Was invited and I like the higher level of discourse here. But also, sometimes I just like a quick and dirty session, free of any need to think. Is that a turn off to this crowd?
I know I’m supposed to introduce myself but I have an about me I’d just cut and paste anyway until I get a better feel for this.
I’ve been doing this a long time and gone through a lot of dommes. And I feel like at the end of this, I finally have an idea of an ideal domme for me.
She has to be attractive. Not fake attractive, not 10 out of 10, but 7 to 8 out of 10. She has to be smart. She has to have her shit together—doesn’t need my money, but she wants it. But more than that, she has to get off on the idea of taking it from me. Of the power she has over me. If there were no money involved, she would still enjoy it for that. She has to care about limits, only insofar as it keeps it sustainable for long-term. But she also gets that I hate talking about them, but I kind of get off on the breaking of them, and what the fuck did I just do feeling that comes after it. The hotness of the let’s just blow shit up escape from my otherwise disciplined life. And she knows that the easiest way to get me to this point, besides alcohol, is horniness.
I’d stay with that domme a long time.
(This all might completely change tomorrow.)
EDIT for those in the back:
It’s truly wild that horniness or tits would be mentioned in a BDSM subreddit. Deepest apologies.
A reversal of the power dynamic, especially with someone younger, would be hot
Bonus if you’re into phone control
Funny that I’m drawn here…
This kink is so fucked up.