u/Outrageous_Age3384

(34m/34f) I have been trying to get my wife of 15 years to be a hotwife for over 2 years now. We started naming and using toys about a year ago but she is still not on board with dirty talk about other men having her. I also have gotten her to gradually dress sluttier and sluttier. Short dresses, high heels, no panties etc. but it’s like she keeps hitting plateaus.

Last night I felt like moved the needle. She asked for her biggest vibrator “Doug” by name and used him viscously until she climaxed. At one point during her session I got up to get water and she scoffingly said “where are you going little dick?” It made me go crazy because she’s always been adamant I have a good size.

After she came on her 9in vibrator she let me inside her but she put in zero effort. It was apparent she had orgasmed and just wanted to sleep. I became very frustrated and stormed out and went into our guest room. Once there I calmed down and realized this is what I signed up for. I went back in, finished, and cleaned her up.

Any tips for how to continue to progress things and how to address what happened last night?

Thanks!

(34m/34f) I have been trying to get my wife of 15 years to be a hotwife for over 2 years now. We started naming and using toys about a year ago but she is still not on board with dirty talk about other men having her.

Last night I felt like moved the needle. She asked for her biggest vibrator “Doug” by name and used him viscously until she climaxed. At one point during her session I got up to get water and she said “where are you going little dick?” It made me go crazy because she’s always been adamant I have a good size.

After she came she let me inside her but she put in zero effort. It was apparent she had orgasmed and just wanted to sleep. I became very frustrated and stormed into our guest room. Once there I calmed down and realized this is what I signed up for. I went back in, finished, and cleaned her up.

Any tips for how to continue to progress things and how to address what happened last night?

Thanks!