36 [M4A] Hamilton - Looking for someone to hang out and do things with

Note: flair is "male seeking female" because there's no option for "male seeking any". I'm open to anyone :)

I'm a 36 year old guy living on the mountain looking to meet new people and hopefully make a friend or two.

Life has been mostly work, food, sleep, and trying to remember what hobbies are, lol, so I want to try and change that a little bit.

I'm pretty laid-back. In my downtime I usually watch TV shows and movies. Right now I'm watching Dragon Ball Z, Parks and Rec, Big Bang Theory, and Friends. I also play video games occasionally, mostly Cities: Skylines 1. It would be cool to find someone else who plays and maybe build a city together.

I'm also into web dev as a hobby. I have a bunch of project ideas that have been sitting around, and with AI coding tools getting better, I'm hoping to finally start making progress on some of them. It could be fun to work on a small project with someone, even just casually.

I'd also be down for stuff like grabbing food, watching a movie, going for a walk, etc.

Mainly looking for friends for now. Tell me a bit about yourself and what kinds of things you might be interested in doing together.

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u/PlaceWooden1350 — 1 day ago

36 [M4A] Hamilton, Ontario, Canada - Looking for a feedee

Hello, I'm a 36 year old male from Hamilton, Ontario looking for a female or femboy feedee that likes to indulge and give in to their cravings.

Whether you're just starting out or you've been gaining for a while, I'd love to help with and be a part of your journey to be your best and curviest self. Either as a friend or building towards something more.

I myself am around 6 feet tall and on the thinner side. I enjoy my work, so I'm often working even when I'm not working lol. I like watching movies and TV shows (currently watching Parks & Rec, Big Bang Theory, Friends, and Dragon Ball Z). Occasionally play video games but not as much as I used to. And of course I love good food and watching others enjoy it as well.

Looking for someone local-ish, in or around Hamilton, Toronto, or anywhere else in Southern Ontario that's within an hour drive.

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u/PlaceWooden1350 — 4 days ago

36 [M4F] Hamilton, Canada - Looking for a long-term female-led relationship (FLR)

I'm a 36-year-old guy from Hamilton, Ontario. I'm black and about 6 feet tall with a slim-to-average build. I've always been more comfortable in relationships where the woman takes the lead. Someone who knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to set the tone.

I'm looking for something real and long-term with someone who enjoys being in charge and wants a partner who's happy to follow her lead and have her back along the way.

I'm pretty easygoing and laid-back. I'm also a bit of an introvert, but I tend to open up quickly once I get to know someone.

I'm especially fond of larger women, but open to all body types. I've always appreciated women who are comfortable being themselves, whatever that looks like. There's just something about being with someone who has a more "large and in charge" physical presence lol. But honestly, the connection matters way more than anything else.

If any of this resonated with you, I'd love to hear from you.

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u/PlaceWooden1350 — 29 days ago

36 [M4F] Hamilton, Ontario, Canada - Looking for something real

I'm a 6'2 thin-average body male, hoping to find someone for a genuine connection.

I'm not so much looking for a feedee as I am looking for someone who just loves to indulge and be themselves and knows that they'll always be loved and supported for who they are.

I'm looking for a relationship with someone local, if you're further away, we can still chat but that would be the extent of our relationship.

Thanks for reading and don't hesitate to say hello :)

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u/PlaceWooden1350 — 30 days ago

35 [M4F] Hamilton, Ontario, Canada - Low-pressure practice dating?

This is probably going to sound a bit odd, but I figured I'd just be honest and post it anyway lol.

I haven't dated in a long time, and I feel pretty out of practice with the whole thing. Not just dating itself, but even the smaller stuff around it. Talking to someone in that way, flirting a bit, going for coffee, seeing if there's a vibe, that kind of thing.

I'm also currently living at home, which at 35 doesn't exactly do wonders for your confidence lol. I know it's not the end of the world, but it has made dating feel a lot harder.

What I'm looking for is someone who might be in a similar boat. Maybe you've been out of dating for a while too, or you feel awkward/inexperienced/self-conscious about it and would like something that feels a bit more low-pressure.

Don't want to mislead anyone or pretend this is something it's not. I'm also not looking to rush into anything sexual. I guess the best way to describe it is "practice dating", where we both know what it is and can be honest about boundaries and expectations.

I'm open-minded about age, looks, and body type. I care more about whether we're both kind, patient, and comfortable with each other.

We can just start by chatting and see how it feels. If we're both comfortable, maybe we can grab coffee or something simple. No pressure or judgment, just something honest and hopefully not too awkward lol.

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u/PlaceWooden1350 — 2 months ago

Recently took an interest in video game development and started looking into Unreal Engine. I'd love to do this with someone instead of going it alone.

I can probably dedicate 1-2 days a week.

My goal is to try and build a game like Saints Row 1 or 2, or early GTA (Vice City, San Andreas). But obviously at a much smaller scale lol.

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, let me know.

Open to working with anyone, male or female, but there's no "seeking any" tag.

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u/PlaceWooden1350 — 2 months ago