u/LordSaikou

I know that sounds like something a porn-addicted gooner would say, but honestly - I don't feel like I'm at that level. I don't really think about it unless I'm actively doing it. And I live with family, so I only get to do it late at night or when I have some private time.

But even on my nights off or when I have private time, it's easy for me to do other things. I can't really think of any way that I have personally been negatively impacted by my hentai usage.

...But it sounds kind of fun to be a degenerate!

I feel like looking at porn, especially with other perverts, is one of the most fun things you can do. It's visually and mentally stimulating. It's fun to talk about. If you make time for it, you can make yourself feel good for hours at a time.

Obviously I do not condone self-destructive behaviors - and on that note, I do take breaks when I feel like it's becoming too much. But as a fantasy, I love the idea of really getting lost in it. Losing days and hours. Having a wife and instead of having sex, you look at porn and edge together. Or better yet, look at porn while you're fucking each other.

I dunno. In my real life, I've been ace/demi-questioning for a while, and I've considered that maybe I'm just aegosexual, as I don't really care about the real thing the way others seem to. But I love hentai. I love the idea of finding niche kinks - or even just new ones that I've never been into - and conditioning myself to love them.

I shouldn't have to say this, but since some of you can't read - the [M4F] tag and my bio mean NO MEN. AFAB enby people are welcome!

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That's really all there is to it. I want a friend that I can have horny chats with, and then after we're done playing, we end up talking about games or music or shows we like - just regular friend stuff! ...With the knowledge that we can slip into NSFW whenever we want to.

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To be clear: I want to ACTUALLY be friends who ALSO happen to look at hentai or roleplay together - or basically whatever gooner activity we can think of! If you like feet & furry, that's a big plus 🫶 but nothing is required.

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I prefer making a discord server to keep the NSFW stuff separate - so, while I'm open to playing on reddit, we may not click as well if you're not interested in transferring. It just makes the whole "long term" thing easier to mess with.

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Thanks for reading!~

That's about it.

I was playing with a longterm/dirty penpal earlier and she wanted to send me some photos of herself. I said that I would feel a little guilty, as I don't send - but that she could send if she wanted to.

The thing is, I went ahead and took a picture. I've been doing it recently just for myself - but I also wanted to give her a little something in return.

There weren't any identifying details, she did not pressure me AT ALL, and we both ended up deleting the intimate pics we sent, but... I still feel ashamed.

I grew up in the Bible belt, so this type of thing really doesn't come naturally - and, of course, the neurodivergence doesn't help matters either.

My only other experiences with something like this were when I was a teenager and another guy tricked me into sending a photo (he was pretending to be someone else) - and then my long time long distance girlfriend.

But in my adult life, I've never done anything like that.

My friend has been completely understanding and supportive; all of the struggle is coming from within. I feel like I need to tell everyone. Like I've got to confess or something like that. Logically, I know it isn't a big deal and that I've done nothing wrong, and I do trust this person.

But I still feel gross. I feel like I've done something I can't take back, even if the picture itself is not going anywhere. I feel like just having committed the action is enough.

I shouldn't have to say this, but since some of you can't read - the [M4F] tag and my bio mean NO MEN.

That's really all there is to it. I want a friend that I can have horny chats with, and then after we're done playing, we end up talking about games or music or shows we like - just regular friend stuff! ...With the knowledge that we can slip into NSFW whenever we want to.

To be clear: I want to ACTUALLY be friends who ALSO happen to look at hentai or roleplay together - or basically whatever gooner activity we can think of! If you like feet & furry, that's a big plus 🫶 but nothing is required.

I prefer making a discord server to keep the NSFW stuff separate - so, while I'm open to playing on reddit, we may not click as well if you're not interested in transferring. It just makes the whole "long term" thing easier to mess with.

Thanks for reading!~

Today I had that weird itch in my brain where I wanted to masturbate, but nothing was really getting me turned on... at least, not like usual.

When I did get a bit hard, I decide to undress a bit and take some pics of myself. I feel like a lot of them are boring, so I tried posing a few different ways - and even trying to incorporate some feet (even though I really only like women's)

ANYWAY

It was fun to take some pictures and see myself, and it did end up turning me on, making subsequent pictures even easier. But that isn't really the important part.

See, I've dealt with horrible self-esteem my entire life, so I NEVER take any pictures of myself anymore. I still didn't like the ones where I could see my face, but it still made me happy to see pictures of myself and see some kind of appeal to them.

I wanna be very clear, by the way, I am not sending/posting these pictures anywhere, so please don't ask.

I shouldn't have to say this, but since some of you can't read - the [M4F] tag and my bio mean NO MEN.

That's really all there is to it. I want a friend that I can have horny chats with, and then after we're done playing, we end up talking about games or music or shows we like - just regular friend stuff! ...With the knowledge that we can slip into NSFW whenever we want to.

To be clear: I want to ACTUALLY be friends who ALSO happen to look at hentai or roleplay together - or basically whatever gooner activity we can think of! If you like feet & furry, that's a big plus 🫶 but nothing is required.

I prefer making a discord server to keep the NSFW stuff separate - so, while I'm open to playing on reddit, we may not click as well if you're not interested in transferring. It just makes the whole "long term" thing easier to mess with.

Thanks for reading!~

So, I don't think it's really a big shocker to say that I'm a gooner. I love it. And I especially love hentai.

But there isn't anything interesting about just... liking porn. Lots of people do. Probably *most* people.

But for whatever reason, I am *so* much more attracted to a woman when I know she also loves gooning. There is something inherently sexy to me about knowing that she finds it visually appealing, that she goons to it. Especially if she likes the same fringe stuff that I do.

I don't know if that's a specific kink, or if any allosexual and allistic person feels the same way.

But at least for me - it's such a huge turn on.

That's really all there is to it. I want a friend that I can have horny chats with, and then after we're done playing, we end up talking about games or music or shows we like - just regular friend stuff! ...With the knowledge that we can slip into NSFW whenever we want to.

To be clear: I want to ACTUALLY be friends who ALSO happen to look at hentai or roleplay together - or basically whatever gooner activity we can think of! If you like feet & furry, that's a big plus 🫶 but nothing is required.

I prefer making a discord server to keep the NSFW stuff separate - so, while I'm open to playing on reddit, we may not click as well if you're not interested in transferring. It just makes the whole "long term" thing easier to mess with.

Thanks for reading!~

That's really all there is to it. I want a friend that I can have horny chats with, and then after we're done playing, we end up talking about games or music or shows we like - just regular friend stuff! ...With the knowledge that we can slip into NSFW whenever we want to.

To be clear: I want to ACTUALLY be friends who ALSO happen to look at hentai or roleplay together - or basically whatever gooner activity we can think of! If you like feet & furry, that's a big plus 🫶 but nothing is required.

I prefer making a discord server to keep the NSFW stuff separate - so, while I'm open to playing on reddit, we may not click as well if you're not interested in transferring. It just makes the whole "long term" thing easier to mess with.

Thanks for reading!~

I happen to love feet myself, but it's always turned me on so much when I talk to women who are also into other women's feet - even if they aren't really much into women otherwise.

I've had a few opportunities to condition some women I've known into having a feet kink - and that makes it all the more fun.

I would love to chat with some women who love feet - but other kinks are welcome, too 🫶

To preface, I wanna say that I am undiagnosed, but there are many, many signs that lead me to believe I am a spicy brained raccoon - one of which is my general distaste for interacting with others (except people who are like me)

The problem is, that makes it pretty hard to deal with pent up frustration. I've always been kind of reserved about this kind of thing - and I used to think I was ace, but now I feel like maybe I'm just awkward and repressed.

Anyway... I don't have much interest in real, physical stuff. I mean, if I knew and trusted someone, sure - but not for casual experiences. But I love making horny friends. I've always found it a ton of fun to look at porn and write roleplays and get off together - and then the next moment we're just having a conversation about whatever else.

Reddit used to be a great platform for that back in the days where everyone was in lock down. But nowadays, it's either people who are selling something, people I am not attracted to (because of body type/orientation incongruance) or people who only want to be fed without ever giving back.

I've had a few friends here or there - but people tend to just disappear off the face of the earth.

It's fun to look at things and post on my own, but it's also nice to engage with others.

What do you do to fill that space in your own life?