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I was with erasmus in Copenhagen and i used a dating app to meet people over there. Randomly I found a girl who's part of the same program as me and is also into nerd things(dnd mostly) so we started talking. I was immediately aware that she was super smart just from the way she talked. She used fairly verbose language which is probably because english wasn't her native language(neither is mine) but also she went to a fancy university that brought her there. I can't exactly describe how strange it was meeting her she obviously had some sort of autism and had some sort of like sadistic humor idk she was such an interesting person to talk to and we immediately clicked. After our first meeting concluded and I was getting ready in the evening when i got a bunch of texts from her twlling me what she's gonna do to me and ah, she was such a great dom, she knew so much about shibari and told me about times she did it before.

I forgor to mention but she was 185 cm (5'11') and spoke estonian which if you know something about elvish from lotr it is one of the languages its based on. When i told her that she seems like an elf she started playing into it, she told me that estonians live high up in trees and other fun bullshit like that and how they like to kidnap girls like me to eat.

The actual session was one of the weirdest but also really fun i had, she tied me up so I couldn't move and my breasts were exposed, then edge me relentlessly until i was close. Then she'd give me quiz questions and if I got three right she'll put a vibrator to my clit for 30 seconds but ir i got one wrong the streak breaks(and she yanked my nipple hard couple of the times when my answer was outrageously wrong) she also sometimes played with my nipples when i took too long to answer because that made it hard to think for me and she said my moans while I'm trying to think were really precious.

Nearing the end I was so close and I got 2 right in a row, I was begging to cum and then she said the question and it was in estonian, and she expected me to answer, I had no idea what she said but it was so cruel to change the rules last minute. I said yes to whatever she said and she let me cum finally

The whole thing was so crazy idk she was a very weird specimen I'll never forget, also she was the kinda top that doesn't really like getting touched themselves but fully gets off on torturing and making others feel good. She said she came like 4 times thinking about me being tied up later touching herself and had a time of her life and like you go girl damn.

idk just wanted to share this :P

I've seen multiple times that somehow giving oral puts you into a sub position? I guess it is the most mainstream way to look at it but for me even if you ignore the 'bdsm can make any action sub or dom depending to j the circumstance" i feel like even just regularly, the one giving oral is in control.

Think about it, your tongue is at their most sensitive place of their whole body, basically a backdoor to their nervous system, they can barely think straight and despite them technically i guess being able to give you commands you are currently in charge of the knot of neurons that messes with their brains thr most.

You can add in intensity, lower or stop together. If the sensation is strong the sudden absence of sensation will be just as strong. and they don't have much they can do about it. I do feel like you have to have some good willpower to stay dom when being eaten out cause my hands always get so weak and i feel like I can't form a thought 😭😵‍💫

anyway isk if im making sense my point is that giving oral gives you intense anount of control directly to their brain i feel like and i don't understand how could that be mostly thought of as a sub position ua

I've noticed that every time my period comes something just washes over me and I'm so horny but not in the usual i need something in my cunt horny but like i need to be cruel to someone horny. I need to cause pain to girls and see their eyes. I need to pinch their nipple hard and watch them feel the pain. Bite them hard, scratch their skin, overstim them.

Something in me just won't get satisfied until i see a girl in pain, not being able to call out either because her mouth is taped shut or I'm holding it but her eyes say everything. I need to edge her and cause her pain until I ruin her orgasm, then watch her get all sensitive post orgasm and feel all the bruises i gave her hurt all over again.

Im not even normally that dom its just something that uhh happens once a month 😭😭😭

Does anybody else have an urgent need to be really cruel to somebody, edge them for hours and then laugh in their ear softly as you tip them over the edge and let go, wasting their orgasm completely. I just need to hear their frustration as the buildup for multiple hours gets utterly ruined...

Their muscles down there spasming as if crying for just that little bit more stimulation to feel any sort of pleasure but that is denied. I need to see in their eyes as they realize no one is coming to save them, that I whom they have trusted have abandoned them :333

uaaaaaaaaaaah help idk why being on my period makes me like this

I never actually met anyone who was into them and was wondering how common it is to actually be apart of a dynamic during sex, would love to hear your experiences:3

We don't do bdsm stuffs that often, especially since both of us have much less time lately due to us being both employed and my gf having health issues. About a week ago I came up to her regarding our sex life, that it does feel like an afterthought lately and kind of a duty to do every day not really like a fun thing we do together? Like literally our sex was lately that right before we go sleep if she felt like she needed to blow off steam i would get her off by fingering and nipple stimulation. Well I told her that I would like it to be more fun like do something that isn't just to relieve a bit of stress but to have fun.

forward to last night and I came earlier from work than her, I showered and I was doing stuff on the computer when she comes in, and after decompressing from work she brings out the rope from our closet and tells me to lay down. She tied me up and kneel above over me having me between her legs. I was really surprised by this since it was literally at least 4 months since we did anything with the rope and also since she dommed. She then blindfolded me and ran her fingers across my tummy and titties, carefully avoiding my nipples of course because she's evil.

Then out of nowhere she gets out of her position, leaving me wondering what's gonna happen next... before putting her armpit in my face, sweaty from days worth of work in the garden centre. Putting my head in a headlock and forcing me in there. I was never like into armpits or anything? I liked her scent kinda but this was out of nowhere really but damn. It felt like my brain was being rewired like her fingers extended into my brainfolds and massaged them uaaah can't really describe the feeling but it was so intense. She then started to play with my nipples, pulling on them and massaging them, everytime I moaned i breathed in more and more of her. It felt like i had an out of body experience at that moment. I guess she waited for me if I'd give her a safe word or something but I didn't consider that a bit.

After about 5-10 mins(although i had a hard time keeping track of time) of nipple stimulation she moved on to my crotch and I was unbelievably drenched. She was as surprised as I was, I don't remember ever being this wet aaaaaaa

It felt really embarrassing but i don't know i guess i have a new kink now :P

We don't do bdsm stuffs that often, especially since both of us have much less time lately due to us being both employed and my gf having health issues. About a week ago I came up to her regarding our sex life, that it does feel like an afterthought lately and kind of a duty to do every day not really like a fun thing we do together? Like literally our sex was lately that right before we go sleep if she felt like she needed to blow off steam i would get her off by fingering and nipple stimulation. Well I told her that I would like it to be more fun like do something that isn't just to relieve a bit of stress but to have fun.

Fast forward to last night and I came earlier from work than her, I showered and I was doing stuff on the computer when she comes in, and after decompressing from work she brings out the rope from our closet and tells me to lay down. She tied me up and kneel above over me having me between her legs. I was really surprised by this since it was literally at least 4 months since we did anything with the rope and also since she dommed. She then blindfolded me and ran her fingers across my tummy and titties, carefully avoiding my nipples of course because she's evil.

Then out of nowhere she gets out of her position, leaving me wondering what's gonna happen next... before putting her armpit in my face, sweaty from days worth of work in the garden centre. Putting my head in a headlock and forcing me in there. I was never like into armpits or anything? I liked her scent kinda but this was out of nowhere really but damn. It felt like my brain was being rewired like her fingers extended into my brainfolds and massaged them uaaah can't really describe the feeling but it was so intense. She then started to play with my nipples, pulling on them and massaging them, everytime I moaned i breathed in more and more of her. It felt like i had an out of body experience at that moment. I guess she waited for me if I'd give her a safe word or something but I didn't consider that a bit.

After about 5-10 mins(although i had a hard time keeping track of time) of nipple stimulation she moved on to my crotch and I was unbelievably drenched. She was as surprised as I was, I don't remember ever being this wet aaaaaaa

It felt really embarrassing but i don't know i guess i have a new kink now :P

We don't do bdsm stuffs that often, especially since both of us have much less time lately due to us being both employed and my gf having health issues. About a week ago I came up to her regarding our sex life, that it does feel like an afterthought lately and kind of a duty to do every day not really like a fun thing we do together? Like literally our sex was lately that right before we go sleep if she felt like she needed to blow off steam i would get her off by fingering and nipple stimulation. Well I told her that I would like it to be more fun like do something that isn't just to relieve a bit of stress but to have fun.

Fast forward to last night and I came earlier from work than her, I showered and I was doing stuff on the computer when she comes in, and after decompressing from work she brings out the rope from our closet and tells me to lay down. She tied me up and kneel above over me having me between her legs. I was really surprised by this since it was literally at least 4 months since we did anything with the rope and also since she dommed. She then blindfolded me and ran her fingers across my tummy and titties, carefully avoiding my nipples of course because she's evil.

Then out of nowhere she gets out of her position, leaving me wondering what's gonna happen next... before putting her armpit in my face, sweaty from days worth of work in the garden centre. Putting my head in a headlock and forcing me in there. I was never like into armpits or anything? I liked her scent kinda but this was out of nowhere really but damn. It felt like my brain was being rewired like her fingers extended into my brainfolds and massaged them uaaah can't really describe the feeling but it was so intense. She then started to play with my nipples, pulling on them and massaging them, everytime I moaned i breathed in more and more of her. It felt like i had an out of body experience at that moment. I guess she waited for me if I'd give her a safe word or something but I didn't consider that a bit.

After about 5-10 mins(although i had a hard time keeping track of time) of nipple stimulation she moved on to my crotch and I was unbelievably drenched. She was as surprised as I was, I don't remember ever being this wet aaaaaaa

It felt really embarrassing but i don't know i guess i have a new kink now :P

We don't do bdsm stuffs that often, especially since both of us have much less time lately due to us being both employed and my gf having health issues. About a week ago I came up to her regarding our sex life, that it does feel like an afterthought lately and kind of a duty to do every day not really like a fun thing we do together? Like literally our sex was lately that right before we go sleep if she felt like she needed to blow off steam i would get her off by fingering and nipple stimulation. Well I told her that I would like it to be more fun like do something that isn't just to relieve a bit of stress but to have fun.

Fast forward to last night and I came earlier from work than her, I showered and I was doing stuff on the computer when she comes in, and after decompressing from work she brings out the rope from our closet and tells me to lay down. She tied me up and kneel above over me having me between her legs. I was really surprised by this since it was literally at least 4 months since we did anything with the rope and also since she dommed. She then blindfolded me and ran her fingers across my tummy and titties, carefully avoiding my nipples of course because she's evil.

Then out of nowhere she gets out of her position, leaving me wondering what's gonna happen next... before putting her armpit in my face, sweaty from days worth of work in the garden centre. Putting my head in a headlock and forcing me in there. I was never like into armpits or anything? I liked her scent kinda but this was out of nowhere really but damn. It felt like my brain was being rewired like her fingers extended into my brainfolds and massaged them uaaah can't really describe the feeling but it was so intense. She then started to play with my nipples, pulling on them and massaging them, everytime I moaned i breathed in more and more of her. It felt like i had an out of body experience at that moment. I guess she waited for me if I'd give her a safe word or something but I didn't consider that a bit.

After about 5-10 mins(although i had a hard time keeping track of time) of nipple stimulation she moved on to my crotch and I was unbelievably drenched. She was as surprised as I was, I don't remember ever being this wet aaaaaaa

It felt really embarrassing but i don't know i guess i have a new kink now :P