u/Independent-Pen-3107

This story literally goes back more than 35 years to when my wife and I were dating, but we were just talking about it, and I thought it was worth telling.

My wife and I grew up, going to the same campground on weekends in the summer. That’s where we met and started dating. Needless to say, we fucked a lot when we were dating. On one occasion, we fucked in broad daylight in between two paths at the campground and we were totally seen by a couple that was walking on one of the paths. I mean, looking right at us.

On 4 July, we were out walking around 10 o’clock at night. We were walking by the lake and there’s this large flat rock that we always went to. It was a great spot for fishing, hanging out, swimming, skinny-dipping, etc. I laid out my leather jacket on the ground for her to sit on, and we started making out.

It wasn’t long and her shirt was off and next thing you know we were fucking missionary style right there on that rock. We could hear people across the lake, but it was very dark so we didn’t worry about anything. Then, all of a sudden fireworks started going off over the lake right above us. As soon as the fireworks went off everything lit up and we could hear the people across the lake, whistling and cheering. They could see us as clear as day! They were only about 100 yards across the lake because it’s narrow at that part.

Obviously, we were surprised, but we kept fucking. And there was definitely a thrill to having the fireworks go off and people see us. When my wife (then girlfriend) would get close to orgasm, she would beg me to fuck her harder. So there I was, bare ass, and her topless with her shorts pulled to the side, and I was fucking her hard with her with her legs wrapped around me and her tits jiggling with every thrust. We both came hard, literally with the fireworks going off right above us. It was fucking amazing.

What a memory!

My wife and I were up at our camp just a few days ago and I only have jokingly said that we should do that again. Of course being in our 50s now she’s not as excited to do that as we were when we were 18. We were wondering if the people that saw us ever recognized us at the camp. Still a great memory and fun to talk about.

In my previous post I (54) mentioned that my wife (57) and I have been enjoying mutually masturbating each other. I do her, she does me. We have been doing this because it helps tremendously with my performance anxiety. We are camping and today is one of our sex days. I brought her off and then she brought me off. She was going to do some oral and finish with a groin massage/handjob. I actually told her to skip the oral this time. Normally when I am about to cum she will grab a towel to catch the shot. This time I told her I wanted to watch her finish me. I literally said “I want to watch you do it…is that okay?” Which she was good with. It was awesome watching her stroke me off with both hands until I finished.

We talked afterwards and I told her that I noticed that she is much more relaxed when we do each other this way, I noticed that she gets aroused easier and orgasms easier and harder. I even noticed that she has been exposing her breasts unreservedly too. Normally, she wears one of my flannel shirts and leaves it unbuttoned. She said that she is more relaxed because my anxiety was creating anxiety for her, so mutually masturbating is not only amazing, but it is really fulfilling for both of us. Really loving it.

I did bring up introducing a dildo, but she said that is a closed door. It’s fine. I respect that.

My wife (57) and I (54) have been married for 35 years, we have three grown kids. During the years of raising our kids I often felt sexually neglected. My wife is a (lady) cancer survivor and I have problems with ED and performance anxiety.

All that being said, our sex life for the last 7-8 years has been very good and seems to be getting better. I have will often rub my wife’s clit while sucking on her tits until she orgasms. She has always loved having her tits sucked. After she cums, I will get on top and finish inside of her.

Once in a while, I would ask her to just finish me and she would suck me off and then finish me with a handjob.

Lately when I change position, I lose my hard on.
I know it’s performance anxiety. So, I told her that for a while I wanted to bring her off and she could bring me off.

Last time and again today was amazing! We were touching each other and I was stroking her nipples. I love watching them get hard. She likes when I gently pinch, roll and pull on them.

Today (and last time) she was getting seriously into it. As I sucked on her nipples and rubbing her clit, she was literally pulling my head into her big tit ( by the way, I absolutely love sucking on her tits, I could do it for hours) I like to simulate the same action with my tongue on her nipple that I am doing with my fingers on her clit. So, if I am flicking her nipple with my tongue, I will flick her clit with my finger. When I lick around her nipple and areola, I stroke circles around her clit. This drives her wild. I can tell because she will get vocal with “ooohhh…yeah” She’s normally quite reserved.

I really know that she’s getting lit up when she puts her hand on mine and pushes my fingers inside her. She normally doesn’t want that because it can be a little painful because of the cancer treatments. When she pushes my fingers inside, it means she’s really hot, like today. I curl my fingers in the “come here” fashion and rub her clit with my palm while finger banging her and sucking her nipple deep into my mouth. She came so hard and loud. Normally she will cover her mouth when she orgasms because she’s afraid the neighbors will hear. Today and last time she let it rip loud! So hot!

Then I said “come finish me, but go slow”. One of the problems with performance anxiety is that I ejaculate wicked fast, but when she gives me a handjob, I find I am very relaxed and actually last longer.

Anyway, she sucked me off a little and then I stopped her because I didn’t want to cum yet. She has this method which she did when we were dating and in the early years of our marriage, which she revived, rather unexpectedly recently, where she massages my balls, between my legs and then strokes my dick until I am ready for her to finish me. She kind of keeps doing that which I love. The feeling is amazing but also gives my dick a break so I don’t cum too fast.

In no way am I giving up on intercourse. However, what we have done lately, by bringing each other off, has helped tremendously with the performance anxiety and we are both very satisfied.

My wife (57) and I (54) have been married for 35 years, we have three grown kids. During the years of raising our kids I often felt sexually neglected. My wife is a (lady) cancer survivor and I have problems with ED and performance anxiety.

All that being said, our sex life for the last 7-8 years has been very good and seems to be getting better. I have will often rub my wife’s clit while sucking on her tits until she orgasms. She has always loved having her tits sucked. After she cums, I will get on top and finish inside of her.

Once in a while, I would ask her to just finish me and she would suck me off and then finish me with a handjob.

Lately when I change position, I lose my hard on.
I know it’s performance anxiety. So, I told her that for a while I wanted to bring her off and she could bring me off.

Last time and again today was amazing! We were touching each other and I was stroking her nipples. I love watching them get hard. She likes when I gently pinch, roll and pull on them.

Today (and last time) she was getting seriously into it. As I sucked on her nipples and rubbing her clit, she was literally pulling my head into her big tit ( by the way, I absolutely love sucking on her tits, I could do it for hours) I like to simulate the same action with my tongue on her nipple that I am doing with my fingers on her clit. So, if I am flicking her nipple with my tongue, I will flick her clit with my finger. When I lick around her nipple and areola, I stroke circles around her clit. This drives her wild. I can tell because she will get vocal with “ooohhh…yeah” She’s normally quite reserved.

I really know that she’s getting lit up when she puts her hand on mine and pushes my fingers inside her. She normally doesn’t want that because it can be a little painful because of the cancer treatments. When she pushes my fingers inside, it means she’s really hot, like today. I curl my fingers in the “come here” fashion and rub her clit with my palm while finger banging her and sucking her nipple deep into my mouth. She came so hard and loud. Normally she will cover her mouth when she orgasms because she’s afraid the neighbors will hear. Today and last time she let it rip loud! So hot!

Then I said “come finish me, but go slow”. One of the problems with performance anxiety is that I ejaculate wicked fast, but when she gives me a handjob, I find I am very relaxed and actually last longer.

Anyway, she sucked me off a little and then I stopped her because I didn’t want to cum yet. She has this method which she did when we were dating and in the early years of our marriage, which she revived, rather unexpectedly recently, where she massages my balls, between my legs and then strokes my dick until I am ready for her to finish me. She kind of keeps doing that which I love. The feeling is amazing but also gives my dick a break so I don’t cum too fast.

In no way am I giving up on intercourse. However, what we have done lately, by bringing each other off, has helped tremendously with the performance anxiety and we are both very satisfied.