r/CuckqueanConfessions

My partner went out today with some work friends, and I’ve noticed he’ll often text and tag on insta one of the girls in the group.

This morning he said she’s running late so he will leave later. Then said about 5 people turned up to the get together (all women).

He’s now just text to say it’s just him and her left in the pub. My mind is going into overdrive thinking about whether they’re flirting, what are they talking about, what if they’re touching each other or even kissing!!!

I’ve always said people from work are off the cards but if he likes her I reckon he would do it and hide it from me. I think I’d like it to happen with how it’s making me feel. Do I ask any questions whilst he is with her or wait until he is back with me tonight?

My former neighbor recently moved to a new house not far from us. She stopped by yesterday and explained that the area has felt a little sketchy so far. My partner is a very big, imposing guy—6’7”, broad-shouldered, and people definitely notice his presence.
She said she feels safer with him around and jokingly (or maybe not jokingly?) asked if she could “borrow” him to hang out at her place and even have him spend the night so people wouldn’t think she was alone.
Here’s the complicated part: I’ve always felt like she seemed interested in him, and I’ve had fantasies about the two of them together for quite a while. Instead of feeling jealous, I felt excited when she asked.
For those who are into cuckqueaning or similar dynamics, how would you interpret this situation? Does this sound like genuine interest, someone simply wanting to feel safe, or maybe a bit of both? And if you’ve ever turned a fantasy involving someone you know into reality, how did you approach it?
Not sure how to tell him I’ll pack his bag and he can head over, as long as he comes home with the details…..

I’m curious how you cuckqueans out there from fantasy to in person meetings, either together with a cake, or him meeting women on their own. I’d love to hear som stories of how that unfolded and how did you feel the first time he was alone with her?!

My boyfriend (24M) and I (21F) have been in a long-distance relationship for almost three years. He’s extremely attractive—tall, broad, fit, and he’s always had a lot of attention from women. Most of the women he dated or slept with before me were the complete opposite of me: they usually had lip fillers, breast implants, and a very polished look, while I’m completely natural.

At the beginning of our relationship, I was incredibly jealous of his past. But somewhere during these three years of long distance, that jealousy slowly changed into something I never expected. Because we couldn’t be physically intimate (I‘m still a virgin), I found myself thinking about him more and more, and eventually those thoughts started revolving around his past and different scenarios involving other women. The more I imagined them, the more I realized they were turning me on instead of upsetting me.

I kept asking him about his previous experiences, even though he was always hesitant because he thought it would hurt my feelings. In reality, I found myself wanting to hear more every time.
Now I’ve realized that what really turns me on are fantasies centered around him being with other women. The thought of him cheating on me excites me. I also get turned on by the idea of him watching porn or thinking about his ex-girlfriends or previous sexual partners. It’s less about simply watching and more about imagining myself being powerless or unable to stop it. I even asked him once if he still had any videos from his past because I wanted to see them, but he told me he had deleted them and said he wouldn’t send them to me even if he still had them.

I’ve only admitted to him that hearing about some of his past experiences turns me on, which already surprised him. He still feels uncomfortable talking about those things because he doesn’t want to hurt me, so I’ve never told him how far these fantasies actually go. I don’t want to pressure him into anything, but I’m curious if anyone else has experienced a kink developing like this over the course of a long-term relationship.