Can someone explain this to me?
I’m not sure if this is the right space but I hope it is!!
Okay so, I’ve got a conundrum with my dom/daddy. There is someone willing to buy me a collar, but daddy isn’t comfortable with it. I just wanna know if someone can explain like why…? He tried but I’m still very confused
I live with my parents and am unable to buy it myself but I’m going to England in a couple months where I will be able to meet up with said person. Daddy is also unable to buy it for me due to me leaving with parents and being under a few restrictions and stuff.
The collar isn’t exactly for kink play/puppy play/collaring purposes. It’s more a very very cute collar that I think is adorable and I would love to wear just because it’s adorable and makes me happy. It’s part leather with a metal dog bone clip thing with lots of stars and decorations and comes with a leash.
But again, I wouldn’t really be using it for kink play and would most likely not use the leash. Daddy explained that buying someone a collar is a very personal and sentimental thing. Explained it in the way of almost an engagement ring in kink settings. (Aka him explaining it in a way me and my autism could understand).
While I understand his point of view I still don’t understand how it is still sentimental and stuff if I’m not using it for kink play and rather as an accessory. If anyone could maybe explain or has some ideas on how this would work that would be helpful ❤️