So the question is, how would a couple, who're swingers, where the male half is open to bi-play, but the female is not, fit in? We belong to a local group that's bi-friendly and he's had some experiences and has enjoyed himself, he's comfortable(ish) with playing with a male.
Would we be better off going on a "regular" week, instead? Or is the bi-week crowd going to be OK with a straight F / Bi(ish) M?
It's been a hot minute since the wife and I last pegged, so I've been meaning to get used to a toy by having some solo play with our smallest dildo (which does have a nice, wide base.)
The question for those more experienced with playing solo, what do you find is the easiest position to use?
What I'm thinking to try is the first option, as we have some "sex cushions" that are quite firm, curved on top making them comfortable to straddle, and with a water-proof cover so they're easy to clean.
We don't have any "toy mounts" or "fucking machines," all I have to work with is what most people have in their homes.
Pretty sure we'll fit in with the Hedo crowd, we can be described as "nudist-swingers," so it's not "that" kind of post. LoL
The question is, is it OK to be nude on the clothing optional side of the resort, as well? Based on the name, "clothing optional" kinda of implies the answer is yes, but it never hurts to ask. We're asking because I tend to get nude any chance I get, and grabbing a cup of coffee and sitting on a balcony / patio in the nude in the morning would be so nice. Most likely we'd be looking at a garden-view room, just to keep the prices under control.
One other question, more about the people who go, not asking for any specifics, but on the whole, would you say the majority of guests do not get "sloppy drunk?" Neither of us drink, and sloppy drunks tend to kill the vibe for us.