u/Relevant-Count-5260

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On and off hookup

I’ve known this guy since may 2025 and we hookup four times twice may 2025, once in January, and once in June. We had sex in June and every other time was just other stuff. Every time we hang we usually talk a little and a little after but it fades out and I was usually only visiting my home town and going back to school after so it didn’t make much sense to keep in touch. He doesn’t seem like a huge player like he says stuff that makes it seem like he doesn’t do things with girls often and he wasn’t lasting long in bed at all but he always pulls away after we hookup. Obviously it’s a casual situation and I don’t think he wants to date me but I’ve been on delivered for over a week after he reached out after sex yet he sent an insta follow request but undid it right away. Is he just messing with me? Would it be stupid to hit him up in a few weeks to try and run it back? I thought the sex was good and want to do it again but he faded away a lot faster this time.

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u/Relevant-Count-5260 — 16 hours ago