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My wife and I had an amazing (and unexpected) experience with our neighbor

We had a little party for the 4th last night and had around 20 or so people over for a pool party. For most of the day, it was uneventful and just friends and family hanging out in the pool. We cooked hamburgers and hot dogs and just drank. Our next door neighbor also came over. She and my wife are good friends, they routinely go out and grab dinner once a week just to grab some happy hour and chat for a few hours. My wife has told me that her friend used to be a professional domme and is also a sex toy seller, so I’ve known for a while that she has a wilder side but I’ve never seen it firsthand. Before tonight, the furthest we’ve gone with this friend was after a long night going “okay we’re going to have sex on the couch now, you can stay and watch if you want.” At that point in time she declined (I think it may have just been too late) so nothing physical had actually happened yet.

Well after the party winded down, it was just her, my wife, and I hanging out on the couch. We’re pretty open with our sex life (well, with certain friends who are also more open) so we didn’t exactly make it a secret that we were going to go upstairs and have sex. She was joking around with my wife telling her “hey come on, now’s the time to go up and have sex! It’s your sexy time!” She then told me, “come on PlasticCraken, you’ve got to turn your wife on! Do it like this!” Then she started rubbing my wife’s breasts (after asking if it was okay, of course). My wife had a pretty hot response and told her that her body was open. It started off pretty playful and joking around, but after a few minutes it became clear that it was going from playful to actually sexual.

So I started rubbing my wife along with her. Her friend was telling me where to rub and what to do. She started spanking my wife. After about five minutes of caressing my wife, her friend told me “I want you to ravage her right now.”

I didn’t need to be told twice and I ripped my wife’s shorts off her in record time. She maneuvered into a half prone bone, half doggy style position for me. I was already rock hard at this point and my wife was wet enough from the rubbing that I slid right in with no resistance. Her friend was still rubbing her as I started fucking her on the couch right in front of her friend. Her friend kept commanding me on what to do, fuck her harder, told me to dominate her (she knows I’m usually the take charge one with my wife), grab her hair, etc. It was really hot to be guided and told what to do while I was fucking my wife a foot from her friend.

After a few minutes of me riding her, her domme friend looked at me and told me “I want you to cum hard in her. Come hard!” And kept directing me to cum, over and over. Well of course, while being commanded to cum from someone, it didn’t take very long. I was moaning like a banshee as I blew into my wife. She told me “good boy” as I finished.

Completely unplanned and unexpected (although we’ve cultivated an open atmosphere where stuff like this can blossom), but amazingly fun. It was pretty short, maybe only ten minutes, but it was so intense. My wife and I both agreed that we definitely want to do it again. After talking with her friend this morning (after sobering up), she agreed that she had a blast with us too! Hopefully lots more fun experiences like this in the future, and based on how everyone felt about it this morning, it is definitely a strong possibility! She actually apologized for being out of practice since it has been so long since she did pro domme work, but it was great. We told her we’d happily be her guinea pigs if she ever wanted to practice it again!

My fantasy side is hoping eventually I can possibly include some of my sissy tendencies. Normally even when I’m domming my wife, I’m still dressed up in lingerie and heels. Would be fantastic to have a dom force me into that with my wife right there. We’ve already had a threesome where I wore one of her dirty thongs (it was fantastic when the other girl grabbed it while I was fucking her in missionary). Future goals that may actually happen!

My wife and I had an amazing (and unexpected) experience with our neighbor yesterday.

We had a little party for the 4th last night and had around 20 or so people over for a pool party. For most of the day, it was uneventful and just friends and family hanging out in the pool. We cooked hamburgers and hot dogs and just drank. Our next door neighbor also came over. She and my wife are good friends, they routinely go out and grab dinner once a week just to grab some happy hour and chat for a few hours. My wife has told me that her friend used to be a professional domme and is also a sex toy seller, so I’ve known for a while that she has a wilder side but I’ve never seen it firsthand. Before tonight, the furthest we’ve gone with this friend was after a long night going “okay we’re going to have sex on the couch now, you can stay and watch if you want.” At that point in time she declined (I think it may have just been too late) so nothing physical had actually happened yet.

Well after the party winded down, it was just her, my wife, and I hanging out on the couch. We’re pretty open with our sex life (well, with certain friends who are also more open) so we didn’t exactly make it a secret that we were going to go upstairs and have sex. She was joking around with my wife telling her “hey come on, now’s the time to go up and have sex! It’s your sexy time!” She then told me, “come on PlasticCraken, you’ve got to turn your wife on! Do it like this!” Then she started rubbing my wife’s breasts (after asking if it was okay, of course). My wife had a pretty hot response and told her that her body was open. It started off pretty playful and joking around, but after a few minutes it became clear that it was going from playful to actually sexual.

So I started rubbing my wife along with her. Her friend was telling me where to rub and what to do. She started spanking my wife. After about five minutes of caressing my wife, her friend told me “I want you to ravage her right now, just rip her shorts off.”

I didn’t need to be told twice and I ripped my wife’s shorts off her in record time. She maneuvered into a half prone bone, half doggy style position for me. I was already rock hard at this point and my wife was wet enough from the rubbing that I slid right in with no resistance. Her friend was still rubbing her as I started fucking her on the couch right in front of her friend. Her friend kept commanding me on what to do, fuck her harder, told me to dominate her (she knows I’m usually the take charge one with my wife), grab her hair, etc. It was really hot to be guided and told what to do while I was fucking my wife a foot from her friend.

After a few minutes of me riding her, her domme friend looked at me and told me “I want you to cum hard in her. Come hard!” And kept directing me to cum, over and over. Well of course, while being commanded to cum from someone, it didn’t take very long. I was moaning like a banshee as I blew into my wife. She told me “good boy” as I finished.

Completely unplanned and unexpected (although we’ve cultivated an open atmosphere where stuff like this can blossom), but amazingly fun. It was pretty short, maybe only ten minutes, but it was so intense. My wife and I both agreed that we definitely want to do it again. After talking with her friend this morning (after sobering up), she agreed that she had a blast with us too! Hopefully lots more fun experiences like this in the future, and based on how everyone felt about it this morning, it is definitely a strong possibility! She actually apologized for being out of practice since it has been so long since she did pro domme work, but it was great. We told her we’d happily be her guinea pigs if she ever wanted to practice it again!

Happy to answer any questions!

My wife and I had an amazing (and unexpected) experience with our neighbor

We had a little party for the 4th last night and had around 20 or so people over for a pool party. For most of the day, it was uneventful and just friends and family hanging out in the pool. We cooked hamburgers and hot dogs and just drank. Our next door neighbor also came over. She and my wife are good friends, they routinely go out and grab dinner once a week just to grab some happy hour and chat for a few hours. My wife has told me that her friend used to be a professional domme and is also a sex toy seller, so I’ve known for a while that she has a wilder side but I’ve never seen it firsthand. Before tonight, the furthest we’ve gone with this friend was after a long night going “okay we’re going to have sex on the couch now, you can stay and watch if you want.” At that point in time she declined (I think it may have just been too late) so nothing physical had actually happened yet.

Well after the party winded down, it was just her, my wife, and I hanging out on the couch. We’re pretty open with our sex life (well, with certain friends who are also more open) so we didn’t exactly make it a secret that we were going to go upstairs and have sex. She was joking around with my wife telling her “hey come on, now’s the time to go up and have sex! It’s your sexy time!” She then told me, “come on PlasticCraken, you’ve got to turn your wife on! Do it like this!” Then she started rubbing my wife’s breasts (after asking if it was okay, of course). My wife had a pretty hot response and told her that her body was open. It started off pretty playful and joking around, but after a few minutes it became clear that it was going from playful to actually sexual.

So I started rubbing my wife along with her. Her friend was telling me where to rub and what to do. She started spanking my wife. After about five minutes of caressing my wife, her friend told me “I want you to ravage her right now.”

I didn’t need to be told twice and I ripped my wife’s shorts off her in record time. She maneuvered into a half prone bone, half doggy style position for me. I was already rock hard at this point and my wife was wet enough from the rubbing that I slid right in with no resistance. Her friend was still rubbing her as I started fucking her on the couch right in front of her friend. Her friend kept commanding me on what to do, fuck her harder, told me to dominate her (she knows I’m usually the take charge one with my wife), grab her hair, etc. It was really hot to be guided and told what to do while I was fucking my wife a foot from her friend.

After a few minutes of me riding her, her domme friend looked at me and told me “I want you to cum hard in her. Come hard!” And kept directing me to cum, over and over. Well of course, while being commanded to cum from someone, it didn’t take very long. I was moaning like a banshee as I blew into my wife. She told me “good boy” as I finished.

Completely unplanned and unexpected (although we’ve cultivated an open atmosphere where stuff like this can blossom), but amazingly fun. It was pretty short, maybe only ten minutes, but it was so intense. My wife and I both agreed that we definitely want to do it again. After talking with her friend this morning (after sobering up), she agreed that she had a blast with us too! Hopefully lots more fun experiences like this in the future, and based on how everyone felt about it this morning, it is definitely a strong possibility! She actually apologized for being out of practice since it has been so long since she did pro domme work, but it was great. We told her we’d happily be her guinea pigs if she ever wanted to practice it again!

Without a $500 machine, I mean. The closest I’ve gotten is to mount a dildo into a sex pillow and pull it into me repeatedly with my legs, but that’s still a lot of work. I was hoping there was something easier or better out there

Fair warning: this post has a lot of sexual escapades. I love the direction our sex life is going in. Last night I put on one of her skin tight dresses with leopard print, put on one of her thongs, and put in a butt plug. She made me suck her strap on before I could ride it, which I absolutely loved. It basically ramps her up to a 10 too, a lot of times when I do that she’ll cum while the toy is vibrating while I suck on it. I get so turned on dressing up for her, and she says it turns her on as well. Any time she picks out lingerie now, she’ll also pick out something for me to wear. Another one of the hottest things she’s done is take one of her dirty thongs and shove it in my mouth then proceed to make out with me while it was in both our mouths.

Before my wife, the most I’ve ever done in that regard was buying a thong for myself and wear it occasionally. I’m so happy to be with someone that legitimately enjoys and gets turned on seeing me dress up slutty in women’s clothes. Lately my favorite has been her leopard print dress. It’s skin tight and absolutely hugs every curve. It’s so tight I have to work it on slowly. But man is it hot. It’s a strapless dress that barely comes down far enough to cover anything. She wore it as a slutty Halloween costume where she just looked 10/10 and oozed sexiness. I have a picture of her in it that I’ve jerked off to probably at least 100 times. So for me to be able to experience that same sexiness that I saw her in her when she wore it as a costume just sends me over the top. I like to pair that with one of her thongs, preferably one that she’s worn already and still has some of her scent/juices on it.

I never would have imagined six years ago that filling out a kink survey and me checking “curious” about crossdressing would lead to so much fun. I’ll never forget the first time I sheepishly told her it would be kind of hot to wear her underwear, followed by her then breaking them out and putting them on me to wear during sex that night. And now, basically every time we have sex now I am doing it in some form. Sometimes it’s just one of her thongs, other times it’s full dress, thong, stocking, heels, etc. We’ve even had a threesome where I wore one of her thongs. I can confidently say I never thought I’d be fucking another woman in my wife’s thong while she watched and masturbated.

We have such a hot sex life and there’s absolutely no one in real life I can tell since we aren’t that open with any of our friends, so I figured this would be a safe space! I highly recommend having a spouse that you share kinks with. Happy to answer any questions about our journey! If you made it this far, I hope you enjoyed!

Fair warning: this post has a lot of sexual escapades. I love the direction our sex life is going in. Last night I put on one of her skin tight dresses with leopard print, put on one of her thongs, and put in a butt plug. She made me suck her strap on before I could ride it, which I absolutely loved. It basically ramps her up to a 10 too, a lot of times when I do that she’ll cum while the toy is vibrating while I suck on it. I get so turned on dressing up for her, and she says it turns her on as well. Any time she picks out lingerie now, she’ll also pick out something for me to wear. Another one of the hottest things she’s done is take one of her dirty thongs and shove it in my mouth then proceed to make out with me while it was in both our mouths.

Before my wife, the most I’ve ever done in that regard was buying a thong for myself and wear it occasionally. I’m so happy to be with someone that legitimately enjoys and gets turned on seeing me dress up slutty in women’s clothes.

I never would have imagined six years ago that filling out a kink survey and me checking “curious” about crossdressing would lead to so much fun. I’ll never forget the first time I sheepishly told her it would be kind of hot to wear her underwear, followed by her then breaking them out and putting them on me to wear during sex that night. And now, basically every time we have sex now I am doing it in some form. Sometimes it’s just one of her thongs, other times it’s full dress, thong, stocking, heels, etc. We’ve even had a threesome where I wore one of her thongs. I can confidently say I never thought I’d be fucking another woman in my wife’s thong while she watched and masturbated.

We have such a hot sex life and there’s absolutely no one in real life I can tell since we aren’t that open with any of our friends, so I figured this would be a safe space! I highly recommend having a spouse that you share kinks with. Happy to answer any questions about our journey!

My wife is completely on board and loves hearing about my solo sessions. One of her favorite activities is breaking out the strap on and fucking me with it. However I can’t help but feel a little guilty, because I know she wants to give me prostate orgasms, but the most I can manage with the strap on is leaking a bit.

I think the difference is with my solo sessions, it normally takes about 30 minutes of build up before I’m riding waves. I think if we were to start that way it would help. What would she do during this though? About all I can think of is make out and maybe play with my nipples.

Any other suggestions? What do your wives do during the build-up/foreplay where you’re focusing on ramping up your prostate?

My husband and I have watersports sex every once in a while. I mostly do it because I know he enjoys it, but for me it’s more of a neutral thing that doesn’t really do much. During our aftercare we were discussing it and I think my main hang up is as soon as the pee shows up, I feel like I need to shower to get clean. It doesn’t feel hot to be covered in pee, it feels messy and dirty and more takes me out of the moment. It sucks because I can visibly see how much more turned on he gets and I want that too! I WANT to have a more positive reaction for my husband’s sake (and for my own sake because I want to give him his kink until we’re old and wrinkly lol). I want to be able to give him watersports and have the exact same reaction he does to it.

Since I want to like it more (we’re both pro kink conditioning to make sex more enjoyable and he’s already adopted several of my own kinks), I’m just a bit frustrated on the how to get over the aversion and start making it feel hot for me too. I love taboo things, but this one just makes me feel dirty (and not in a good way like I’d like). I want to love it because my husband loves it, and because if I also loved it, then every time we have watersports sex, I’d get to enjoy it too instead of it feeling like I’m doing it out of obligation.

I figured I would come to the pros to see if anyone here used to be in my shoes and were able to navigate through it successfully!