl next door kind of face. Hearing her moan and whimper from my son fucking her drove me crazy. Not sure if my wife heard and I didn’t want to draw attention to it and come off as perverted so I just slowly stroked until they finished. Hoping they have sex again tonight!

It was difficult to look at them today and not think about what I heard and try to imagine her naked.

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u/GlitteredRoomForView — 3 months ago