u/Guilty-Feedback3952

After much reading, searching, and only finding common stuff, eye contact, say hi, introduce yourself. What she really wants is two or three guys. We are going to a dance club at the hotel, there are also bars, casino etc.

I tell her that if a guys starts flirting with her, lean in, see if its serious. Go to the bar or a somewhat quite place and just say "Hey I think you're cute, would love to spend some more time together. We can go back to our room, but just so you know my boyfriend likes to watch" or something along those lines

She thinks im crazy and that would never work. Thoughts, opinions, advice?

Our relationship seems to not be as common as I thought. We have been searching for a while to find a couple that is into hotwifing the way we are.

Ie. I (M) don't have sex with other women, however she is allowed to have sex with other men. I usually find them, she has sex with them.

In conversations with other guys who will answer posts about finding a hotwife couple to hang out with, I get a lot of both sleep with other people, which IMO is not hotwifing at all, thats swinging. I also get a lot of the guy who doesn't participate at all but knows she's doing it and reclaim her later, which also doesn't work for us.

My question is how rare is our dynamic? Am I incorrect in calling us a Stag/Vixen couple? Just curious if I can't refine my search terms.