For the TLDR Crowd:

24M in Midtown Atlanta for long term regular dom. Currently on a fitness journey to lose weight.

My Kinks interests include:

Chastity, forced milking, edging, cum denial, CBT, nipple play, underwear, electro, bondage, prostate play, sounding, eating a dom’s cum, sucking off my dom, and hoods/masks, but I’m open to anything so long as it’s safe sane and consensual.

My hard limits include:

Scat, blood, permanent damage (including stds), drugs, or illegal activity.
DMs open

Recon: AtlantaSub1

For those who want more details:

I’m a sub looking to find a dom looking for a regular/ long term relationship. I’m in Midtown ATL near the Atlanta Eagle leather bar. Almost like this was my destiny to be kinky.

It’s kind of funny listing the things a sub looks for in a dom, but I think it’s important for setting expectations.

To start, am 24 and work full time as an engineer. I’ve got my own place, insurance strive to take care of myself. I know some doms are concerned that young subs are so needy with this kind of stuff.I am not. I also say this to relay that I am occupied with work during the week so if we ever plan on doing something online or meet up, it’d have to be in the evening/weekend.

I love to chat either online or in person and like a dom that communicates well and not just about BDSM (although we most certainly can!). In fact if you’re in the ATL metro area I’d love to meet at a bar/restaurant and just get to know each other first. No need to rush into a session at someone’s house. I can host as well at my apartment so don’t feel like you need to host.

I do have an extensive toy collection complete with: chastity cages, sounding rods, estim gear, jackoff toys, prostate toys, tit clamps and pumps, milking machines, cock rings, ball stretchers, and am adding more things to it with time. All I’m missing is a dom to hold the keys, control the devices, and tie me down snug.

Im open to all ages and builds. I mean obviously only 18+ but if you’re 40,50, or older that’s. I’ve done a couple sessions back in school with someone who was 60. As long as you’re a strong dom that can keep a sub on edge for hours that’s what matters.

Regimens are fun for me as well. I’m a creature of habit with some OCD. A dom that has the ability to schedule tasks for his sub on a regular basis is always fun. However if it’s regular photos be known I suck I suck at taking selfies of myself. That’s not to say I won’t send pics, but I don’t know how some of these guys get such perfect pics.

On a side note, I am currently on a fitness journey to lose 100 pounds (310-210). Currently, I’m at 295 over the last five weeks and have found a diet and exercise plan that is working. It would be great to have a dom that cares enough to see their sub get in shape and encourage them. I’m not looking for a coach. Some people will come on here and say they need a dom to whip them into shape. I am not like this. I think that’s a way to say, “I’m too lazy to figure this out on my own.” I am not this kind of person. I meal prep, exercise and seek out professionals to guide me. I just want to communicate this aspect of my life.

My Kinks interests include:

Chastity, forced milking, edging, cum denial, CBT, nipple play, underwear, post cum torture, electro, bondage, prostate play, sounding, eating a dom’s cum, sucking off my dom, and hoods/masks, but I’m open to anything so long as it’s safe sane and consensual. Subs will say they like everything and then come out with a whole list of no nos.

My hard limits include:

Scat, blood, permanent damage (including stds), drugs, or illegal activity.

If this sounds like something you’d like. Please respond to this thread, send a dm, or connect with me on Recon (AtlantaSub1). I hope to hear from you soon.

Does anyone have any advice on how/when to size up? I’ve had the same gauge rings for 3 years now and I’d like to start sizing them up. What is the general rule of thumb for nipple piercings.

Hello everyone, I’m looking to get into the habit of pumping my nipples pm a regular basis with the goal of increasing their sensitivity and size. I’d like to get some true man udders in the long run.

I wanted to get some input on some questions.

1. Does it matter that my nipples are pierced? The pumps I have go over the whole piercing. They’ve been pierced for 4 years now, so they are healed.

2. How long and how often should I pump to start out with?

3. I’ve got some supple nips suckers and screw nipple suckers is one better than the other for a beginner.

4. Any good tips for getting a good seal with a furry chest?

I have multiple devices (DTR, CAR, Mantor, SR) and I want to build better habits of wearing them. Here’s my thought process and I’d like to know if this will be sufficient to eventually achieve my end goal of total erect coverage (it’s a lofty long-term goal but I’m only 24).

First two months to start:

Weekdays: wear device for three hours after dinner while relaxing.

Weekends: wear device two hours in the morning and two hours in the afternoon.

2-4 months:

Weekdays: wear device for three hours after dinner while relaxing. Do manual method 3 for ten minutes each morning before work.

Weekends: wear device for 4 hours in the morning and 4 in the afternoon with the retainer worn in between.

4-6 months

Weekdays: wear device for three hours after dinner while relaxing. Do manual method 3 for ten minutes each morning before work. Wear retainer to work.

Weekends: wear device all day with retainer worn at nights.

6+ Months

Weekdays: wear device for three hours after dinner while relaxing. Do manual method 3 for ten minutes each morning before work. Wear retainer to work and to bed.

Weekends: wear device all day with retainer worn at nights.