u/Massive_Shake_7938

I’ve been talking with my wife about couple swapping and threesomes lately. We both are interested in having new experiences together.

She is worried about jealousy seeing me with another woman. So I suggested a threesome with another guy. So a MFM I guess.

I think I’d be fine with seeing her blow or fuck the other guy and such, since I’ll be involved too and as long as she’s enjoying it. I’m not 100% sure but only one way to know I guess.

Also I’m not bi, but I would be fine playing with the other guy too, if he’s into it, since I’ll do anything she wants me too, if she thinks it’s hot.

Anybody have some advice on this experience? It’s heard to really know without doing it yet.

I know size is a preference and I know most guys aren’t real big. Do many couples seek out big dicks, or are most swinger couples more open to any size?

Reason I ask, is my wife prefers big dicks, and she’s worried the other guys we play with won’t be big enough for her. It’s probably overthinking, but she wants what she wants. I have a big cock and she’s worried I’ll have better swap sex that her if the other guy isn’t big enough to make her come from PIV.

Obviously we both care to vibe with the other couple, but size is important to her. Too many commenters are getting offended over preference.

Anyone have any advice?

We (33F 44M) are looking for a couple similar to us for some fun. She is BBW and he is bigger and really tall. We’re both in shape, just not skinny. Also he has a thick cock.

We both want a couple that is BBW and a big dick is a plus. Overall we are open and are new to this adventure. DM us.

I’m curious to know, how many guys in swinging are bi or curious? I guess just like the general population perhaps.

I know it’s personal preference and all. But I really really enjoy pleasuring my wife and seeing her moan and squirm from orgasm. I’ve pleasure her with toys only before and it’s such a turn on seeing her orgasm from something that’s not my dick and I get pleasure from seeing her have pleasure.

Is there any relation from this feeling to enjoying seeing her get fucked by another man? Either a swap or even threesome. What’s your experience?

We’ve talked about going to a sex club again to play. We’ve been once to solo play and are interested in going again. We’re have also talked about possibly swapping with a couple of the mood is right. So we do have interest. I’m just trying to figure out how much I’m interested in only swapping vs threesome. I would do anything she asks. I just want to make sure I think it through before hand.

Sorry for the newb question. I hope this is the place for it.

My wife and I are interested in having sex and watching others have sex. We’re been to a sex club on vacation one time and solo played and watched others. We don’t know that Secrets is the place for us. Is there anywhere else near Orlando or Tampa where we can watch others have sex and have sex ourselves?

We are both interested in the idea of swapping but aren’t ready for that just yet.

My wife and I are interested in having sex and watching others have sex. We’re been to a sex club on vacation one time and solo played and watched others. We don’t know that Secrets is the place for us. Is there anywhere else near Orlando where we can watch others have sex and have sex ourselves?

We are both interested in the idea of swapping but aren’t ready for that just yet.

My wife and I recently went to the toy store and bought a dildo that’s the same size as me, 7” length with 6” girth, and it’s crazy to see my size from a different perspective. My view of myself I don’t think I’m that big, but that dildo is very big. It’s unreal basically seeing my size how she sees it.

We also had some fun playing with her using the dildo, watching it penetrate her is also crazy. It was like seeing another man penetrate her, and hearing her moan was hot. That fat dildo made her come hard too. 🥵🍑💦 All while sucking me. Sort of like a threesome.

I told her that I visualized another man fucking her and It was hot. She really liked that. She also had a really long and intense orgasm from the experience. She was so incredibly wet after! 🍑💦 I then penetrated her and she orgasmed a second time and I cream pied her soaking wet pussy.

We talked about it after, and both found the thought of it all pretty hot, and are going to try other things.

We’ve solo played in a club before, and have talked about a threesome or couple swap. But we’re hesitant to try with other people. We don’t know any couples to do it with and are nervous about it.

This was a new experience for us both, and helps satisfy some curiosity. Perhaps it’ll eventually lead to us trying something with another couple, I’m not sure. We’re both interested in swinging more after this.

Anyone have any recommendations of things for us to try? Or tips for us newbs looking to try new things but are a little nervous?