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u/SameGrace

▲ 205 r/ChastityCouples+1 crossposts

I don't think he can remember how the inside of my pussy feels like

u/SameGrace — 5 hours ago
▲ 629 r/NewModernCouples+1 crossposts

As long as his cock is locked, he can touch my holes

u/SameGrace — 15 days ago
▲ 96 r/flr

Did a quick check at the end of the month out of habit.

42 for me.
1 for him (ruined).

The dynamic is a lot cleaner like this, less negotiation, less expectation, more… alignment. He’s more attentive, more present, and a lot easier to read when he’s not constantly chasing his own release.

The one time it happened for him wasn’t planned or framed as anything. It just fit the moment. That’s usually how it goes.

Not saying this is some ideal number or something to aim for. It’s just where we landed this month.

Curious what kind of ratios others are actually sitting at when you stop trying to make it “fair”.

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u/SameGrace — 21 days ago
▲ 4 r/chastitytraining

This started as something I needed for my own dynamic and it got a bit out of hand… in a good way.

I prefer structure and I don’t like relying on memory, so I had something built around how I keep track of things. Figured some of you here might appreciate it too.

Main features I use:

  • Lock timer - ongoing or fixed periods, easy to extend or reduce
  • Permission requests - structured requests with approve/deny and notes
  • Full history - everything logged properly
  • Statistics - patterns, consistency, behaviour over time
  • Orgasm tracking - keeps things clear instead of guesswork
  • “Roulette” style control - for when I don’t feel like deciding everything manually

It’s part of a broader system for structure and control, but the tracking side is what I rely on the most.

I’m not technical, so I had help building it properly. Everything in it is just based on what actually works for me.

If you prefer having things organised instead of guessing, you’ll probably understand why I use it.

Link’s caged.app if you want to look.

u/SameGrace — 23 days ago