u/GrapefruitBig2477

A little backstory here is that for most of my life my parents have been separated. I have lived with my mom my entire life.

Recently they got back together and my dad moved back int. My dad has made flirty seeming comments about my chest or just seeming to say or hint at borderline “inappropriate” things. I don’t know exactly how to feel about it or respond to it when he does this so i am mainly either just silent or try to laugh it off.

He is even like doing this stuff in-front of my mom
And i literally can’t believe she just seems oblivious to it.

I seriously dont know what to do about it.

I have always been overweight and insecure. When it came to dating guys in high school I never had luck. Even with other girls, just trying to fit in or be friends felt difficult. It really hurt my confidence and I feel like in general guys were just never very nice to me or paid any attention to me.

Nothing has ever like happened but my dad is the one person who has always made me feel special or like I was actually worth something.

It’s this feeling that’s just never really gone away.

Hi. I am 18f. I haven’t had a ton of luck dating guys my age so far so I want to try something new. I am not in any rush and i kinda want to just try getting to know someone and go from there.

I am interested in someone older because i like the idea of having someone wise that i can look up to in a way and give me life guidance when its needed and i feel like it would be great if that was also my partner if that makes sense.

I also think older people are more mature so thats a plus.

Hi. I am 18f. I haven’t had a ton of luck dating guys my age so far so I want to try something new. I am not in any rush and i kinda want to just try getting to know someone and go from there.

I am interested in someone older because i like the idea of having someone wise that i can look up to in a way and give me life guidance when its needed and i feel like it would be great if that was also my partner if that makes sense.

I also think older people are more mature so thats a plus.

Hi. I am 18f. I haven’t had a ton of luck dating guys my age so far so I want to try something new. I am not in any rush and i kinda want to just try getting to know someone and go from there.

I am interested in someone older because i like the idea of having someone wise that i can look up to in a way and give me life guidance when its needed and i feel like it would be great if that was also my partner if that makes sense.

I also think older people are more mature so thats a plus.

Hi. I am 18f. I haven’t had a ton of luck dating guys my age so far so I want to try something new. I am not in any rush and i kinda want to just try getting to know someone and go from there.

I am interested in someone older because i like the idea of having someone wise that i can look up to in a way and give me life guidance when its needed and i feel like it would be great if that was also my partner if that makes sense.

I also think older people are more mature so thats a plus.