u/Sigmadraconissys

Mamas and littles do you consider someone asking for a cis gendered girl a red flag?

For context I am trans girl so outside of that demographic but even if I was a cis Girl I would think that asking for someone to be specifically cis gendered would be icky.

Like if they're going to be icky about trans people what else are they gonna be icky about.

There isn't really a qualitative difference between a trans and a cis Girl. Or is there something I am not seeing because everything that could be different isn't directly related to being trans or cis. So why exclude trans people?

The only reason I am seeing is to be icky. Am I missing something?

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u/Sigmadraconissys — 8 days ago

Just Gotta yearn for a minute i hope that's ok.

I hate how in this economy you need two incomes to survive. why can't i just stay home while my mama work's i would like to help her when she's gone i want to clean to cook to wash our clothes. I want everything to be perfect so that when she comes home she doesn't have to worry about anything. so we can just be comfy together and i can sit in her lap and ask her how her day went. so i can tell her that dinner is already prepared and she Just has to feed it to me. I just want to make sure that while she runs our live I'll make it as easy as possible for her allowing her all the time possible to baby me to go to nice places to eat nice food. i just want to be able to be the biggest helper in her life to be the cute angel on her shoulder making life good.

I wish i could just be my Mama's little house little she can teach proper manners to so i can act like the little princess i am. I want to be dressed in lots of cute little dresses when she's here.

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u/Sigmadraconissys — 19 days ago

uuuugghhh trying to get a mommy is like searching for people on you're continent looking for a little and then sending them messages and hoping they reply.

it's like the job Market everyone is looking but nobody is hirering maybe i should myke like a little résumé to show any potential mommy thst i am worth being her little.

it's just really frustrating. dats all

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u/Sigmadraconissys — 19 days ago

Hey I am a little from Switzerland looking for my forever mams Someone to cuddle with to nuzzle to sit in their lap have them play with my hair. someone to feed me hold me close and tell me i am precious.

i do have a few important limits tough

First i am Asexual and sex repulsed. i don't really think about sex like at all so most things aren't sexual for me i think for something to be sexual it must either constitute imminent sexual contact or be mutually agreed upon to be sexual. those are boundaries we'll have to set together.

This is my Hard limit when it comes to people in genera. Now this is what i am looking for in my forever mama more concretely.

i am looking for Someone I could cook for or at least help cooking. support and be supported by.

Someone I could help with little and big tasks to make their life easier. Someone who could be my everything. And someone who could love me someone who I could love. someone to hold me close someone in who's embrace i could be little

Someone to understand me and someone I could understand. Someone who would put my drawings on the fridge.

I am polygamous in theory i think i could love multiple people at once. but only together like in a group relationship. i couldn't Actually handle having multiple different relationships i also don't think i really need multiple people in one relationship i think one is enough provided that they don't neglect me.

i am very introverted so i have Trouble with finding people as is so i don't think i would go out to find people to add to a group relationship. however i wouldn't mind if my partner did that or if my partner wanted to be in a separate relationship with someone else. because i know my partner might have needs i can't fulfil or things they wish to explore that i am not suited for People carry multitudes and that's ok.

so in practice it might be better to say that i am a monogamous person who is just very open to being poly or simply my partner being poly.

let's talk about some things i like

i love reading and i love writing, i like to cuddle colour or play with sensory toys and plushies. Generally anything where i could be cuddled and held would be Great. Cudling close during a documentary sounds totally great, i also enjoy a lot of fantasy and sci fi.

i like to play board games videos games and other games. i like to swimm and just go on walks. i go to the gym a few time per week.

i like nesting being warm and safe ideally enclosed or semi enclosed space, that is at least somewhat tight. I love that. the only reason i don't sleep with blankets over my head is I'd asphyxiate.

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u/Sigmadraconissys — 19 days ago