I'm planning to build something like the below because import prices. My plan is a 4ft wide and 3ft tall bench, 16 inches deep. Im looking at 1 inch emt conduit, and connectors from here. Ill also use 3/4 plywood, foam, and upholsrery of course. I'm worried it won't be strong enough though. Has anyone built something like this?
Is there a 3d print or something that would hold onto it well?
It took me a few months of trial and error but I am over the moon with how it looks.
I'm building a serving tray for use with my wife and I'm trying to think through the mechanics of it.
Above is a rough sketch of the plan. Apologies for the shitty drawing but I'm usually a "do it in my head" builder. The design is that each breast would go on top of the board, between the three holes (maybe four) and then tightened down to secure. The blue rings would connect both to a collar as well as to wrist cuffs. Second best way to take my coffee imho.
Effectively what the problem I'm trying to solve is that the holes back there will be for likely a rope or strap of some kind that I can tighten down on her breasts. I'm also debating some U-bolts instead but I'm unsure.
Two challenges: She has very large, soft breasts, and I want this to be a "strong, constant pressure" not pinching. So my question is what would be the best way to tightly secure her breasts to the board without pinching. I'd ideally like it to be a "slip them in, and tighten it down" type solution as well rather than spending all the time wrapping.
So me and my partner are both really into the idea of creating a gag of a cast of some my fingers for him. However, I can’t figure out how to do this in a comfortable manner.
So far I’ve considered using a mould-a-willy kit, since I think that wil be a comfortable material to keep in his mouth for quite some time, but I can’t figure out a way to drill a hole in it to thread a cuff through to make it into a gag. My other option was 3D-printing it, but I don’t like that micro-plastics-wise.
I’m not a crafty person and I’m pretty new to DIY-ing kinky items, if that wasn’t clear. Can any of you help me out (probably by pointing out a really obvious solution)?
Why you may ask. It’s for extreme raceplay, nationplay, femdom,…ect. Like your ass is now invaded by the whatever. Very niche, I know.
I have the download to the instructions for free on my Ko-Fi. I made a pdf with some sketches and pictures of the dimensions, materials, and how I put it together.
Hopefully this helps some people. If anyone has any questions shoot me a DM.
Dont want to unsub but cmon its getting ridiculous everytime i open reddit theres a cunt flashing
Wanted a project to practice my pocket screw jig. With testing it’s a wet and wild ride. Definitely recommend. Made with cutting down some 2x4 to square off and some fabric and foam I had lying around. I think is looks really good and very functional.
Planning a box that can hold all my toys but also doubles as a mount for holding dildos in a doggy position. I want detachable suction cups on the bottom so it doesn’t slide around. I’ve been looking for a threaded suction cup, and would love some advice. Cheap is the budget unfortunately, otherwise I would get the smallrig suction cups and be done with it!
Nothing too special, but I spent about an hour making this yesterday. Carved by hand with a small chisel from a scrap piece of padauk. Used a pin vice to drill the hole for the chain before I started shaping. There's a carved channel in the back for the key to be glued into, after reducing the key down to the minimum functional size.
Sanded to 120 grit, then sanding sealer, then sanded to 400. Finished with beeswax and buffed to a shine.
I've been building an edging machine for the last couple of months. It's a Hitachi wand plugged into a cheap Tuya wifi smart plug, with a python/flask app on my home server that I control from my phone. The wand is mounted to a weighted box (lots of dead batteries in it - it's really heavy) with a silicone cock attachment so I can just lie down and my cock slides right into it (pic #4), which took a few tries to get right. The app pulses the wand on and off, and when I get close I hit a button on my phone and it cuts power and holds off for a while before starting again. Everything gets logged to sqlite, every single on/off pulse, how long each edge took, when I hit the button, what settings were enabled at the time.
It started out as basically a random on/off timer, which really wasn't much better than flipping the switch myself. Now it actually learns. It uses every previous session to analyse how long the pause after an edge should be, and adjusts on the fly based on how fast the edges are coming - if they're coming quick it backs off longer, if I'm taking forever (I'm 58 years old, so it's possible that I can get soft in the middle of the session or just begin to lose interest, lame, I know, but it happens) it pushes harder. (Pics #1 and #2 screenshots of the UI) there's a more/less button for when I feel like I need the pulses to last longer or shorter and separate buttons to end a session depending on whether I came, tapped out, got interrupted or lost my erection for some other reason, because those mean completely different things to the learning side of it. It also throws in the occasional longer burst or extra pause at random, because I found that a steady predictable rhythm gets boring sometimes. I love it when it's on, and then turns off just long enough for me to relax and catch my breath and my mind begins to wander for like 1/2 of a second and when it turns on again, I flip back into "holy shit I'm being vibrated" mode - muscles tensed, etc.. It draws charts afterward (pic #3) so I can see what actually happened instead of guessing (my brain is pretty foggy during the edging session and just pressing the "I'm close" button is difficult enough for me sometimes, much less trying to remember which edges were faster/easier than others).
The end goal is for the app to run the whole show - get me up to where the edges are happening under a minute apart, then keep me there and see how long it can keep me desperate before I break. Right now it's still too merciful, but it's learning. There's even a "me simulator" which should be able to simulate thousands of edging sessions using my actual stats, so the app can learn how to "play my body like a fiddle" after enough sessions. I told the AI that's helping me write the app, that if I orgasm, that's a fail. If I tap-out, that's a win. So, over time, the app should get better and better at keeping me edging over and over. I think that my record is like 12-ish edges now. Going for 20 or more in one session.
Since there's only really one input "the I'm close" button in the app, I've ordered a 60Ghz human vitals sensor (it's a proximity sensor that is so accurate that it can measure a person's heartbeat and breathing rate (the heartbeat of a person makes the skin of the body just slightly closer to the sensor for a fraction of a second (slower for breathing), but the sensor ($35-ish on AliExpress) is smart enough to just return heartbeat and breathing stats), so maybe a little bit down the road, I'll add that as two other inputs for the app to measure my body vitals during the edging session.
Experience Report: When Stability Has to Be Sexy - Lessons from Building a DIY Bondage Frame
Recently, I took on a project that many DIY enthusiasts in the BDSM community find tempting: building my own bondage frame. Armed with a well-thought-out design, solid motivation, and plenty of steel tubing, I got to work. The frame came together quickly - visually appealing and functional by design. But it soon became clear: safety isn’t an afterthought - it’s the foundation of any playful construction.
So, what was the issue?
Despite accurate measurements and sturdy materials, weaknesses showed up at the connection points. The slip-fit joints between the pipes couldn’t reliably withstand the dynamic forces that come into play during scenes. A bondage frame doesn’t just need to look stable - it has to hold up under real pressure. The safety of everyone involved is the top priority.
I’m deeply grateful to everyone on r/BdsmDIY and to those I spoke with who pointed out the weak spots in my build.
I've heard people here explain that a 12v wiper is enough. I can't make the math work on that, though, or maybe my spec demands are excessive?
3.5kg is what I found as the bare minimum for linear force. Let's be cocky and stick to that.
Is 20cm of stroke length too much? It feels a little low, but I could be wrong.
And then I heard someone mention 250rpm, which is... impressive, fair enough.
By my math, that's barely within parameters, and that doesn't factor the inertia of a reciprocating motion at all, which should push it into nonstarter territory. What am I missing, what specs should I be expecting here?
I was looking for some time for a new Impact Toy / Whip for self-play, and saw online a Scottish Tawse. Since im somewhat small Human Being, the size i found online was just too big. Especially the handle, and i wanted something that will fit into my small hands. So i decided to check in this exact subreddit, and found this from few years ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/BdsmDIY/s/8bHnQF6njQ
And decided to do it myself. Bought a two meter long Cowhide (3cm wide and 2,5mm thick onesided), as seen in the picture. Some chicago bullets, screws and some wood. And with the tools that my Partner has at home made this in the end. Unfortunately i didnt have some better scissors or knife to cut the leather straigther, but im happy the way it turned out. And of course even happier after trying it out. I will definitely try this again and probably do the upper one in some near future 😁
My wife and I just got a new place with an extra room we want to turn into a playroom, and we're working on ideas for it.
Alot of the stuff we do involves grinding, and I got the idea that it could be fun to make a vibrating pad with a replica of her own pussy to use. Problem is, I don't even know where to start.
For the pussy part, we'll probably just use clone-a-willy (unless you all know something better) to be safe but for the rest of it, I just have no idea. Any ideas or suggestions are welcome!
Sharing one of my recent leatherworking projects: a handmade black leather harness with gold-tone hardware, D-rings, rivets, and chain details. I really enjoyed working out the strap layout and putting all the individual pieces together.
I’m building a scaffold pipe (48.3mm) cuboid approx 3.5m wide by 2.2m high ostensibly as an outdoor hammock stand. See diagram.
At one end I want to have the configuration as shown in photo 1 where there are fixed poles (the outline shape) and movable poles and fixings within that.
I would like to have the most flexibility to add poles and fixings (ie coming out from the fixed frame) but keep the number of fixings to what is needed so that it looks as inconspicuous and vanilla as possible.
I drafted an example (see photo 2) and found that I added so many fixings to give flexibility for mounting scaffold planks (cut down with lugs to fit the pipes that would be coming out from fixings and pipes on the main frame) for example to lay the receiving partner onto and then have pipes to take their legs or fixing points to simulate a St Andrews Cross or other furniture such as bondage / spanking / hogtie / milking / submission / punishment stockade, horse, bench, table, stoop restraint, mating press supports etc) that it looked too industrial / cluttered and like a BDSM or scaffolders trade convention exhibit!
What’s the smallest set of fixings in what configuration (how many of each / where) would be needed to give the most flexibility to build whatever pipe configuration - some examples in photo 3 - (coming out from the fixed elements but also using what’s there if relevant) one could dream of (see your favourite online sites for examples, not just made from pipe) but still look relatively uncluttered / a bit vanilla - as if I just went a bit mad and put some extra fittings in haphazardly. 😉🤔😊
[ PS I drew the mating press position in Photo 3 wrong - the right hand board support should come off the middle vertical so that the penetrating partner can stand close enough to the receiver but their legs still be supported. ]
Lots of online scaffold catalogues but for ease, can view here (page 156 ish):
https://7aa3078e.flowpaper.com/Catalogue3072dpi/
Of course other parts of the pipe cuboid will be able to be used to support swings / sex swings / Raised fixing points for arms and to restrain lovers etc.
