I gambled for one month (never gambled before) but wanted to become a millionaire quickly and had a 350k loss.
Need words of encouragement 💔
I’m also not as young anymore. 30 turning 31 soon.
I have a client I’m exclusive with but I might now need to go back on the market with this loss.
I’m devastated
I have a pro shoot in three weeks.
It isn't my first one by far, but this is the first one I've planned this close.
Things I'm doing already -
What has worked best for you in terms of short term glow ups?
I’ve been in the industry for a while, have been through a lot of body changes. I found for me personally I had the most success at my heaviest at about 170, was about 33-35% bodyfat. I carry weight in my tits/ass mostly. That was years ago. Now I kind of fall in the middle, I look pretty average, I’ve been on a GLP-1/weight-lifting/eating clean and I’d like to look more athletic in photos. I find my friends that are petite/toned seem to kill it also. I feel like this industry rewards extremes (thick, curvaceous or petite and toned) very heavily. Let me know your thoughts?
Hi, can anyone help me out? My Tryst account was closed, and people are recommending Slixa. If anyone works there, could you tell me what it's like? I'm looking for a platform with premium clients because I was doing really well on Tryst
I recently made a post about getting offered a business card for a private modeling “opportunity” I finally emailed them out of curiosity and here’s the response… definitely exploitative and a scam
Too clarify I will not be responding and from the moment I got the card I knew it was a scam I’m just nosey
I know this may be dumb but I’m at a point where I just don’t feel like playing the social media game anymore. I know it’s part of the job but I’m sick of pandering to reply guys who are never going to book, uploading free “content” that gets little to no engagement, and having to tiptoe around everything I post so that my account doesn’t get banned (this is specific to X). There are so many other things that I dislike about the social media marketing part of this job, but I’m not going to sit here and list them all out.
I know social media is/CAN be worth it in this industry but I want to hear from providers who don’t depend on social media to be successful because that’s currently all I’m surrounded by. Can any providers who aren’t on social media or don’t heavily rely on it to be successful share any tips or advice please? Just being on the ad sites doesn’t cut it anymore.
If the bottom line is social media is necessary to be successful in this business then I accept that, please don’t lecture me about it. I just want to pick some brains and see what others think or have done when in this situation and shared similar feelings.
U/TrystSupport
Has anyone experienced this with Tryst?
My profile has been approved and active for years, and I’ve always had a Premium+ membership without any issues.
About a week ago, I suddenly got a message saying that memberships are only available to users with approved profiles. Because of that, I can no longer activate or renew my Premium+ membership.
The strange part is that I never received any email saying my account was suspended, banned, or closed. I’ve already contacted support but haven’t received a response yet.
Has anyone else had this happen? If so, were you able to get your account back, or did support explain what caused it?
Also, does anyone know what happens if I create a new account? Is it likely to be approved, or will it automatically be rejected because I had a previous account?
Any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
I think I’ve reached a point where I don’t care about posting on twitter. I don’t care to post gifts, or take daily selfies for just a couple of likes and no inquiries/bookings coming from that platform! It just feels like I’m playing an influencer persona for free and for what?!
I have a couple of posts and comments that show I’m an actual human and not some scammer lmao but I’m not interested in going viral on X or keeping up with the joneses… it’s draining.
Most of my inquiries come from ads anyway
I feel like Tryst isn't showing my profile unless I post touring dates. Even in my own home city. I literally have to list that I'm "touring" there just to be visible. And yes, I'm paying for their so-called Premium+ membership.
Has anyone else noticed this too?
I also feel like I have to post that I'm touring at a specific location a few days before I'm actually there, just so I reach the intended audience. Otherwise, I hear absolutely nothing until I'm officially in town.
I am a Mature and Curvy SP, am trying this for almost a year, it’s not my full time job and my husband supports this idea. I have found few clients but not enough to cover the expenses of having a place exclusively to see clients in high end neighborhood, Toronto - Canada. 🇨🇦 - My question is, Do I give up as my Age and Body type are not the most popular should I say, or there could be a chance if I find proper way to advertise and promote myself? I would like to keep trying but my agreement with hubby would be that if after 1 year i couldn’t cover at least the rent I would let it go…
Hey so some condoms have a taste and some don’t ! The ones that have no taste are the Trojan ultra thin , magnum & ultra ribbed. ALSO the purple condom taste the worst so stay away from that one 😂
Hi girls,
I’m curious how other escorts handle this with family and close friends.
I’m extremely close to my family, but I cannot under any circumstances tell them what I actually do. I feel like I’ve created this whole “normal” explanation for my lifestyle, and lately it’s starting to feel complicated to keep up with.
For example, I travel quite a bit, stay in nice places, buy nicer things, and generally have a lifestyle that is hard to explain if people ask too many questions. I’ve kind of made up a story that I have a wealthy boyfriend who I travel with, because it feels easier than explaining where the money and trips come from.
(I am graduating from uni this year currently doing my internship)
But I also don’t want to look suspicious, lie too much, or create a story that becomes impossible to maintain long-term.
For those of you who are close to your family/friends but keep this work completely private: what do you tell them you do? Do you use a vague job title, say you freelance, have an online business, work in consulting/marketing, have a generous
partner, or something else?
And how do you explain travel, nice hotels, designer things, flexible schedule, or sudden income without raising questions?
Would really appreciate advice from women who have been doing this longer and have found a believable, low-drama way to keep their private life private.
I'm thinking about no longer offering BJ or BBBJ. Ever since that incident I posted about a few weeks ago, I've been truly turned off. I simply don't enjoy it like I used to.
But it feels like most clients expect it. Especially at the over $1k price point. If you don't offer it, or if you stopped offering it at some point, how has this affected you? Did you lose a lot of clients? Did you have to adjust your rates or marketing? Or did you find that the ones who stayed were actually better quality?
Hi everyone. For those of you who are gfe companions, do you dress differently for younger (like 28 -33 yrs old) clients vs older ? (40+)
I noticed my younger clients are usually trust fund kids or tech guys, and they dress v casually like F1 drivers style or hiking vibes so I feel overdressed sometimes. And then my older clients like when I‘m dressed “young” but classy & feminine. For reference I’m 26
Hi ladies, I went ahead and purchased a standard plan on tryst to start planning for my tour. I noticed however that I am not showing up in the search in cities that I have listed in my tours. I am seeing other girls show up that are around the same date as I am planning on visiting, so it's not the 30 days period.
Is it the standard plan that I'm using, or should I reach out to Tryst?
I was recently walking my dog around like 11:00 pm and this guy came up to me asking me if model and we had a bit of conversation about it he asked if I was signed (which I told him I am not) and he was like here take my business card 1,000 a day your hired. I walked away I go home and look at the card search up the website on the card it mentions private events, poker parties, and erotic shows… still not sure if I’ll contact the number just because I already make that 1,000 in an hour and it seems somewhat exploitative being very weary of potential pimps and agencies. But I do know these private poker games are a real thing out here and some girls do make good money also potential clients?? I’ll probably message just to get more information and how it works (see if it’s a scam or not) but what do you guys think I’ve tried to find more information about it but I’ve only seen a few TikToks
“Hiring private models” 🧐
What are some things your regulars do that irritate you but you put up with because the money is good. Maybe even crazy stuff other companions may not tolerate. For me, one of my regs drinks heavily and there have been many 24hr bookings where he sleeps for 16 hours straight and rambles in his sleep. I may be bored but I am getting paid.