u/Separate-Celery4417

43 [F4M] #Ontario #onlineonly Looking for long term love

43 women, married with 2 teens. I’m invisible at home and looking for that spark that’s been missing at home. Brown hair, brown eyes with freckles and reading glasses. Curvy and 5’6”

I’m into fitness and enjoy reading. Currently binge watching Chicago PD. I’m a sports fan, hockey and baseball mostly. I’m also a hockey mom so I spend my falls and winters at the rink. Communication is important to me, I fully understand we have lives outside of this and I’m not looking to change that but a simple heads up so I’m not left feeling like I’ve been ghosted goes a very long way. Looking for someone who has some availability to connect evenings and weekends, not interested in a “9-5” relationship. 

About you: tall, between the ages of 43 and 50, have hair on your head and clean shaven (a little scruff is acceptable too) I’m not attracted to bald men or men with full facial hair. Looking for long term online only and in the eastern time zone. Interested in sports or working out so we have something to chat about. 

I want to build something real and long term but online only for now. I have the availability to put into this for the right person. 

If this resonates with you, send me a message and tell me what kind of music you like and what about my post resonated with you the most.

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u/Separate-Celery4417 — 8 days ago

43 [F4M] looking for long term #onlineonly #EST

43 woman, married with 2 teens. I’m invisible at home and looking for that spark that’s been missing at home. Brown hair brown eyes with freckles and reading glasses. Curvy and 5’6”

I’m into fitness and enjoy reading. Currently binge watching Chicago PD. I’m a sports fan, hockey and baseball mostly. I’m also a hockey mom so spend my falls and winters at the rink. Communication is important to me, I fully understand we have lives outside of this and I’m not looking to change that but a simple heads up so I’m not left feeling like I’ve been ghosted goes a very long way.

About you: tall, between the ages of 43 and 50, have hair on your head and clean shaven (a little scruff is acceptable too) I’m not attracted to bald men or men with full facial hair. Looking for long term online only and in the eastern or central time zones. Interested in sports or working out so we have something to chat about.

I want to build something real and long term but online only for now. I have the availability to put into this for the right person.

If this resonates with you, send me a message and tell me what kind of music you like and what about my post resonated with you the most.
*notabot

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u/Separate-Celery4417 — 12 days ago

43 [F4M] looking for the real deal Online Only #EST

43, wife and mother of two. Somewhere along the way, I became invisible at home, and I miss feeling connected, seen, and desired.

I’m looking for a slow burn. I want to build a genuine connection first, not jump straight into sexting or trading sexy photos. Those things can come later, once we’ve built trust, a relationship, and real emotional attraction.

I’d love to exchange voice notes and have the occasional phone call. Hearing someone’s voice adds a level of connection that texting alone just can’t.

Communication is incredibly important to me. I have more free time than most because my kids are older and fairly independent. I understand my situation is unique, and I don’t expect constant attention. I simply appreciate honesty about your availability. A quick “I’m tied up today” goes a long way and lets me know I haven’t been ghosted.

I’m from Ontario and currently on a fitness journey, focusing on becoming the best version of myself. I’m not skinny or fitness-model material, but I have great curves, a great personality, and I’m comfortable in my own skin. I’m an early riser for the gym and usually stay up until around 9 or 10 at night.

About you: Ideally between 35 and 50, emotionally mature, a good communicator, and genuinely interested in building something meaningful. I’m looking for an online-only relationship where feelings are allowed to develop naturally. I’d love someone who has some availability in the evenings and on weekends—I’m not looking for a connection that only exists from 9 to 5.

Eastern Time is preferred, but it’s not a dealbreaker if our schedules line up and we can consistently make time for each other.

If my post resonates with you, send me a message. Tell me what stood out to you the most, and while you’re at it, tell me what kind of music you enjoy. I’d much rather start a conversation than receive a simple “hey.”
*notabot

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u/Separate-Celery4417 — 1 month ago

43F4M - Looking for long term #EST

I’m 43, in Ontario, and a mom of two. I enjoy early gym sessions and evening check-ins. I’m on a fitness journey, trying to find myself again after raising teenagers.

I’m not looking to change anyone’s home situation, including my own. What I’m looking for is the connection that’s missing—the person you can’t wait to talk to about your day, your workout, your wins, and the random thoughts that make you smile.

A little about me: I’m on a fitness journey to feel like myself again. I’m passionate about fitness and inspiring others to achieve their goals. I’m an early riser who hits the gym before work, which means I’m usually in bed early. Brown hair, brown eyes, curvy, and comfortable in my own skin. I love thoughtful conversations, sarcasm, and people who are curious about the world.

What I’m looking for:
• Someone emotionally mature and consistent
• Available throughout the day and in the evenings
• Someone who values connection and enjoys the daily selfies that make it feel like we’re part of each other’s lives
• Preferably Caucasian, as that’s what I’m most attracted to
• Voice notes and real conversations are a huge plus
• Must be in the Eastern Time Zone
• aged 40-50
I’m not interested in drama, games, disappearing acts, or disrupting anyone’s life. Let’s build something real and have fun fantasizing about the “what ifs.”
If this sounds like you, reach out and tell me what gets you out of bed in the morning besides work.

Online only!

*notabot

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u/Separate-Celery4417 — 3 months ago

43F4M - #online #EST Looking for a slow burn that actually means something

I’m a 43-year-old mom of 2 teenagers. I’m at the stage of my life where my kids don’t need me to except to drive them around, so I’m left with mostly quiet evenings and weekends, when I’m not busy being a sports mom.

 

I’m not skinny, but I’m also not fat. I’m working on myself in and out of the gym. I’ve got brown hair, brown eyes with glasses and freckles.

 

I’m on a fitness journey and love staying active. It would be great to have someone on a similar path so we can support and motivate each other.

 

I’m looking for a connection that feels easy, consistent and real. Communication matters to me. I’m an early riser who appreciates the good morning check-in and I tend to wind down early in the evening. I want someone to fill the void at home and make me feel seen again, hopefully you are feeling similar at home and are looking for the missing piece. My ideal match has time for me in the evenings and weekends even if it’s quick check-ins between sports.

 

What I’m looking for:

-          Consistent communication, not just when it’s convenient

-          A genuine connection that starts with friendship and grows naturally

-          Someone supportive who shows up and matches effort

-          Strong chemistry and mutual attraction

-          Online only for now

-          A man aged 38-50

 

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, send me a message and tell me what kind of music you listen to.

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u/Separate-Celery4417 — 4 months ago