Hi,
I'm a trans man(32) and I am sexual sadist. I haven't had a whole lot of experience with bdsm but I've always had sadistic bdsm fantasies and was wondering if there is a place in the gay community for a trans masc person who is a sadist top? Please don't be jerks.
Edited for clarification: I'm in the U.S., particularly the Pacific Northwest
Hi,
I'm a trans man (32) and my end goal for my bottom surgery is suprapubic positioned Rff phalloplasty with alt flap scrotoplasty and in a perfect world I'd like UL but in reality I'm coming to terms with the fact that I'd rather preserve my native anatomy exactly how it is, just add extra parts to have the most sexual versatility in pleasure possible. I have recently come to the realization that one of my deeply seated needs for my transition is to be able to have a partner (I'm monogamous) that can both penetrate me in my native anatomy while also being interested in being penetrated by me. I came to this realization through a panic attack and a rather crushing realization and it has left me feeling like no one will want me and the body that aligns with my gender identity. I am attracted to masculinity and though I am pansexual I think that I am most likely to be attracted both physically and emotionally to another trans man or transmasculine person. Nothing remotely wrong with trans women or transfeminine people, just a personal preference.
What I'm looking for advice in is how to find the type of people that value the physical changes that my transition goals will result in while also being able to compliment my desires in a partner bith physically and emotionally. Are there specific dating site that anyone knows of, and subreddits that I'm unaware of? With everything that has happened recently, I am nowhere near ready for any type of relationship but I just want to know what resources or paths are out there when I am ready. Please help, I'm really fighting off feeling hopeless right now.
I've had a really difficult time starting my testosterone regimen as I had been prescribed tesosterone cypionate injections and right after my 5th weekly shot I developed and allergy to the preservatives in my T. We originally thought it was the carrier oil but I was prescribed testosterone enanthate and after just a few days had a similar allergic reaction. In between the prescriptions I missed one of my shots and that crash was brutal. Throughout this whole journey I have been using topical testosterone cream applied directly to my dick every day. We're currently figuring out what we're going to do so I don't have to stop my transition but these pics and my bottom growth progress have really helped calm my anxiety and help with my dysphoria. For reference the first two pics are me pre-T while flaccid, the third and fourth pics are pre-T after pumping, and the rest are from today after I finished pumping and massaging to alleviate any edema.
Hey y'all!
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Just took my 2nd shot like 10 minutes ago and I can already see and feel the changes after being on T for 1 week. I'm so excited to meet my little guy and watch him grow! 😁😁😁
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6/14/26: 1 week on T
6/4/26: pre- T
So I've seen on here that people say they can "feel" their tdick growing and stuff like that. I just started T 2 days ago which I'm super ecstatic about but I'm curious about what people mean when they say they can feel it growing? Like does it hurt? Does it just feel more "present". I know it's only the 3rd day but I feel like my little guy is already thicker? Like instead of feeling like a spaghetti noodle inside my foreskin it feels like a thin straw so that's exciting but I don't know if I've "felt" it growing. Can anyone explain?
Hello,
I'm a transmasc nonbinary dude(31) and I haven't started T just yet but I'm getting ready to soon and I was wondering if there are things you can do before starting T to make it easier and better for you once you are on T? I have a rather petite clitoris at the moment and honestly I'm terrified that I'm going to be small even after starting and being on T for a while. Any suggestions? Please help.
Hey y'all I'm just a transmasc nb dude who relatively recently realized my gender but I ache at the thought of getting stuffed and bred by girl cock. I'm a little nervous since I'm new to the scene and haven't had my trans cherry popped but I literally can't stop fantasizing about it. Just wanting to see what's out here, please be kind. ☺️