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I've been to this Asian massage parlor 2 times there with the same older (50s) Chinese lady. She seems pretty cool. She doesn't seem to mind spreading my butt cheeks open while massaging me, so she's not super squeamish as far as I can tell.

How risky would it be to take a dildo or full harness and ask her to use it on me? I'm so nervous even considering it.

Anyone had experience with getting a massuess to peg or use toys on them? How did you approach it ? Anyone tried but failed?

EDIT : forgot to mention she gave me a hand job both times. I'd never try to do this at a "legit" massage parlor

Obviously, the least "spontaneous" sex act is pegging, or anal anything in general.

But I keep reading here from people that have pegging sessions every day or even multiple times a day.

How? I've played with dildos etc in the past but it takes ne like 2 hours to get clean and make sure I stay clean.

How fast do the people who get pegged often clean out ? Some people here make it seem like it's a quick 5 minutes enema and they're good to go

So we are both in our late 40s, married for 20 years, and I finally had the courage to bring up pegging.

I was hoping for any women on here who were hesitant or not interested at all or even against it, but after trying it, really loved and it now it's become a regular part or your sex life ?

How has it affected your relationship?

On a scale of 1 to 10, how hesitant were you at first ?

On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you enjoy it now ?

Just looking for honest feedback from women on here to maybe show my wife and hopefully get her more interested and less hesitant or worried.

Thank you so much! Cheers !

I've hinted to my wife I want to try pegging for years now, and I even secretly brought a harness and dildo a while back, but I'm wondering if bringing up fisting is less.... "weird" and potentially less damaging to her perception of me than pegging ?

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Curious if anyone else had a "vanilla" partner but was able to successfully get into fisting or even just regular fingering, and then maybe that transitioned into pegging?

I love the stories on here when female partners were reluctant to try pegging but loved it once they tried it, but I almost never hear the opposite evej though I'm fairly sure that most women who try pegging at request of a male partner end up not liking it. I imagine the role reversal takes a relatively kinky women to get into it.

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I suspect my wife will be like this once she actually tries it.

I love how so many wives and girlfrinds on here are so open minded and genuinely love their partners enough that they often say the best part of pegging is seeing how turned on and happy their man is. I've always thought that was so sweet and even romantic.

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But my question to those amazing women : how far are you ok with this? What if your husband wants to get feminized on top of the pegging ? I mean full body hair removal, wearing thongs or lingerie, wigs, makeup, dirty talk during pegging about him being a good girl etc

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I know feminization and pegging are 2 seperate things, but it's not uncommon to see those two kinks interwined.

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I can see how a woman who is open to and even enjoys pegging can be turned off by her man being feminized, so I'm curious to hear from the women on this forum what they think of this topic

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Thanks !

Honestly my ultimate goal, after (maybe) ever getting my wife to peg me at all, is to get fisted.

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Just thinking about it makes me hard. How many of you who get pegged also are now able to get fisted by your partner ? How do you like it and how long did it take you to do it?

No matter how long I clean, I always end up having some poop. I'm never really clean.

Yes my diet isn't great, but i usually do a few days of Metamucil a week or so before and have a good enem bulb. I start cleaning out like 2 hours before play

I had a good thing going with this older woman who loved pegging, but the 3rd time we met a little bit of watery poop came out, she assured me it's ok but she kind of ghosted me after.

Do you guys ever have accidents? How do you deal with it, and for the woman, isn't it kind of a huge turn off ? It's hard enough finding women who are into pegging to begin with. If I ever get my current wife to finally try it and still have an accident, that will be it.

Thanks

Indicate if you are Male or female and if you would be ok or even prefer a relationship where the only sex you have is pegging

Online chat ?

First date ?

Before marriage?

After marriage?

One night stand spontaneously?

And how did it come up?

Love these kind of stories (real only please)

Curious to hear from both men and especially women, how far does the dirty talk grt? How extreme ? And had it ever had a negative effect on your life outside the bedroom ?

I have a very hidden humiliation and degradation fetish (during sex play only), but obviously haven't ever told anyone and certainly not my wife. Haven't even got courage to bring up pegging at all.

Thanks !

I've used an IPL to remove all hair on pubes, butt cracked, butt cheeks, armpits, and thighs

Recently had to shave chest foe medical test and wife reacted very negatively . I know she's made some snide comments on my armpits amd thighs, but the chest just set her off, called me feminine etc

I know this isn't pegging per se, but I know a good subset of people here have talked about hair removal and pegging often goes hand in hand with feminization.

Does your man shave? What are your feelings about it ?

Do you genuinely get off on it ? As in orgasm ?

And how many of you are into degrading your man while you peg him ? Calling him fa**ot , bottom boy, sissy, having a small clit, or how other men are better than him etc ?

I posted here asking how to get my wife to peg me, but couple of nights ago while watching her gay porn in bed ajd mutually masterbating, I finally got the courage to encourage her to degrade me a little. Told her how hot it would be for her to go see other guys while I'm getting fucked by other men etc (that latter part has always been her fantasy for me)

To my joy she actually responded back, how hot it would he how it turns her on to have a boyfriend while I get used by other men etc.

Needless to say had the strongest orgasm in years.

But now I'm wondering: do women genuinely get off on stuff like that ? Do you? Or do you just play along to get him off?

Anyone else have this same issue ?

We tried pegging once years ago, but never since. She knows I want to do it but she just kind of never says anything, and the few times I suggested it she kind of just ignores it

She loves male gay porn and we often watch it and masterbate together. She's actually the one who got me into it. Eventually this led to her fantasy of me bottoming for other guys.

Haven't done it yet but terrified of the consequences. Fantasy and reality are two different things, and I went from worrying about how she would feel about me if we started pegging to me literally being penetrated by other men.

I don't have any interest in men aside from sex, and even then just their c**cks really. So I'm really turned on by the idea and was shocked when my wife suggested it. She really seems to want it too, like she actually wants me to have a boyfriend etc.

Kind of a tough and bizarre situation. I know many guys who enjoy pegging also tried bi stuff with other dudes, ao anyone here had a similar experience and if so, hiw did it work out ? Did your relationship change or how she views you after?

Thanks

Really curious how it came about?

Who brought it up?

How did it come up ?

How was your first time ?

Did you ever have any "accidents" during play?

How has it changed your relationship?

Do you dress up? Thongs etc ? If yes who suggested it

Does your wife / gf treat you different? Worried about that one

Kind of a wierd one, but do you shave down or back there ? I have a pretty hairy butt and don't want to gross out my wife if we somehow get to try this

Thanks !

Married 18 years.

We tried it once. Years ago.

She knows I want it, but she never commits really.

I'm honestly fine if all we do is peg, plus whabtwr it takes to get her off. We haven't had PIV sex in months anyways, and she cums from her vibrator.

Is there a way to indirectly put the thought in her Brain and make it appealing ?