u/MCThrAwa

Hi, I am looking for some insight from my peers. Wife and I have taken mdma for sex often, but due to a health development it's no longer possible for my wife.

Main reasons we loved it so much was the affection and connect, but also for me to not come so quickly and instead being able to focus on enjoying each other over long stretches, without worrying who comes when.

Looking for suitable alternatives, another sub suggested THC edibles. Does anyone have experience and can report how it compares to MDMA and if it would be a suitable substitute? Obviously it's a different drug, but most close alternatives are out of question unfortunately due to the cardiovascular stress they introduce.

Trying to get as close to our original experience as possible, would you suggest

a) me doing mdma, and my wife edibles or

b) me doing mdma + edible, my wife edible only or

c) both of us eating an edible w/o any mdma involved?

Thank you

My wife and I have had many great adventures in the past, but recently she developed an (unrelated) cardiovascular disease. Amphetamines, mdma, etc will be off the table permanently for her.

We are planning a trip away, where we will both get cozy and have a few drinks. Typically we would take some mdma together, but since the situation is now different, I wonder what's the best alternative.

a) Only me (slightly, low-dose) rolling, her only having some drinks. My concern here is that we will be on different wavelengths and she will get annoyed and/or uncomfortable. How are your experiences with this situation?

b) are there any alternative suitable drugs to research, which don't have sudden strong effects on the veins and organs?

Thanks