u/Sexyshyvirgin

I F23 am confused about my boyfriend 25. For the past two years we have been in an amazing relationship. The only complication we've ever had is he has a super high sex drive and I am Asexual. This has not caused any issues between us romantically, he just has sexual frustrations. Sometimes I catch him relieving himself and I have insisted he can request an open relationship and that I trust him, however he insists it's okay and he has no desire to do so. I know how sexually frustrated he is so I do not believe him that he is. I have even thought of setting him up with someone but I dont know anything about things like that so Im unaware of who to look for or what. Any advice would be appreciated :).

I 24m have been dating the love of my life for 3 years. Our relationship has been pretty good, however, the only problem is I have an extremely high sex drive and she refuses to do anything with me. Yes ive asked but obviously not in a pushy way. Im not necessarily saying I want to break up with her or cheat on her. But I personally have never done anything in the bedroom (yes we've been dating three years). She's done things with other guys in the past, again not a complaint. But lately a few times whether in a bar with friends or out Ive been offered hookups and while I dont take them, obviously I am dying to try something. At this point Im absolutely horny 24/7 so it's getting more impossible to not flirt back with people. ive also heard that some men are really good at giving head so im wondering if I should experiment with that