u/SignalDrift-6db

Tired of profiles that promise sparks and butterflies but never sound real? Same. I’d rather skip the act and see who’s actually paying attention.
I’m 51\~married, 6 feet, white, dark hair going silver at the sides, hazel eyes, beard or goatee depending on the season. Dad bod, but I exercise every day and try to eat right. Tech nerd, into sci fi and space, coffee black, whiskey neat.
I want a woman who communicates well, has some fire, and knows how to give and receive attention. I’m a giver, soft dom, and can switch. Nice does not mean weak. I treat a woman well, and I’m not afraid to pull hair or give a good spanking when it’s deserved. Discreet, Boise area preferred.
If that sounds like your kind of thing, you already know.

Tired of profiles that promise sparks and butterflies but never sound real? Same. I’d rather skip the act and see who’s actually paying attention.
I’m 51, married, 6 feet, white, dark hair going silver at the sides, hazel eyes, beard or goatee depending on the season. Dad bod, but I exercise every day and try to eat right. Tech nerd, into sci fi and space, coffee black, whiskey neat.
I want a woman who communicates well, has some fire, and knows how to give and receive attention. I’m a giver, soft dom, and can switch. Nice does not mean weak. I treat a woman well, and I’m not afraid to pull hair or give a good spanking when it’s deserved. Discreet, Boise area preferred,
If that sounds like your kind of thing, you already know.

So hey there, I am not going to make this long. I know you ladies have a lot to read on Reddit. No need to have to read a post from a Grammarly challenged Gen Xer. So for the younger crowd a Gen X is the generation that grew up surviving on latchkey kids, questionable haircuts, and the thrilling belief that "we'll figure it out later" counts as a life strategy. We are basically the original low maintenance, high cynicism generation: independent, skeptical, and deeply allergic to unnecessary drama. If you have to ask I am 51 and probably too old for you.

What am I doing here? I don't fucking know! It works sometimes, like gambling. When it works it's so good but it's a crapshoot most of the time. Yes I have done this before both online and recently in person. I've had both beautiful and painful experiences doing this. Is it worth it? Probably not but all of us here have a reason I am sure.

I am looking for a discreet giving horny (yeah I said it) understanding woman who is maybe a little like me. Professional in my career, loves their family, surrounded by people that love them but still feel all alone at times. Hurt by rejection and very much underappreciated at home with so much affection to give the right person. Someone who can find space to care, someone who can fill the holes in another's soul and needs that in return. When that happens the passion and excitement is so tangible it's scary.

Impossible to find? yeah probably but there it is. The rest we find out along the way.

I hope you enjoyed this little story and if you would like to know more or are local to the Boise area and want to meet, well you know what to do.

Have a beautiful day!