r/HighEndEscorts

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I was using proton mail but just recently got my customized email from my website, will now be using this for future bookings and such.

I just swapped it over because I think it looks more professional but in your experience, the ladies that have done it, is it worth the switch? Generally safer than proton mail?

Response appreciated, thanks!

I am buying a 2nd computer/laptop for "this" (refurbished) what kind do you recommend? Thank you

It’s human to crave connection, but in our world safety comes from discretion and keeping a low profile. Everything you say on Discord, Reddit, or any sort of social media is not private, and advertising the existence of any sex worker spaces or private community chat is not only reckless, it’s downright dangerous.

Discord and Reddit are especially treacherous right now:

💯Times have changed. Data is $$$, AI tools are sharp, and all eyes are watching us, especially here. What we say online can be saved, scraped, sold, or weaponized faster than ever… A leaked screenshot, a casual location drop, a shared screening tip—any of it can become doxxing, blackmail, stalking, or worse.

💯Pimps, scammers, and law enforcement regularly Post on Reddit with “My first (fill in the blank)… time; client; appointment,” and frequently use looking for “mentorship,” “friends,” “community,” “advice,” or “support.” BE SKEPTICAL OF ANYONE YOU MEET ONLINE CLAIMING TO BE NEW!

💯 Having an ad DOES NOT make someone a legitimate provider. Police have ads! Scammers have ads! Agencies have ads! Pimps have ads! Our greatest protection is PRIVACY and keeping it in the family. If you have a SW community and you care about keeping its members safe, STOP ADVERTISING IT!

💯Everything you type can be used against you. Think doxxing. Think criminal case. Think custody hearing. Act accordingly.

💯Share nothing you wouldn’t want on a billboard: locations, travel plans, client notes, verification methods, etc.

💯Community is still precious—but it must be protected and its greatest defense is privacy. Think Fight Club, first rule.

M26 & F22 from Noida/Delhi NCR looking for genuine, open-minded couples to connect, travel & explore the swapping lifestyle together. Into SRSP/SRDP, trips, stays, good vibes & mutual comfort. Respect, privacy & chemistry matter most 😉 DM with intro if interested.

I’m so distressed because I had such a long day because I was moving apartments and I finally settled in and a regular wanted to come see me last minute and I agreed because I need to make back the money from this move. I particularly don’t like him because sometimes he comes high but overall he was friendly, which doesn’t really matter of course. because I was tired and I don’t have my glasses on as soon as we started the session I looked up and I saw that his glasses were actually Meta glasses I immediately stopped the session and told him to get out and he started lying and stuttering over his words and trying to gaslight me, but I’m not stupid. I know he recorded me. I’m also a face in Worker I don’t show my face in my ads for several reasons. I feel so violated. I kicked him out, but this totally ruined my mood and I just feel like crying. I’m the kind of person who never even sends nudes with my face even when I had a boyfriends in the past it’s just never been a thing I’ve done because I would personally never send nudes with my face And now that has been non-consensually done to me and I feel as bad as I have in the past when I’ve been sexually assaulted. I hate him so much. I threatened that I would go to the police, but I know that wouldn’t even do anything. I just feel so broken right now. I’ve been in this industry for a while but times like this remind me that you can never even for a slight second, let your guard down. I usually don’t run into issues like this with clients and because I’ve seen him a couple times before I let my guard down and I’m just so upset with myself as well even though I know it’s not my fault.

hi, currently live in Syd 31FM as an immigrant, but I do look much younger than my age. last night random white guy start giving me pep talk abt this escort thingy, and try to make sure am I under 18 or not? in the end, he gimme their bizcard. Is this legit about how most of you guys join this industry? I mean if Its legit, what is the basic package, do they pay our super and give a proper health insurance tho? do they give training also? about how to dress, makeup, etc

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Hi girls for those who have worked in Paris what website you could recommend for me to post an ads, thanks in advance.

I recently started on a glp 1 for my chronic pain ( seems to be a HUGE blessing so far 🙌🏻); I would also be cool with losing a few pounds along the way as I’m currently plus size.

My question is- for those of you who have lost weight, at what point did you take new photo’s & increase your rates? I’ve become content with being a plus size baddie as I don’t have slow periods , but it would add a lil pep in my step to get back to those nights when I received 70 texts/night back when I was skinny! 💕💕

I'm not sure why my profile is taken down again on Tryst. Last time it was down for months and I gave up and went on hiatus.

I'm sick and tired of this clearly they're not good as they used to be. Now I'm not sure what I'm going to do because that's where I make most of my money and I didn't really work the past 3 weeks and I recently lost my belongings that had my id in it.

I have a 20% deposit rule for bookings, this client made a $1,600 booking and just sent the entire amount because ‘it feels easier to do it this way.’

I am annoyed. For me, NOT having the remainder $$$ until I show up is what actually motivates me to show up in the first place and sleep with an old, overweight man. Now that the entire amount is sitting in my bank without me having to do the work yet makes the job feel like an actual chore rather than a thrill to get paid.

As a side note, he also acknowledged my real legal name, calling it beautiful and unique which has bothered me further - not malicious I’m aware, just a little stupid/socially clumsy of him…

What should I do? Ask for his details so I can return the amount minus the deposit? Or just leave it, but perhaps mention to him how this works for future reference…

I’ve had an enquiry for a booking in 2 weeks time - 4 hours, starting with drinks.

All seemed to be going well - he passed screening without any issues and generally the conversation via email has been super upbeat and friendly. 0 bad vibes.

After screening though, he asked me if he could send me extra money along with the deposit, so that I could book myself my own room, in the same hotel he’s staying - with the logic that: “it would be easier than getting you home after a few drinks.”

I gracefully and politely declined, explaining that I live not far from the hotel and that going home after the booking would be no issue on my end.

He then responded by saying that he’s happy to pay for it, and that it would make everyone’s lives easier?

Am I overthinking by feeling there is something sinister about this offering beyond just trying to make things convenient for me? Thoughts?

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Update:

I’ve politely declined a second time, following up with ‘I have people expecting me home later that night anyway.’

Waiting for the response, which I believe should be very telling.

Hello 18F escort here , I’ve been working quite a long time , recently I had one client who I spend 12 minute with, in those 12 minute he was very high ( the session was supposed to be 1 hours ) he started making weird jokes saying he’ll cut me in little piece and put me in the fridge and eat me , I didn’t like it at ALL , and just left with the money , am I wrong for taking the money with me ? I’ve done service but I know it sound wrong cause it was supposed to be one hours , but joke or not , I care about my safety , but I don’t know if I’m in the right to have taken the money cause he didn’t came .

I had to reset my phone and my token on Authy disappeared so I can’t do two factor verification to log into Tryst. I’m freaking out because I had been on hiatus and need to update my ads. I lost my emergency code too. I’ve gotten noticeably less inquiries since I haven’t been able to log in. I submitted a request but my friend said it took a month for them to get back to her. Is there anything else I can try?

Hi girls, I wanted to ask how strict you are with screening, especially those of you based in Europe / Paris.

I’m based in Europe (Paris) speaking with a potential client from the neatherlqnds and I’m a bit torn. He has been very respectful in every message, not pushy at all, and we also had around a 10-minute FaceTime call. He was very good-looking, calm, well-spoken, and seemed completely normal. He Said he have a pretty high position in finance working in New York, Overall, he gave a good impression.

The only issue is that he says he is very paranoid about his identity and does not feel comfortable revealing his full real name or sending full ID before meeting. He said he understands my concern and would be willing to meet me for a one-hour drink in public first, (he is staying at a nice 5 star hotel here) so I can feel more comfortable, but he still does not want to share his full name.

For for my EUROPE girls who screen clients : would this be enough for you, or would you still require full ID / LinkedIn / hotel details before meeting? Do you ever make exceptions when someone seems respectful and agrees to a public drink first?

I’m trying to find the balance between being safe and not scaring away genuine discreet clients, but I also don’t want to ignore my own boundaries.

Curious how others would handle this. 🤍

I want to try going to Canada to work because Europe feels exhausting to me. I feel like I’m not using my full potential because no matter how much I invest in myself and my knowledge, I can’t seem to charge more than €300 in Europe, while in America I normally make around $1k.

Does anyone have experience with Canada, and which websites are good for advertising?

hello , I am going to go live in Vancouver for some while like around 2 years , I need advice on where to find cheap hotel or place with roomate , I tried finding my own place kinda hard to find something cause they all need source of income and I’m not comfortable showing that don’t ask why i really don’t know I’m lowkey weird … but yeah I really need to find a roomate or a cheap hotel that I can rent for many days or months , one of my friends recommended me finding a sugar daddy to stay with while giving him service but I AM not doing that just cause that lowkey scary and I don’t want to die or get scammed and be homeless , so yes please give me advice on some good place to rent or website to find roomate thanks you!!

I’m in town for a conference and everything. Was curious if it’s a bad idea to find potential clients in the bar late night? How would I go about it? Ive never freestyles before but figured maybe it’s a good idea to start if travel costs are covered for me.

My boss actually knows what I do so getting caught isn’t necessarily an issue but obviously Im going to be discrete.