My bf wakes up very early for his job so most mornings we’ll have a little half asleep quickie (I’m the one half asleep) before he gets ready, but then I’m so tired and comfy, getting up to pee is so annoying and it wakes me up too much to go back to sleep easily. It’s only like 2-3 minutes of penetration, surely I could just go back to sleep ? Or am I gonna get a uti ?
My bf (late 20s) and I (early 20s) have been tg long distance for 7 months, we’ve had this convo so many times and I’ve made it clear I’m not comfortable sending and don’t enjoy it. Yesterday on a call I turned my cam off to change and he said it upset him, and today I sent a funny video about bfs paying for nails/hair and he replied that he should be getting nudes and said it’s equivalent (he’s never paid for anything like that and I’ve never asked). I know his past partners used to send, and this is a first for him, but he keeps bringing the topic up (mostly joking), and it just still makes me feel like it’s expected and everyone does it and it’s part of my « role ». He says he’s accepted my position, but it feels like he’s just waiting for me to change my mind. I know it’s not on purpose but it genuinely breaks my heart that he keeps bringing it up even tho I have explained myself so many times.
Is everyone actually doing it or is it reasonable that I don’t want to?
Worth mentioning : he’s my first bf, first time