My former neighbor basically asked to borrow my partner overnight, and I’m surprisingly into the idea. Am I crazy?
My former neighbor recently moved to a new house not far from us. She stopped by yesterday and explained that the area has felt a little sketchy so far. My partner is a very big, imposing guy—6’7”, broad-shouldered, and people definitely notice his presence.
She said she feels safer with him around and jokingly (or maybe not jokingly?) asked if she could “borrow” him to hang out at her place and even have him spend the night so people wouldn’t think she was alone.
Here’s the complicated part: I’ve always felt like she seemed interested in him, and I’ve had fantasies about the two of them together for quite a while. Instead of feeling jealous, I felt excited when she asked.
For those who are into cuckqueaning or similar dynamics, how would you interpret this situation? Does this sound like genuine interest, someone simply wanting to feel safe, or maybe a bit of both? And if you’ve ever turned a fantasy involving someone you know into reality, how did you approach it?
Not sure how to tell him I’ll pack his bag and he can head over, as long as he comes home with the details…..