u/Regular-Concern-2105

Image 1 — New and improved, Here is the remade leather version.
Image 2 — New and improved, Here is the remade leather version.
Image 3 — New and improved, Here is the remade leather version.
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New and improved, Here is the remade leather version.

Bought this super awesome inflatable dildo gag ages ago, but it being made of latex it was apparently not durable. Broke pretty quick, so This was my chance to put some leather skills to use! This is the remade version, just want to show off my amateur leatherwork. Now there's no breaking out of it.

u/Regular-Concern-2105 — 7 days ago

Not sure what to call this

Hello, first time poster, long time lurker. I posted this earlier in another community, hope that's ok to post here too

Me (34m) and my partner (35f) have been playing for over 13 years, In the bedroom and at party's we attend. We attend local fetish events. Munches, dungeons, we travel for kink events. We are married, and do a ton of other stuff outside of play and are adventurous souls. We have always been monogamous, despite our shared fantasies, it's always stayed in the bedroom, and just us.

Lately, it's surfaced that there is somthing we would like to try, involving another person, and we are struggling to do our research on it because we don't even know what to call the kink. It involves a 3rd person, who is a submissive , and doesn't necessarily participate in sex, but is in a bottoming position. I don't think cuckqueening or cuckolding is the right word. It's more like a passive participant. As in someone who enjoys being tied up, teased and watching (with all sorts of other play involved depending depending etc etc)

So, does anybody have any insight into what this sort of thing is called so that we can research it further and do a bit more planning before we take any leaps finding a person who may enjoy it with us? We are pretty well aware of what steps to take regarding moving forwards, but we want to make it clear what we are looking for when we begin our search. Any advice?

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u/Regular-Concern-2105 — 13 days ago