r/HighEndEscorts

Genuine question, do any of you work a office job and do this work simulatously?

I've just started working at an amazing place in my city, love the work and love the people. However, a girl could do with any extra grand or so to play with. I've been toying around with the idea, however I'm worried it may be a point of conflict with my work despite this being a side gig. I'm only thinking of seeing max 3 clients per month, and raising my rates so I don't feel inclined to accept more bookings (we all know how hard it is to turn down money, especially in these trying times lol).

Sw has been my full time job since I was 19, with a few breaks in between, not new to this but true to this. However, circumstances now are different as I'm now navigating the corporate world. Just want to be extra careful as I can't be as open about this work as I was previously.

How do you vixens who work a 9-5/corporate manage this? Tips and stories would be fab. MWAH 💋

Omg Im sure this is dumb question. But I have a potential client sending me a link to verify him on Tryst. I don’t know how to open or view it. Another question does anyone use the messaging feature on the App? When I hit the link to see the client on Tryst it ask for a authentic code. Even if Im already signed in. Im so lost here lol

I’m curious if any other providers, especially in Toronto/Canada, have experienced this.
I recently upgraded from Standard to Premium Plus expecting it to help with visibility and bookings. My impressions have definitely increased, but somehow my actual business has gotten worse. I’m getting more scammers, time-wasters and low-quality inquiries, but no actual bookings.
What makes it even more frustrating is that I’ve emailed Tryst support with questions and haven’t received a reply for days. When I was on Standard, support actually replied much faster, so paying significantly more for Premium Plus and getting slower support is really disappointing.
Has anyone else upgraded to Premium Plus and experienced more visibility/impressions but worse conversion or no increase in actual bookings? Did it eventually improve, or did you end up going back to Standard?
Providers’ experiences only please. I’m genuinely trying to figure out whether this is happening to anyone else.

I’m feeling anxious about customs 😬. I used Tryst but had to re-verify my account multiple times due to issues, and eventually, my account got blocked. I had to send my ID several times throughout this process. Now that I’ve deleted my Tryst account, I’m worried about whether they still keep my data or share it with the government. I know that if your account is blocked, you can’t sign up again, which makes me think they must keep the IDs. Does anyone know if they share our IDs?

I can’t check my emails and am getting annoyed lol. Hoping it’s not some security breach or something :/

Any Canadian providers here currently advertising on Tryst, especially in Toronto/GTA?
I recently upgraded to Premium Plus hoping it would help with visibility and bookings. My impressions have increased since upgrading, but I’m still getting very few serious inquiries and no serious bookings lately.
I’m trying to figure out if the Canadian/Toronto market is just unusually slow right now or if other providers are experiencing something different.
For those currently using Tryst in Canada, how has August been for you? Are you still getting consistent serious inquiries and bookings?
Providers’ input only please. I’m specifically looking to compare experiences with other providers who are currently advertising on Tryst, not client opinions.

I genuinely need other escorts’ opinions because this might be one of the most ridiculous conversations I’ve ever had with a client.
About a month ago, a guy contacted me with a VERY long and detailed inquiry. He wanted to book me for 6 hours and suggested going to an amusement park in my city. He paid deposit, we exchanged messages, stayed in regular contact for the entire month, and everything seemed completely normal.
Then, exactly ONE WEEK before our date, he sends me:
“I would prefer if the cost of the ride tickets could be included in the overall six-hour fee so I don’t have to worry about paying for tickets there. Is it possible for you to handle the ticket out of the total rate?”
I genuinely had to ask what he meant because surely this man wasn’t asking ME to pay for our tickets out of my rate?
I told him if he simply didn’t want to deal with buying them, no problem. Give me an extra €100 with the remaining balance and I’ll happily organize everything.
Nope.
He clarified that he wanted me to pay for BOTH of our tickets out of my six-hour rate.
I explained that in all my time doing this, I have never had a client expect me to financially contribute to his date. Dinner, drinks, spa, activities, whatever. Those expenses are separate from my rate.
Then things somehow got even weirder.
Suddenly he suggested changing our 6-hour booking to ONE HOUR. He had already paid a deposit, so it honestly felt like he was trying to find a way to still “use” it rather than lose it.
I AGAIN offered to handle the tickets if he simply gave me the extra €100. I even explained that I speak the local language, so if buying them was somehow stressful for him, I genuinely didn’t mind organizing everything.
And then came my personal highlight:
“It would be really nice, super cool if you would want to give it to me as a gift.”
I literally asked:
“What gift?”
I was so confused I sent him my wishlist and told him he could buy me a gift if he wanted. 😂
He clarified that no, he wanted ME to gift HIM the rides:
“You can give me a gift this time. I like gifts too.”
EXCUSE ME??? 😭
I told him:
“I’m not your girlfriend. What are you talking about?”
His response was basically that he isn’t my boyfriend either, so why should he be the one giving gifts.
SIR.
YOU BOOKED AN ESCORT. 💀
I told him one last time: pay the agreed remaining balance, add €100 if you want me to handle the tickets, and I’ll organize everything. Simple.
Instead, the discussion continued until I finally told him I was genuinely uncomfortable because I had never in my life had a client ask me to pay for him, let alone call it a “gift.”
He finished with:
“Well, at least you earned the deposit.”
And honestly, the deposit isn’t even what annoys me.
This man contacted me A MONTH AGO, wrote essays about wanting to meet me and planning a 6-hour date, only to destroy the entire booking one week beforehand because he wanted his ESCORT to treat him to amusement park rides as a gift. 😭
“I like gifts too” is going to live rent-free in my head.
Has anyone else ever had a client expect you to pay for him during his own booking, or have I officially seen it all?

I have tried retweeting and nothing is showing up.

Anyone else?

Tbh I can’t help to feel a little upset that I haven’t come across a whale or client generous enough to want to take me on expensive shopping sprees and trips like I see a lot of these girls especially on twitter. I see girls constantly getting gifted Cartier , Chanel, Van Cleef , etc and I’ve been at this for years and it’s kind of disappointing. Anyone else feel this way?

Has anyone ever ended an exclusive situation because the guy wanted to stay in touch ALL the time?
I’m curious if anyone else has experienced this. I’m currently exclusive with a guy, but he wants constant communication throughout the day—texting, checking in, knowing what I’m doing, etc.
I’m starting to feel like the amount of communication is becoming overwhelming, and instead of feeling excited about hearing from him, I sometimes feel like I have to respond.
Has anyone ever ended an exclusive relationship/situationship because the communication expectations just felt like too much? Did you feel guilty about it, or did you realize you were simply incompatible with their communication style?

I’ve been doing terribly lately. I used to do so great I don’t know if I’ve just gotten lazy or overly screening I really want mentor ship or someone who’s doing 30 to 50K per month to help me see what I’m doing wrong.. very frustrated with myself

My face and voice wouldn’t be included, it would be filmed on my phone, and I’d only transfer the final approved clip. I would also require an NDA/limited personal-use agreement stating that it can’t be shared, uploaded, copied, edited, shown to anyone else or used with AI.

Have any of you offered this as an add-on? Would you allow a client to keep the video at all? If yes, how much extra would you charge, and what rules or precautions would you put in place?

I’m currently considering around €1,000 extra, but I’m interested in hearing how others approach the permanent privacy risk.

I normally don’t offer video calls because I’m very private, but I’m considering allowing a short FaceTime call after the client has paid the deposit and completed screening.

Do any of you do this? Has it helped clients feel more comfortable, or have you experienced issues with screenshots or screen recording? What boundaries do you use?

Do you allow a client to film for free? Do you charge extra? Or you don’t allow it? And if you do, do you avoid recording of the face or allow it?

I have an upcoming 7 day cruise from Rome to Athens with a regular. We are also doing two days on each side. It is a fancier cruise ship for HNW adults.

What in the world should I wear ? There are activities each day, and we will be dining out 4 nights in different cities, and the rest on the ship.

I work independently, mainly via Tryst. I get a minimum of 3-5+ daily arrangement requests (as well as throughout the night) in addition to content requests and existing client ongoing arrangements (my retention rate is GOOD). I do a lot of FMTY so I travel often in addition to being a (now) solo mom of 2/the sole provider so I stay hustling, always for them.

I would LOVE to employ someone to:

1. Streamline and overhaul my OF. I would be okay with someone else completely taking this over honestly. I’ll make and provide you with the content to push. I want someone to automate my shit and we keep it moving. If you have major engagement/growth skills I’d be willing to talk an additional percentage of the sales, related to growth, on top of hourly
2. Potentially operate my work phone and set things up for me per verification/booking details/collecting deposits
3. Help me to engage with other creators for worthwhile collabs and schedule accordingly
4. Be good with working a camera to shoot bikini shots of me and it not be weird 😅
5. Be good with marketing and promo and post accordingly on Reddit, X, etc as me
6. Vid editing skills (CapCut/facetune/etc)

Where does this unicorn of a person exist?? I need help and I’m willing to pay a very fair rate for approx. 10-20 hrs of help a week 🤑❤️

Hi all- I googled my escort name and recently found out I somehow have a profile on a site called lady’s.one (?) that I never made. Any ideas on how to get it taken down/has this happened to anyone before?