u/MichelangelosChisel

The question here is quite simple. Does anyone else struggle to masturbate? I find the relationship between sex and masturbation to be a bit weird with me. I honestly struggle to feel good msdturbating and it can take me a long time to achieve anything. It is normally a strained and frustrated feeling. On the other hand sex is so attractive, exciting and relaxing. I can hardly ever get enough. Naturally over the years I have found that keeping a long list of FWBs is the best way for me to stay levelheaded. I just womdered if anyone else has encountered the same situation?

I figure we should celebrate the small things.

I always thought there is a huge variety between all the people on this sub. So I figure, all the paths must also be quite different. So I was wondering where people are and how did they get there?

I was recently recommended to have a look at a toy so here I am. To help with sizing I am 8.5 inches long and I use my size 69 condoms.

Previous experiences have been lack luster. I find that even recommended toys split open very easily and don't last longer than a few weeks. I have had some sleeves before where I would go all the ways through or some that would be so tight I wouldn't be able to enter. I am open to any recommendations though.

I do have some constrains.

Firstly it must good value. I am not interested necessarily at the bottom of the barrel stuff. But if I am trying things out again I don't want to overspend. It is frankly easy to overspend in this segment. So best value for money is where I am after.

Secondly, the item must be durable. I will be using it regularly, maybe daily. So am looking at something that might last and hopefully withstand me.

Thanks for the help in advance!

So a long time ago I had an accident in the groin area. The doctors were worried about the effects that it had on me and that lead to me being diagnosed with hyperspermia. I find that hyperspermia is somewhat different than other kinds of hypersexuality, as it is more physical. Ultimately it hurts to with old desires and whether you want it or not you are going to be ejaculating a lot. However I feel like I always discover new things about it. I was wondering if people on here have found some coping techniques that are not my own and I was wondering what life is like for people similar to myself.