Arrogance versus confidence versus modesty

I wanted to bring up this conversation because I am well versed in MFM and the online search and conversations in trying to find someone suitable.

I'll often put a post up and I will suss out the guys and see who is suitable.

As soon as someone presents says entitled or has certain expectations.... Straight away. It's a no.

Confidence is sexy... And I get that confidence is a good look but the moment it borders on arrogance... Goodbye.

Over the years my favourite is the guy who is Mr average... He's not ripped... He's not hung like a horse.... He has conversation skills... He knows what he's doing in the bedroom... And he's quite modest about it.

I even don't mind the guys who lack confidence.... You can build them up... You can support them and build their confidence.

But the arrogance and the entitlement... It's awful. And then they get really shitty with you when you don't choose them.

I'm wondering what others think about this?

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u/Hopeful-Anteater9412 — 22 days ago