Re-claimed her Self-Pleasure
Despite my encouragement, T has never been one to indulge in masturbation. She has maintained that “You do it better… It’s not as fun without you… I feel weird about it…” Outside of using a dildo and wand for some final orgasms after sex, I have never seen her masturbate in 20+ years.
All that changed a few weeks back. We bought a new sex toy from our favorite Australian supplier and received a free audio download “Re-claiming your Clitoris”. I asked T if she wanted to try it one night, and she agreed.
We both laid in bed, each with an ear-bud in, and listened to the meditation. It starts with relaxation and breath work, moves in to gentle touch, and eventually to self-pleasure at the listener’s level of desire. The narrator/creator is a sexy sounding Australian woman who is playing along, so to speak, and giving affirmations. 30minutes in all.
T followed along, and it was not long before I heard her moaning with pleasure and furiously rubbing her clit. It was exceptionally hot, and she had a few great orgasms.
Since then, she has “Re-claimed her Clitoris” and is so sexy and free with herself during our connection time. She is nearly as obsessed with and curious about her clit as I am.
I absolutely love and adore this woman as my Wife, and am so proud of her for realizing that she has the right to derive pleasure from her body.
Anyone else have a similar experience to share?