49 [M4MF] Bi Male, SF North Bay, Online- Looking for an open minded, discrete couple for ongoing online friendship. I’m experienced with joining couples and looking for an ongoing connection. Discretion and mutual respect is expected and appreciated.
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I’ve been with my wife for over 15 years and have always struggled with my Hyper-sexuality and monogamy, yet Im normal & a good person who loves his wife and family. Our sex life has been mismatched for the last 10 years. I am very very sexual, adventurous and open minded. I want/need sex or sexual interaction/excitement multiple times a day to feel alive, satisfied and truly happy and fulfilled. My wife is happy with sex once a week and is pretty vanilla.
Is there anyone out there who can relate? How do you cope? Do you feel guilt? How do you deal with your feelings and appetite?
Am truly hoping I’m not alone out here with these feelings and struggles. :)
Thank you in advance!
I know that monogamy fills the hopeless romantic side of me … but the reality is that over time and experience, I have come to the conclusion that maybe it’s just not realistic or natural.
Can ONE person meet ALL of another person’s needs, wants and desires ALL of the time FOREVER, or is this expectation unrealistic an a setup for disappointment, dissatisfaction and ultimately failure?
This is something that has been on my mind a lot. Does anyone else find it all a bit of a struggle?
I know that not only men have a hidden adventurous sexual side that family and friends would be extremely surprised and shocked about if they knew.
Our partners may not know or only have a bit of a clue but we have to deny our inner sexual selves for the sake of our family and friends and society.
What can’t people just be normal, great people but have a sexual side that is ok too? What does society make us choose?
I’m really looking for a long term online partner that can have normal conversations and a true connection but also enjoy flirty fun and mutual sexy interactions as well.
I know life gets in the way often and that is just part of having an online relationship so let’s both give each other grace and patience. :)
If you can relate to this inner struggle, let’s connect and commiserate together. :)