POT sent my photos to other men to arrange sex without my consent
Ok so I’m going a little f\*cking crazy right now. I met a POT on bumble, he told me that he’s married and looking for discretion. We’ve been chatting for a little over a month but we’ve only had 1 date, I’ve been too busy with work stuff to schedule another so we’ve just been keeping in touch daily until we could see each other again.
On the first date, he spent maybe xxx on new outfits for me. Since then, he’s probably sent me another xxx. He’s been a bit vulgar but I understand his interest in wanting to get together and be intimate, I told him that he’d have to get tested and whatnot and he agreed.
OUT OF THE BLUE, he sends me a message asking me to send him pictures of me and a strangers d*k pick ( I didn’t send photos of myself because I was at work and wasn’t on my phone.) without me even replying, I guess he went onto bumble, took screenshots of my photos, and started chatting with strange men in god knows what kind of chat room.
He said he only sent one of my photos to multiple men.
Obviously I’m mortified, I’ve been out of the bowl for about 2 years and he was the first guy I gave a chance since I got back . Now some strangers in my city know what I look like and think I want to sleep with them. This is legitimately the craziest thing that has happened to me in the bowl and now I feel like I should never post a photo of myself again. I’m so stressed out right now.
He said sorry for doing that and I told him never to contact me again. He said he isn’t a sex trafficker but that’s literally what sex traffickers do??
I don’t know who he sent my photos to, if he was pretending to be me, or what he said to those men. I don’t even know how to navigate this situation at all. I know he’s blocked but now I feel like there’s some weirdo out there trying to keep a lookout for me now, maybe I’m overthinking.
That’s the end of my vent I guess 😭 what the hell do you guys think about this shit??