u/SithOfItAll21

Hi! So I am sure it’s more of a me issue rather than anything else but I have done this before. I have found two great loves in this space and looking to see if that is a possibility again.

About me: I am 46, married, mom of school aged kids. I am Latina and live on the south side of the city. I am short and have a mom shaped bod. Don’t expect perfection but if you’re looking for imperfectly perfect that’s me.

You: Have great hygiene, have done this before, are between the ages of 35-50, have impeccable Opsec and are funny. Have the capability to voice/video chat, are available but understanding that at times we are both busy with home.

I just really am looking for a reason to be excited again. If you are looking for a full on connection I am your girl. Also for the love of god please do not give me a simple hey you message.

Please read thourougly. I screen messages before I respond. I’d rather have a small amount of responses than a ton.
I have had long term affairs and short meet ups. I’m looking for a boyfriend. Someone who has time to engage with me. I don’t want to wait until you’re at work to engage in a conversation. I’d like to extend conversation out of work hours and the weekends. So if you’re a 9-5 communicator please don’t even bother. I’m sure there is someone out there for you but it will not be me.
About me I am in my 40s. Latina. 5’1”/180-185lbs. I work during the week and take care of my kids when I come home but I will always make time for you. I have had a long affair with passion, love and friendship. I’m looking for the full package because I know what I am capable of putting into a relationship. I am funny, sarcastic and sassy.
You: Are in the ages between 35-50. No I will not make exceptions. Live near so we can meet halfway. I won’t drive more than an hour. Able to easily message me. Are able to talk on telegram calls from time to time. Want voice convos. Videos chats. Can easily book a hotel room if we get to that part. Must be funny. I prefer if you have done this before. Please do not tell me you don’t want to change my situation. Clearly we are both trying to if we are engaging with someone outside our marriage. I however, will not be leaving my marriage. No spouse bashing allowed. If you are someone who is hot and cold I just can’t engage.I want a man that can take charge. Wants exclusivity. Not afraid of love. Actually you are wanting love. You also desire a long term relationship. Pics exchanged early on. Telegram is my preferred was to communicate but after pics are exchanged.

Please read thourougly. I screen messages before I respond. I’d rather have a small amount of responses than a ton.
I have had long term affairs and short meet ups. I’m looking for a boyfriend. Someone who has time to engage with me. I don’t want to wait until you’re at work to engage in a conversation. I’d like to extend conversation out of work hours and the weekends. So if you’re a 9-5 communicator please don’t even bother. I’m sure there is someone out there for you but it will not be me.
About me I am in my 40s. Latina. 5’1”/180-185lbs. I work during the week and take care of my kids when I come home but I will always make time for you. I have had a long affair with passion, love and friendship. I’m looking for the full package because I know what I am capable of putting into a relationship. I am funny, sarcastic and sassy.
You: Are in the ages between 35-50. No I will not make exceptions. Live near so we can meet halfway. I won’t drive more than an hour. Able to easily message me. Are able to talk on telegram calls from time to time. Want voice convos. Videos chats. Can easily book a hotel room if we get to that part. Must be funny. I prefer if you have done this before. Please do not tell me you don’t want to change my situation. Clearly we are both trying to if we are engaging with someone outside our marriage. I however, will not be leaving my marriage. No spouse bashing allowed. If you are someone who is hot and cold I just can’t engage.I want a man that can take charge. Wants exclusivity. Not afraid of love. Actually you are wanting love. You also desire a long term relationship. Pics exchanged early on. Telegram is my preferred was to communicate but after pics are exchanged.