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for a bit of back story my partner and I have started watching porn together over the last couple of months which is nothing out of the ordinary but she has been making me pick the videos to watch and then asking me what I like about it.

recently she has told me to fuck her like I’m fucking the girls we are watching and has got turned on more by me talking about the girls on screen and how much I want them.

This has all been a crazy experience and a very hot one indeed. I am certainly enjoying it, and i can tell you she’s definitely enjoying it as I’ve never seen her cum as quickly as when I talk about and look at other girls.

so my question is how do take this to the next step or any advice on how we can build on this without pushing too much or rushing further.

any advice will be helpful (p.s. she will probably read this)

My question is for queens here: which option do you prefer the most

1. Your husband should keep only one girl

2. It's up to him how many he wants to have

Which option do you prefer and why? It's only for my education to understand the cuckold psychology. Really appreciate your contribution. I'm male and doing this for study, as I am a student of psychology

Hi all,

OG POST

I wrote a therapeutic diary entry of sorts the other day that got some mild attention and we had quite a weekend so I figured I would share some updates.

Last week, I shared my post with my husband after we talked about some of these desires. As a recap, we’ve been ENM for the entirety of our relationship with varying levels of open and solo exploration depending on how our lives were changing at the time. I’m currently medically compromised in a way that suppresses his desire for me and takes solo play for me really off the table. But his sex drive and my sex drive are decently high at this time we just can’t satisfy each other solo as much as we like to usually. I’ve been exploring this community as a way to satisfy both our sex drives, build up our bond sexually during this temporary phase, and for me to feel better about his solo play.0

Onto updates since last week:

Because I’ve had mixed emotional reactions to his solo play, mostly on the negative end of the spectrum from jealousy to resentment, he had taken a pause on pursuing other women.

After sharing the post we had a really fun, deep, connected talk about how I can feel better about his solo dates. Basically, we had come to the conclusion that as included as I could be would be optimal for me including:
✨prefer for me to be physically present and actively participating in the play. If she’s no comfortable with me touching her then strictly FMF play.
✨videos of their play that we can watch together when he comes home
✨telling me a play by play of the play.

Again- I’m into a reverse cuck dynamic lol so I prefer degradation to be directed at the cake if any were to take place.

After our talk, my husband had a date invite with a semi-recurrent play date. Obviously, compared to their vanilla playtime, these requests were quite an escalation. She actually was quite receptive to most of them, but needed more time to digest them which is totally fair. She actually was into him degrading her in comparison to me, which he was excited about! And he proceeded to degrade her a bit from what he told me.

I was upset that night as he had platonic plans immediately following his playdate and we had no time to reconnect so I was just up late, horny, alone while the kids slept and he was out with friends. I definitely blew up at him a bit when he got home, but apologized and explained we needed to set aside some reconnection time intentionally after play dates so I can feel included and have my needs met too.

Part 2 update coming soon as the next night we went to a play party together… 😘

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Comment ur experience

Been hearing a lot that we should definitely not bring a third to the relationship and it’s the worst thing you can do? You’ll fall in love etc. mmmm like can anybody say that things turned out okay in their relationship?

We’re in our phase of barely talking about it. Video chatting girls, sexting, but no in person meets. I love my woman and everything’s going great I can’t imagine falling in love with someone else. Sex yes but love no way.

Is there anybody out there that’s going strong on their relationship after being in cuckqueen relationship?

Hi everyone, I have a question about my wife and I’d like to chat with someone and get opinions (especially from women) about whether she might be a cuckquean or interested in the topic. I’ll need to give a bit of context first. We’re a young married couple (3 years married), Christian and conservative. She’s 39 and doesn’t have as much libido as I do (34), mainly due to health issues like endometriosis, hypothyroidism, a lot of stress at home and work. Plus, we’re both in psychological therapy due to childhood trauma (she was abused as a kid). Our intimate moments are pretty rare (every 4 or 6 months), and honestly, it’s becoming harder to understand the situation.

However, something different happened this weekend. On Friday, we had sex just like always — she was trying and making an effort, almost without desire, and I was trying not to be too forceful and to be gentle. I thought I’d have to wait until next year. But today, after going to church, we had passionate sex. Here’s where I start to suspect something.

At church, a group of young people were doing a college tour, and I was serving at the altar. My wife noticed that many of the young girls were looking at me. After mass, when we went home to rest in bed, she started teasing me about it — saying things like “Did you see those girls? They were looking at you,” and “Watch out, you might go with one of them.” I teased her back, asking “Why not? Since you don’t want to be with me (in intimacy).” She playfully hit me, a bit jealous, and then we started kissing.

This time, she took the lead and had me kiss her on her breasts, and that’s when we made love again. She didn’t come, but I could tell she was very wet.

That’s the story — sorry it’s so long. What do you all think?

I really enjoy this kink and it’s basically all I think in our sex play but everything we did until now was some online chat with another girls bc it’s really difficult to find a woman or a cake (how it’s called). We already tried apps and were not successful. My husband is so handsome and well endowed, he’s so good in sex, I really I wish I could watch him pleasure another woman, I wish I could watch tied up in the cuck chair. We really want to do things but it feels impossible, apps are terrible and Reddit communities full of scams. Anyone has tips on how to meet cakes, women who desire be a cake? (we are from California). I dream with the submission and with the humiliation of this… but it seems so difficult.

So I really need to get this off my chest. I didn't really know where to post this, but then I discovered this community, so I hope this is the right place, lol.

I'm 32, been single for a very long time and been really getting in tune with my sexuality and discovering my kinks lately. Recently I've been having fantasies about being fucked by married men while their wives watch. The thought of a married man pumping me full of his cum, telling me I'm tighter, hotter, younger, and better than his wife while she watches turns me on so fucking much. I get off on the thought of the wife being utterly humiliated; powerless and losing her loyal husband to his carnal desires. Knowing that she's completely useless and can never satisfy her man the way I can.

I remember around 10 years ago, I had a crush on the much older boss of the place I work at, and one day I went for lunch in the break room. When I sat down, he smiled and said hello, and I remember his gf (now wife) rolling her eyes and shaking her head at me. I'm quite a shy, awkward person normally, but I remember loving the power trip I felt over her, making her feel insecure and jealous.

So I guess I've always had this kink, I just never knew what it was or that it even had a name!

Spill the tea, ladies, What really got you into this lifestyle? Did something happen that kicked this kink off for you? Is this something new you just want to try? I'm not into humiliation, but love sending my husband to fuck my girlfriends so i can taste them off of him later as well as joining in . Share anything that comes to mind!