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Apologies if this is covered somewhere already.

There’s a really good wiki on pegging gear stickied on this subreddit but lots of these are available in the USA only.

My wife and I have a basic beginner set of toys, mostly from Love Honey (their basic harness which my wife doesn’t find especially comfy and a selection of dildos all of which are pretty firm.

As a result we end up more than most just resorting to using anal beads or similar which sort of misses a bit of the fun.

Are there products available in the UK you’d recommend? Wife is pretty curvy which I appreciate may be important to suggestions

Thanks !

Edit: thanks all these are really helpful. Time to do some shopping :)

Hi you - Welcome!

40 m Scotland here. Married, kids, job, house all checked off but looking for someone to share life with. A friend I can share anything with. The good the bad, quirks and all.

I want to see the random things that pop up in your day!

I’m easy going, reached the point of settled confidence in who I am. Possibly from a work life where I’m always the boss possibly I’m just getting old - but thankfully still have a very full head of hair.

I’m working hard on me. Got a bit spooked at the idea of turning 40 so started working out regularly a couple of years back and it’s starting to show. Not there yet but enjoying the process.

Wait this is the bit where I’m meant to have some hook so you can’t help but message me …. Erm … how do you take your preferred hot beverage ?

*notabot

40, dad, based in Scotland. I spend most days making sure everyone else’s needs are sorted - kids, house, slightly dippy colleagues, the lot, and I’ve realised I’ve gone a long time without building anything just for me.

Nothing’s broken, I’m not looking to fill a gap. I’d just like to find someone to have something good with proper conversation, shared time, maybe a spark if we’re lucky.

Decent in the kitchen, handy with tools, try to stay fit. If you’re a parent too, you’ll know that particular kind of tired, and why it still matters to carve out something for yourself.

Here’s a start, if you fancy it: tell me the one thing in your kitchen everyone owns but nobody actually uses. Bonus points if you’ve got a strong opinion on it.

*notabot