u/RelativeEchidna6275

Hi! Just looking for general input/thoughts:

I rarely ever tour because I don’t have much time to travel & do already do well in my home base.

I pretty much only “tour” if I’m already traveling for civ. life things or extending a FMTY.

I’ve been on a tour to two different major cities (both filled with successful providers) in the last week because I had work commitments. Both areas have a lucrative HE market, plenty of providers, clients, & money, advertising both about 2 weeks before, no tour up charges or anything. And I actually didn’t get a single eligible date I’d want to take on!

Which is fine, I honestly don’t even know if realistically I’d have time for a date, but it did get me thinking how I could do so well in one area & so poorly in another.

My main idea is looks preferences. I’m in the Bay Area so, not sure if my look just really ‘fits’ there vs everywhere else.

I know it would 100% be helpful to specific the cities, but I have safety reasons to not want to share that. More just looking for a general brainstorm than targeted advice.

I’m okay with accepting that I’m just not a touring girl & my niche is super area specific, if that’s the case. I’m a homebody so traveling is already stressful for me lol

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u/RelativeEchidna6275 — 16 days ago

I have a past in SBing, blah blah honestly this whole topic is tired but, this sub randomly came on my feed because of a post of a girl who was posting looking for advice for freestyling in a casino.

There was a comment that was basically like “be careful they might think you’re a sex worker.” To which I basically replied something to the effect of, “is looking for women who you can pay to have sex with you, not looking for a sex worker?”

Was banned in like 5 minutes lol. The last time I was on that sub I was 18, and they were hell bent on convincing me that no man would ever pay for a $1k/5 hour PPM if I wasn’t a supermodel-pornstar-on call girlfriend. I’d probably give them an aneurysm now 🤣. I am no longer in the sugar bowl & have 0 interest in it, so wasn’t even a part of the sub anyway / don’t care about the ban.

But Jesus, how delusional can a community really be?

u/RelativeEchidna6275 — 22 days ago