u/Loose-Method-6837

Since smells are so strongly tied to memories and associations, I was wondering if there’s anyone here who has a certain smell/perfume/cologne they associate with dominance and/or submission?

Say before you go out to a sex club with your domme, maybe she has a signature scent she wears (Bath and body works, designer fragrances, etc.) Does that have an effect on you and your submission? Or do you wear one to signal your submission to your domme or get in the headspace for it?

Personally, scent affects me, especially when mommy wears her Billie Eilish perfume I bought for her as a Christmas gift. Whether it’s at a sex club or during a scene, it works on me. I also have one that I wear for her and I call it “Boy Slut” hehe, helps put me into a subby, and mischievous headspace. 😈

It was christmas break 2022 my GF/mommydom and I went on a long vacation where we spent a few weeks together (we were long distance so being able to spend this much time together was rare) My mommy kink sporadically showed up like when she talked to me in a specific tone telling me what to do, etc. anyways I bought a bong on the coast - and when we were at her parents house, I took a big rip and had no tolerance so I got way too fried and I asked her to hold me. Without batting an eye she told me to lay down and started stroking my hair, this certainly helped me calm down. I felt small and cared and loved in a way I’d never been before. The next thing you know I’d calmed down enough that I fell asleep in her arms. So thank you mommy for helping me navigate that scary experience.

It was christmas break 2022 my GF/mommydom and I went on a long vacation where we spent a few weeks together (we were long distance so being able to spend this much time together was rare) My mommy kink sporadically showed up like when she talked to me in a specific tone telling me what to do, etc. anyways I bought a bong on the coast - and when we were at her parents house, I took a big rip and had no tolerance so I got way too fried and I asked her to hold me. Without batting an eye she told me to lay down and started stroking my hair, idk but this certainly helped me calm down. I felt small and cared and loved in a way I’d never been before. The next thing you know I’d calmed down enough that I fell asleep in her arms. So thank you mommy for helping me navigate that scary experience.