49 (FM4A) looking for others to enjoy together
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49 (FM4A) looking for others to enjoy together

Hey all. Couples, Females, and select males. Trying this again to help refine our search. We’re a committed couple, married 20 years. Looking to invite others into our amazing sex life. We’re extremely clean, have been exclusive to each other, are good people, educated, professional, and good communicators. We are looking for females, couples, or select males to chat with and soon meet.

If you are a select males please check these boxes. Don’t waste your or our time by circumventing any of them. Not to be high maintenance, but my wife just has preferences and it’s baby steps for her, so we’re looking for a match:

- Be clean! DDF and hygiene important
- Non smoker (Social Drinking is ok!)
- White or Latino (no South Asian or Asian. Just a preference! Sorry)
- No beards (light trim ok)
- Fit (but not super bulky gym beast)
- ~30 - 45 years old
- hair on your head 😎
- intelligent
- playful (don’t take yourself too seriously)
- be willing to show a face pic if everything else is a fit! As will we if things look good.
- finally, BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR! This will start out with texting and, if there’s playfulness, some sexting with her 🔥 I’m sure. Hard to get chemistry and flirting going if you’re not able to engage often. We’d also like to meet you over a drink if things are going well, so it would be nice if you’re available for that. While we know everybody has busy lives, as do we, it shouldn’t be too hard or take much effort to arrange a meeting and eventually a time to have fun together.

For single males, this is more about her and exploring her body together with me, maybe over a 4 hand massage or something similar. For couples and females, yes she is bi, so would love to chat with you as well!

Please say more than just hello and tell us about you in your introduction.

If you made it this far, that’s great! Hoping to hear from you.

u/Plane-Blacksmith-946 — 9 hours ago

49 [MF4A] exploring adding to our bedroom

Hey all. Couples, Females, and select males. Trying this again to help refine our search. We’re a committed couple, married 20 years. Looking to invite others into our amazing sex life. We’re extremely clean, have been exclusive to each other, are good people, educated, professional, and good communicators. We are looking for females, couples, or select males to chat with and soon meet.

If you are a select males please check these boxes. Don’t waste your or our time by circumventing any of them. Not to be high maintenance, but my wife just has preferences and it’s baby steps for her, so we’re looking for a match:

- Be clean! DDF and hygiene important
- Non smoker (Social Drinking is ok!)
- White or Latino (no South Asian or Asian. Just a preference! Sorry)
- No beards (light trim ok)
- Fit (but not super bulky gym beast)
- ~30 - 45 years old
- hair on your head 😎
- intelligent
- playful (don’t take yourself too seriously)
- be willing to show a face pic if everything else is a fit! As will we if things look good.
- finally, BE A GOOD COMMUNICATOR! This will start out with texting and, if there’s playfulness, some sexting with her 🔥 I’m sure. Hard to get chemistry and flirting going if you’re not able to engage often. We’d also like to meet you over a drink if things are going well, so it would be nice if you’re available for that. While we know everybody has busy lives, as do we, it shouldn’t be too hard or take much effort to arrange a meeting and eventually a time to have fun together.

For single males, this is more about her and exploring her body together with me, maybe over a 4 hand massage or something similar. For couples and females, yes she is bi, so would love to chat with you as well!

Please say more than just hello and tell us about you in your introduction.

If you made it this far, that’s great! Hoping to hear from you.

u/Plane-Blacksmith-946 — 9 hours ago

49 (MF4A)

We have been married 20 years and are deeply in love with each other. We’re opening up our space to invite another in. We’re both really easy-going people positive, educated and a lot of fun. Looking for M or F (or both) to join us.

If you’re a single male, please make sure you check these boxes:

- Are fit
- A good person
- educated
- Can read a room
- Can also take initiative if the moment calls for it
- CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN
- non smoker
- White or Latino
- No big beards
- over 30 under 50

A good communicator! (we’ve had guys just disappear or flake out or just don’t put in an effort to make things happen).

While we know everybody has a life and we don’t expect yours to revolve around ours, we do expect an effort in communication (texting) and eventually getting together.

This will start with texting with me first and then my wife. Then we would like to meet for a drink to see if vibes check.

Can’t stress enough the importance of being a good communicator. You can’t have tension and buildup if you’re not going to be responsive in sexting etc. lol. We are busy people too, but there’s always time for some flirting and fun.

This is new for us, so it’s baby steps, but if the vibe is good open to a 4 hands massage for my wife or just some drinks and an exploration of her body. More can be discussed if there’s a connection.

Please introduce yourself. Low effort responses will just be ignored. Thank you!

u/Plane-Blacksmith-946 — 3 days ago

49 [MF4A] come join us..

We have been married 20 years and are deeply in love with each other. We’re opening up our space to invite another in. We’re both really easy-going people positive, educated and a lot of fun. Looking for M or F (or both) to join us.

If you’re a single male, please make sure you check these boxes:

- Are fit
- A good person
- educated
- Can read a room
- Can also take initiative if the moment calls for it
- CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN
- non smoker
- White or Latino
- No big beards
- over 30 under 50

A good communicator! (we’ve had guys just disappear or flake out or just don’t put in an effort to make things happen).

While we know everybody has a life and we don’t expect yours to revolve around ours, we do expect an effort in communication (texting) and eventually getting together.

This will start with texting with me first and then my wife. Then we would like to meet for a drink to see if vibes check.

Can’t stress enough the importance of being a good communicator. You can’t have tension and buildup if you’re not going to be responsive in sexting etc. lol. We are busy people too, but there’s always time for some flirting and fun.

This is new for us, so it’s baby steps, but if the vibe is good open to a 4 hands massage for my wife or just some drinks and an exploration of her body. More can be discussed if there’s a connection.

Please introduce yourself. Low effort responses will just be ignored. Thank you!

u/Plane-Blacksmith-946 — 3 days ago

49 [MF4A] massage for wife.

Didn’t think I would have to post this again, but people flaking out on here apparently. Here we try again:

Looking for someone CLEAN, fit, educated, easy going, that would be interested in massaging my wife with me. A scene where she just relaxes and has 4 hands on her. Yes your fingers can roam, and maybe later a tongue as well (she tastes amazing! Very very clean as well. She’s meticulous about hygiene). How far it goes depends on her basically. This is not a quickie. Will start with chatting online first, then a drink date. Then go from there. This is our first steps in inviting another into our bedroom life, so it’s with her lead. Sorry, not into South Asians. Just preference. No big beards either. Please be in good shape and be a cool person to talk to.

u/Plane-Blacksmith-946 — 20 days ago
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49 [MF4A] massage for wife

Looking for someone CLEAN, fit, educated, easy going, that would be interested in massaging my wife with me. A scene where she just relaxes and has 4 hands on her. Yes your fingers can roam, and maybe later a tongue as well (she tastes amazing! Very very clean as well. She’s meticulous about hygiene). How far it goes depends on her basically. This is not a quickie. Will start with chatting online first, then a drink date. Then go from there. This is our first steps in inviting another into our bedroom life, so it’s with her lead.

u/Plane-Blacksmith-946 — 3 days ago