u/Waste_Jacket_3207

Hi all. My wife(48F) and I(50M) have been using this fantasy during our play time for over a year now, and she is wanting to take it further and have a 3way. We've been together for 15yrs and have a great relationship and I don't want to chance blowing it up. We're wanting to dip our toes in it, slowly. She's watched as I masterbated to porn and she's watched me get a lap dance at a strip club, but things she enjoyed immensely! What are some other things we can try to make sure she will be ok with it irl? TIA

Edit: I did ask AI for a list of green flags to see if our relationship would be ok with pushing this boundary, and evey one of the green flags checked off just fine. Also we do have a very open communication in our relationship and high emotional intelligence

So, I recently found an answer to one of my big dick problems, and the wife is all the happier for it. I found a product that I can put on my dick to keep it from going too deep, and its been a game changer! Now i don't have to worry about going too deep and hurting her, so we can just focus on how good it feels and I don't have to be careful

A while back I was changing clothes, so I'm standing there in my underwear. Being stupid I did a little dance for my wife, I call it the "dick flop" lol (similar to the helicopter but you thrust your hips back and for like when having sex, but your completely soft so it just slaps up and down) she laughed, which is the reaction I was going for, then she looks me dead in the eyes and says "You do know that people would pay good money to see that, right?!" I laughed it off be then she showed me some tiktoks of guys dancing just to show off their dicks lol I had no clue that was a thing hahaha