u/NSFW_Enjoyer_101

How did it feel? The mental aspect of the process and afterwards, plus when did you feel like you wanted to do it?

Did having a physical remainder of your dynamic do something for you? Did it change anything? When did you feel you were ready for that step?

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As a pleasure dom I hadn't liked edging much, I loved to see my partners overwhelmed with pleasure and derive my own pleasure from theirs.

But when you know we will reach that destination either way, and there are only so many orgasms her body can handle in a day before shutting down. The destination remains the same but the route changes.

Slow, teasing, pleaded, desperate. Like planting seeds of pleasure and longing, making her pay an installment of need and desire, deferred revenue on promises yet to be fulfilled.

To conquer a part of her mind, leave that itch that refuses to disappear, till they get what they would/did beg for, but only when you deemed appropriate.

The sweet release, like getting in a shot shower till all your aches melt away, like changing in your pajamas after a hard day.

Because you deserve it.

Brats and brat tamers I need some advice... How do you decide if you wanna push forward and punish your brats for their behaviour/ actions, make them finish their tasks even if they are whining and complaining about it the whole time? Or cut them some slack.

We have had this conversation out of dynamic a few times, she tells me she wants it harder, and that she likes it when she is forced to do her tasks and punishments.

But she whines so hard and pitifully while we are talking, I always begin to wonder if I should have some sympathy and cut her some slack...

I have seen from personal experience that she gets a lot more chipper and affectionate after I had forced her to do stuff, tasks shes avoiding for a day or 2 done and submitted in minutes.

Like a few days ago we had a spontaneous session since we were talking about spankings, and this girl spent 30 minutes whining about how she wanted anything but spankings, going so far as to say since relatives are visiting and shes in the guest room they will hear her so she cant... But like... She was already in position on all fours, had brought the implements, but the relatives part had made me give up... But the preparation makes me feel it was a ruse... (She came to slaps on her cunt which she earned during sessions so nothing changed but the location lol.)

Another time we were doing body writing and it was early in our relationship and she was freaking out about if she had to send proof and I didn't wanna overwhelm her so I said no, and she was openly disappointed and said she wanted to show me... But since I had refused she absolutely refused to send it afterwards...

We have safe worlds set up and ik she will use it if the task feels too much, which is the reason im even considering pushing her. But she had been going through a lot irl with her parents being gone thus having to babysit her infant brother, relatives coming over that are treating her like a borderline maid, university and stuff. And I just don't wanna be more of a burden, or worse hurt her.

Some would probably say im a bad tamer, well forgive me shes my first brat and I would much rather take it slow than traumatise her.

Have been talking to my little devil for about 2 months, although I dont think neither of us knew what we were getting when we started talking lol since she was looking for just a dom and was really inexperienced in the dynamic. Although I could immediately feel the brat on her from her tone and snap back in her responses usually. The bdsm test showed a 100% brat as well although that's not to be trusted completely it's something at least.

The tipping point was a few weeks ago, where we had discovered she had a thing for degradation, and after a great session she was hooked. And that was the beginning of her bratting hard, to piss me off so that I would be mean and punish her... In her words.

"When I'm being difficult and daddy gets all angry and says all those mean things to me and threatens to punish me, he looks so hot then..."

At this point I feel like there is no point in trying to gentle dom because she will be difficult till she gets what she wants. (I'm fine with it.) I told her she could come here for ideas if she wants, although I dread what you guys will tell her... But it seems she hasn't been so keen yet, or shes just secretly browsing, she seems find feing ignorance to stuff till asked directly...

But her bratting is evolving, before she was just being difficult, but for the last 2 days, shes backtracking and being coy. Like saying fuck you when told to do something then backtracking and saying " OOPS!! I meant to say love you!!"

I wonder how long before she finds out she can look for loopholes in my commands... Or that she can negotiate.

I have told her that she can communicate anything she likes and doesn't like. But for now her understanding has been stuck at that she can either agree or disagree, not that she can negotiate to reduce her sentence. 🤣 Or tries to find/become a attorney at brat...

(Also please dont worry, everything is explained clearly multiple times, and the exploration is done lightly with her being told in advance what to expect with the reinforcement she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to.)

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So my little girl had earned a reward, there was a bit of a miscommunication but since a reward was promised, I had to deliver.

Of course being a brat she asked for 5 things as rewards for 1 simple chore she would have had to finish either way, but that's not the point.

One of the rewards she wanted was a voice message, now that got me confused because a while ago (at least a month) I used to send her vms but there were no reactions to them like at most a "wow" thats it, so I assumed she didn't like receiving vms or my voice and had stopped sending vms(again for a whole month).

So when I asked her for clarification, she said she loved how hot my voice sounded, but was shy thats why she didn't respond.

So yeah you can act shy and reserved if you want, but it might come back to bite you in the ass. Communication is key people.

So my little girl had earned a reward, there was a bit of a miscommunication but since a reward was promised, I had to deliver.

Of course being a brat she asked for 5 things as rewards for 1 simple chore she would have had to finish either way, but that's not the point.

One of the rewards she wanted was a voice message, now that got me confused because a while ago (at least a month) I used to send her vms but there were no reactions to them like at most a "wow" thats it, so I assumed she didn't like receiving vms or my voice and had stopped sending vms(again for a whole month).

So when I asked her for clarification, she said she loved how hot my voice sounded, but was shy thats why she didn't respond.

So yeah you can act shy and reserved if you want, but it might come back to bite you in the ass. Communication is key people.

I was reading some blogs and posts about spankings and punishment in general. And things that can replace spankings.

And it was talking about how some punishments are refurbished/ taken from corporal punishment, and it mentioned Putting soap in mouth...

And like... 😭😭 Is that an actual punishment that some of you use/ have gone through. Like the idea if it seems so incredibly demeaning I dont think I could use it even if she has the worst potty mouth...

Also since you are here... Tell me your most unique punishments you have used/ went through.

She fell asleep mid session yesterday after asking for it herself, leaving sir high and waiting, with no warning.

So to punish her some tasks were given and she was put in an attention timeout till she finished them.

But I'm so used to yapping with her in the morning before we get to our lifes, that ignoring her and breaking that routine feels just as torturous to me... Sigh the thing we do for our bratty little girls...

||God you are too good for me.

God you are too crazy.

You took me clarity and sleep from me.

Got me writing this at 5 Am feeling hazy.

The session last night intense, your emotions like a fast drug to me.

Made you cum five times, god your are so good for me.

Everyone needs validation, everyone craves praise. You want for me got me feeling crazy.

Look at the messy state I left you in, I would lick you clean and continue till you end up in the exact same mess for me.

You got me feeling crazy baby, you got me feeling hazy.

Daddy loves you litte girl, you are the perfect one for me.||

Whatever you want(not smut), any kink, dynamic, topic(related to this).

I just wanna fill that reading itch today, the only limit, it should be fun, like not a info dump, the author knows how to have fun with his words.

Mini Rant, because I was just telling my princess I had a dream about her after an interesting and long conversation the night before. And this girlie proceeds to tell me she has been dreaming about me everyday for almost a week and when I ask her why she hadn't felt like conveying this information she says she was feeling shy. 👺

I dont doubt her, shes very bad at putting erotic things in words, she literally lost her breathing for a sec when I made her say pussy in vm. (Why did I need to do that? Seeing her embarrassed is very fun ok?)

So take my word for it and just tell them ok!? What every embarrassment you are feeling will only be praise for them. And there's the added benefit of perchance having your dreams become reality. Not to mention they might be worried if you are actually enjoying yourself (me) and the confirmation crubs doubt more than words ever could...

So yeah, tell them... Rant over.

Just looking to see what yall do when your partners need just that little bit of extra affection and care because they deserve it and are awesome. I know everyone is different and deals with different levels of mood flux and hormones. And just wanna know what yall do to go that tiny extra inch.

Idk if this breaks sub rules. I have the day off work, while my little girl doesn't, I would love to chat with someone to kill time and fill the mutual void if anyone is down. Please keep it respectful.