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Today I got on my bike absolutely stuffed, as if my body wasn’t already busy enough digesting
A few minutes in I realized: huge mistake. Every pedal stroke felt like a personal attack.
I literally had to get off and stand next to my bike for a minute because my full stomach and cardio were simply not compatible today

Hi Zusammen,

ich bin 21 und seit kurzem von meinem Ex getrennt, mit dem ich mehrere Jahre zusammen war. Und erst jetzt realisiere ich was passiert ist. Er hat mich immer bekocht und mir große Portionen zu essen gegeben. Immer wenn ich gestresst war (was oft vorkam) hat er mir essen gegeben. Ich war ständig am Naschen und Snacken und habe gar nicht bemerkt wie ich runder werde. Ich habe am Anfang der Beziehung ca. 60kg gewogen und bin jetzt 15kg schwerer… Was soll ich jetzt tun? Ich scheitere an jeder Diät und lege zu….

Pls respond in the comments

1. What first made you realize you were a feeder?
2. How would you define the difference between a feeder and an encourager?
3. What’s the biggest misconception people have about feeders?
4. What does a healthy dynamic look like to you?
5. Do you think feeding always has to involve providing food?
6. What boundaries do you think are most important in this dynamic?
7. Have your interests changed over time? If so, how?
8. What’s something you wish feedees understood better about feeders?
9. What do you think makes someone a good feeder versus a bad one?
10. If you could change one thing about the community, what would it be?

Watching my body slowly change over time.

Realizing old clothes don’t fit the way they used to.

Always having an excuse to try new restaurants.

Never worrying about ordering the biggest meal.

Looking back at old photos and seeing the difference.

Feeling more comfortable embracing what I actually want instead of what other people expect.

Seeing the number on the scale slowly go up.

Finding confidence in a body that feels more like me.

Learning to stop stressing over every calorie.

Knowing that every bit of progress tells a story.

What’s your favorite part?

Because from my DMs, both usually want the same thing: updates, pictures, bigger portions, more weight gain and constant attention.
The difference seems to be that a feeder actually contributes to making it happen. They help, provide food, support the process or at least put real effort into it.
An encourager often just sits there expecting the same results and the same access while doing absolutely nothing besides saying “eat more.”
So genuinely, where does encouragement end and just expecting everything for free begin?

1. That the goal is to become as big as possible.
2. That gaining is easy.
3. That every high-calorie food is automatically exciting.
4. That everyone gains in the same places.
5. That wanting to gain means you don’t care about your health.
6. That motivation never changes.
7. That compliments are all the same.
8. That every gainer has the same end goal.
9. That progress is always linear.
10. That weight gain is only about the number on the scale.

Let me know what you think about these

As most of you know, I lost some weight which I want to gain back and even more. For that I thought I will eat whatever you want me to and order me for 1 entire week. So every gram that I can possibly gain, is your choice!
See you in my DMs :)

Sadly I wasn’t able to eat as much as I wanted the past weeks. And now I sadly lost 3kg again. Was at 93kg and now I am back to 90kg. If anyone would be down to help me out here, I would rlly appreciate it 🫶🏼

Wie die Meisten von euch wissen, habe ich vor einigen Wochen meinen Job verloren. Um meinen Lebensstil nun weiterhin finanzieren zu können (🤰🏼🍔) dachte ich starte ich meine eigene kleine Merchreihe. Ich würde mich freuen, wenn ihr vorbeischaut und Feedback gebt. :)

Schreibt gerne wieder die Zahl und ich antworte auf eure Fragen. Hier wieder eine Sammlung an Fragen, welche ich häufiger bekomme. Diesmal vor Allem in Bezug auf social media. Würde solche Sachen gerne mit euch teilen:

1. Was verdienst du als Feedee?

2. Wie viele Nachrichten bekommst du pro Tag?

3. Wie viel Zeit verbringst du am Tag mit Content/ social media?

4. Wieso machst du keinen custom content?

5. Was nervt dich an social media am meisten?

6. Was für einen Einfluss haben Leute online auf deine Zunahme?

Falls ihr weitere Fragen habt, stellt diese gerne.

Hey ich habe mir gerade meinen Lieblings Oreo Shake gemacht und könnte etwas hilfe gebrauchen diesen vollständig runter zu bekommen…