u/Mindful_Meow

Let me preface by saying this is not a humble brag or cry for attention, I'm genuinely looking to see others input/outlook on this.

I post the photos in my ad without my face showing because I'm extremely insecure, I'm definetely not a "bombshell" looking provider, yet I haven't had a client walk out on me when they arrive.

I feel like posting photos including my face would possibly prevent clients from booking, but I also feel like my photos would look more "put together(?)" if I didn't crop out/blur my face.

Probably sounds dumb as fuck, it's just something I'm contemplating.

I'm also not worried about people IRL finding me because my tattoos are already a dead give away.

Anyone else struggle with this thought or am I just weird?

More looking for recreation/fitness reasons. I've seen some on Amazon but I'm scared of buying one from there and it falling off my ceiling or something.

Sorry if this is a weird question. I just restarted my career independently so I don't have social media yet. I used to work for an agency so it was easier to make friends in the game.

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Now I'm independent and shit gets lonely sometimes when working a hotel all day by yourself. None of my friends or family know what I'm doing so I can't talk to them about work and it sucks. It would be cool if I could be able to talk to someone about the problems/annoyances of the industry. Someone who gets it.

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Me and my fiancee are looking to travel in order to hopefully make more money in a different city. The hotels seem really expensive so I wouldn't want to work if we won't get a lot of calls.

I know I'm probably going to get a lot of pushback on this topic. I understand that people need to make thei money one way or another but I'm so sick of clients asking me for verification pics (which I don't provide), or playing 21 questions to see if I'm real and not a scammer.

I've only been independent for a few months so I'm still learning how to weed out time wasters (deposit is not an option in my area, unless I want one client a month).

I already don't take deposit for 30 min calls, my ad is verified but apparently people started stealing verified pictures from leolist to make their own scam ads.

Im sorry I just needed to vent and in no way am I shaming a girl for how she makes her bag. I'm just frustrated.

I usually get 2-3 clients by this time and I only got one who paid me less than my usual rate, I didn't give him my full services because of this but I'm exctremely frustrated because I spent all the money I had on bills and groceries.

I know this sounds like such a non issue but I'm pissed because I paid for a hotel and haven't even made profit.

It's days like this I feel like either lowering my rates or just giving up.

I feel like this is the dumbest question but I currently have no friends in the industry since I went independent. It was easy for me to make friends when I worked for an agency for obvious reasons.

I've been getting quite a few girls telling me it's not okay to message them regarding trying to make friends and I'm wondering if they think I'm just another trick or something.

I feel super ignorant, but there are times where I'm desperate to talk to someone who gets it.

I'm currently not looking for friends anymore because I feel like a weirdo.

I've been getting quite a few people booking and they say they're here when they aren't. I just assume it's a fantasy booker but I'm starting to wonder if it's other girls booking in order to mess with your scheduling so they can book more clients.

For example: I had someone book 90 mins with me, wanting multiple things from my menu so it was going to cost quite a bit. Of course they never ended up showing up. So I missed out on other potential clients since I booked an hour and a half of my time.

I'm not saying this is the case, but has anyone else noticed this and has anyone caught another escort booking in order to get more clients?

These last two weeks have been absolute shit... Last week it was my period starting abruptly and today it's getting BV.

I had a slight feeling I may have gotten it because I tried using a sponge during an appointment last week which got stuck, and I tried to douche it out of me with water. I already know it's a terrible idea to put water up there but I was desperate and terrified.

I don't usually notice I have BV until I have sex, and in the middle of an appointment with a good reg I noticed a smell. I apologized profusely and held back tears while I told him I'll have to finish with a BJ. Thankfully he was really chill about it and was down to keep doing vaginal intercourse but I just couldn't.

I'm embarassed and pissed off because I need money. Luckily I have a prescription for flagystatin and I'm gonna get canesbalence to hopefully help with the smell because I really can't afford to not work at this point. I already took a week off because of my stupid period.

If it's not one thing it's a-fucking-nother. I hate having a sensitive vagina, I hate periods. I just hate life right now.

Rant over, thanks for listening.

My period wasn't due until tomorrow so I thought I would be fine, but as soon as I checked into the hotel my period started... I've tried the cosmetic sponge once before but I somehow still bled on the client. Maybe I didn't push it high up enough but is there anything I can do... I can't afford to not work at this point.