It’s been a few days since me and my first (ever) Dom split. Idk why I’m still so annoyed about how bad/dumb that whole thing was. I had high hopes… but that’s what I get for getting my hopes up lol someone tell me about your bad Dom experience so I don’t feel alone in it lol
So, long story short, Dom asked me to do something I wasn’t comfortable with (over the phone). But he pushed the issue.. I gave in eventually after he kept pushing. I was put into a position to be potentially caught (and did!) due to lack of privacy at the time. When I abruptly ended the call due to that. They sent a message regarding their disappointment in me and that I would be punished. It made me feel sad, and angry, and gross.
What do you make of this?
UPDATE: He is no longer my Dom
A few months ago, I found myself getting really interested in the Dom/Sub dynamic. And one of my kinks are feminine men. (I’m Cis straight female). Idk what it is but feminine men just really get me going. But where I live, it’s nearly impossible to find. In a state full of cowboys and hillbillies and rednecks. lol and online it seems that most feminine men don’t prefer…. Females. So it’s just an impossible fantasy that only exists in my head lol does anyone else have a kink like this too or just me? 🙈🙈🙈
(By feminine I mean: looking/acting/dressing like a woman, boobs are a plus but not required). lol
Those that wear collars, which day collars do you recommend? I prefer it to be subtle. :)
Hello, today I became a sub for the very first time. (Female, 30). It’s really exciting but I want to be a very good sub to my Dom. Do any experienced subs have advice for me? Right now our relationship is online because we live several states apart. Anything helps, thanks! 😊