They forget the other stuff:

🟢Clearing our throats obnoxiously loud while scrolling on our phone

⭕️ Picking our nose

⚪️What our hair looks like when we wake up

🟡The hair that grows on our bodies, which includes pits, bits, legs, nips, and above our lips

🟣Farting whenever

🩸Pads/Tampons/cups both unused and used (so many are still squeamish about stuff women been dealing with since we’re 12)

🟠Us having health issues and needing to be taken care of including but not limited to colds, coughs, diarrhea, hangovers, medical emergencies, chronic pain, etc

🔘Not knowing what we want to do (we’re not decision machines)

🟤Our messy houses, including using our dryer as secondary laundry storage

🐱Hair on everything we own and filling hair traps in our shower

👵🏻Us getting old

🌀Us being tired

And most importantly

🔴US NOT IN DOMME MODE 24/7

Domme’s feel free to add more in the comments, have a good weekend everyone!

He told me he wanted to lose weight, and I asked if he would like my help. He said yes, so I had him pick up a slice of cake. I stripped and had him serve me a piece of cake off of my abs with a spoon while I jerked him off with my toes through his underwear. Seeing his body shudder with pleasure while trying to not drop each spoonful of cake was so satisfying. When he was finished I let him lick off the icing and crumbs for doing such a good job. Then I had him work up a sweat *censored* me. Afterwards we cuddled and he gushed about JJK before he headed home. He was so cute getting excited about anime. I love him dearly!

Have you been helped by your Domme? Have you helped your sub achieve a goal? I’d love to hear about it in the comments!

I went with a sub out for ice-cream and when we got there the line up was out the door. No worries, more time to flirt with the cutie on my arm. I was wearing a blouse and cut-off bootie shorts, he’s still in his work attire: white dress shirt with an unbuttoned collar and black slacks. Eventually we get inside and can see the flavors on the menu. He tells me what he’s going to get and we chat some more until we get to the front of the line and a very energetic young man with a peach-fuzz moustache gives us a tired smile. Talking with my cutie for so long I forget to turn off my Mommy voice.

“Hi dear, oh my you look tired! We wont take too much of your time: he’ll have 2 scoops of the pistachio and chocolate on a dipped waffle cone and I’ll have a soft-serve strawberry-lime twist on the same with sprinkles.”

I watch the young man stand there, shell shocked, cheeks turning pink, mouth agape as his eyes look me up and down. I look back at him with confusion for a second until I realize the tone I used. It’s loud in the shop but I know he heard me perfectly clear. He quickly pulls it together but I notice he’s slouched over moreso than his peers as he dips into the freezer behind the glass and goes to scoop out the ice-cream. Then, remembering he’s at work, he looks up and asks with a slight voice crack, “any allergies?” I look to him and with a more relaxed tone say, “no, he doesn’t have any allergies.” The girl working beside him looks up at me and smiles, “OH MY GOSH, I love that you’re answering for him, that’s so cute!” My sub hunches his shoulders as I pull him close by his waist, his cute face plastered with an embarrassed grin. The young man gives us our ice-cream and the girl rings us up, delighted by our couple behaviour. I see the guy speaking to another customer, his eyes looking through the wall behind them, head a thousand miles away. When my sub and I get to the car my first words to him are, “she was so cute, also did I give that guy an erection just from my voice?”

“He’s not the only one.”

I notice the tent in his slacks, then his timid smile. His eyes are avoiding mine, embarrassed.

“God, you’re adorable!“

Went to a local sex club tonight and a cute, nerdy Deutch guy caught my eye and apparently I caught his too! He was visiting for the weekend and took a chance coming to the club. We got into a chat, super cute accent, and he was such a nerd OMG! He actively steered the convo to academic conversation and my gosh was it hot! He clued in after I flirted with him for a while and softly invited himself to my room. I agreed and he got very excited! He was so nervous his whole body flexed when we kissed, gosh it was so cute! And his *censored* was so massive I was uncomfortably full at times. After he relaxed a lot he asked to JO onto me. Watching him stroke was so adorable, he was all smiles and so happy just to look at me! I started stroking him and he started moaning! Even though he *censored* earlier in the evening I managed to get him to *censored* a lot onto my stomach! What a lovely day!

Attention: skincare is best addressed on a case-by-case basis. This is just stuff I’ve recommended to subs to help with their skin.

Shaving with a safety razor: having 3+ blades at an unchanging angle aggravates skin more than 1 blade. Invest in a safety razor and just replace the blade when you start to feel resistance and dullness, your skin will thank you.

Once/twice a month take some sunflower/sesame oil and gently rub into skin, leave for half an hour before washing off with water.

Wash your face at least once a day before bed, followed by a moisturizer. Exfoliating is a once a week thing, not an evert day thing, and is to be avoided when you have a breakout.

Change your pillowcase at minimum every 10 days, it collects oils and bacteria and can make infections and acne worse.

DO NOT PICK AT YOUR FACE! Blackheads aren’t as noticeable as pimples, and unless someone is getting as close to your face as you do to the mirror they aren’t noticing them.

Moisturize after getting out of the shower. Anywhere you wanna be soft add moisturizer.

Drug Store products are a decent value for lots of cosmetics. Avoid wearing cosmetics every day, they’re hard on your skin.

Lip-balm is your friend.

If you want to smell more fem use fem products like women’s perfume and deodorant/antiperspirant.

No matter how masc you feel a Domme can smell your submissiveness.

Feel free to add your own tips in the comments cuties😊

I recently had a first date with a potential submissive for coffee, followed by a walk and then small meal. They never had a kink relationship before and were nervous, it was cute. The second date was to see a movie, I kissed them in the theatre, they complimented my outfit. On our third date (Friday) with them we went for a walk. There were some religious people with loud speakers preaching the benefits of Christianity. My date turned to me and said we should kiss in front of the preachers to scare them since we’re not heteronormative. This made me uncomfortable and left me in a sour mood, I said I didn’t like being overly aggressive towards those kinds of people because it only strengthens their beliefs they’re being targeted and persecuted. I’d rather just be myself and ignore them. My date disagreed with me, saying it wasn’t a big deal, and that because they had a religious background they knew kissing wouldn’t have that effect (ie persecution). I texted them later saying I don’t feel comfortable being performative for shock value, and that initiating something like that is a hard boundary and made me feel like I was being used for their personal political agenda. They apologized and I accepted their apology. Today (Sunday) they messaged me saying they appreciated our dates but wanted to part ways because they didn’t feel any attraction towards me. I thanked them for being upfront and wished them the best. It’s been a little over a month from meeting them to today as we got to know one another. This kind of misconnection is not uncommon. This is what dating can be like: weeks of investment, possibly months, and that’s before a relationship starts. I see many of you asking about how to meet Domme’s. What you should be asking is do you have the time and energy to do this and still not match, because that’s what finding a partner will take. Time and energy. There’s a good chance you will have dozens of dates, and most of them won’t work out. That’s the hard truth: do you have the motivation and time for this?

If you do want to find someone but are feeling overwhelmed this is my advice to you. Stop actively looking, do it passively, and in the meantime work on yourself. Get fit, socialize, work on yourself via introspection and therapy. Go to places with people for the sake of being there (rock climbing, bowling, dog walking, etc) rather than just to find someone. Get on several dating apps and be forthcoming with your needs, join local fet groups geared towards your interests (+18) and find local discords to socialize and meet likeminded people with similar hobbies. Take care of yourself while you passively search for a partner, because in a relationship that’s (mostly) your job. Nothing, and I mean nothing, turns me on more than learning a potential submissive is making an effort looking after themself in their own time. It makes me want to break them with blowjobs, it makes me want their pillows stained with tears and saliva and teethmarks from me obliterating their boy button with a dildo. It makes me want to let them suck on my tits while I run my fingers through their hair and softly tell them how much I love them. It makes me want to walk with them dressed as my plaything to a restaurant and order all their food and spoil them. It should go without saying the next most attractive quality I look for in a sub is them communicating their wants and needs and being respectful of mine. When they aren’t comfortable they tell me and we talk about it, it’s very reassuring to know when and how their needs are being met and how I can improve doing so.

Hopefully this helps some of you. Have a lovely week cuties😉

We domme’s are human and make mistakes, and tonight I got so distracted kissing my sub, grinding on his lap and sucking/throating his cock that I forgot I had intended for him to fuck me. I forgot how much I’d been looking forward to the fucking and before I knew it he had to go home. I apologized and he insisted it was very fun regardless, and he’s right it was very fun, but I’m still sad it didn’t happen tonight. If anyone wants to share a similar story in the comments you’re all welcome!