How do I actually dom with conductive loops?
My partner and I are very experienced with BDSM (heavy bondage, impact, sensory play, etc.) but we're new with e-stim (except for the violet wand). We just got a Coyote 3.0 and have been experimenting with the conductive loops (1 cock loops, 1 ball loops). We're planning to integrate it into a heavy bondage (latex sleepsack) scene soon.
My main struggle as the Dom: once the loops are on him and powered up, I feel like I lose a lot of my usual tools. I’m hesitant to touch or stroke him directly with my hands because I’m worried the current will pass through me and remove the sensation from him. Not to mention the risk of accidentally moving the loops.
So far it feels like I’m mostly just adjusting the intensity/patterns on the app, touching him in non-electrode areas, and doing dirty talk. It may works, but it makes me feel more like a “machine operator” than an active dominant.
Any tips or experiences or scenarios to share are welcome.