r/CuckqueanConfessions

My girlfriend and I have been together for three years, and over the past year, we’ve slowly started exploring our sexuality in ways neither of us really expected.
One thing she’s told me that has stuck with me is that she’s never felt as comfortable expressing her sexuality with anyone else as she does with me. That trust has made her want to explore even deeper—and recently, she opened up to me about a fantasy that completely caught me off guard.
She told me she wants to watch me be intimate with another woman while she’s there.
At first, I honestly didn’t know what to make of it. I had heard that couples explore things like this, but I had never personally known anyone who was genuinely interested in watching their partner with someone else. After doing some digging, I realized there’s actually a whole community built around this kind of dynamic.
What makes it even more interesting is that this isn’t just some random fantasy she mentioned once. She’s brought it up multiple times and seems genuinely curious about taking that step. She doesn’t seem particularly concerned about whether the other woman would be a stranger, a friend, or someone we meet through an adult entertainer.
Even before getting anywhere near that point, she enjoys watching me interact with bikini baristas, and our next step is planning to visit a strip club together. For us, it’s been less about simply chasing sexual experiences and more about discovering what makes each other feel comfortable, excited, and connected.
Still, I’d be lying if I said the idea hasn’t thrown me for a loop.
We’ve spent three years building a relationship based on trust, and now she’s asking me to explore a side of our relationship I never imagined would come up. The surprising part is that I’m not necessarily against it—I’m just trying to understand what this could mean for us and how couples actually navigate something like this without letting it complicate an otherwise strong relationship.
And lately, she keeps asking me the same question:
“So when are we actually going to do it?”
That’s when I realized this might be more than just a fantasy she has—it might be something we eventually explore together.

To be blunt I’m pretty new to the idea of being a cuckquean, but whenever I suggest anything to my partner about potentially seeing other people I get overly jealous. Is it normal to have those feelings? Does it mean I’m not a quean? Do I have to overcome some insecurities I have of myself? I genuinely enjoy the idea of my partner being with someone else, but I once I try and communicate it with him I just crash out and lose it. I’m wondering if anyone else has had this happen and if so what does it mean?

My (M36) girlfriend (F27) wants me to start using her chubby shy and virgin sister (F21) as my free use sex toy. My gf has already admitted she wants to get intimate with her, but she thinks it’s too much. So she’s asking me to do to her the thinks she’d like to do.
We both can tell her sister feels attached by me.

We are a very stable, confident and openminded couple. I guess the level of trust we have is what has made my gf to admit all this.
Goes without saying that I’m 100% turned on by this and can’t wait to be fucking both of them.

Any advice on how to move forward?
Please, only people with experience in this or similar situations.

I just laid there very still and my husband laid on me like a pillow for about an hour while he scrolled and watched porn. Occasionally he was saying how sexy the women were or what he liked about them. He was harder than I could ever make him looking at those superior women! Finally he ended up finishing to one he likes in particular she was totally opposite of me. I loved every second of it!

Tonight is one of those nights when my D and our girlfriend (we’re a throuple) decided they needed our bedroom to themselves, so I got kicked out. 😅

I’m sleeping by myself on the couch while they’re in there together. I watched them prep the toys, the bed, and the splash sheet in our bedroom. A bedroom I’m not allowed into tonight.

I can hear them fucking right now, and I know they’ll cuddle afterward. I’m sad. I’m jealous. But I’m also incredibly horny and turned on by the whole thing. She’s just so much better, prettier, funnier, and louder, than me.

This kink has been on my (M33) heart since I was a young man- I dream of finding a partner who can walk with me through life- for those of you with experience- what were the first signs that you were a Quean waiting to happen and how would you go about spotting a potential Quean on a dating app? Thanks in advance x

Okayyy… be honest. I’ll start. I’m in my twenties, single, hot, skinny, blonde, with 34C perky tits & a lil bubble butt. For some reason, I find myself on Reddit (again) with my phone in my right hand. My left hand right now is wet because I’ve been humping my hand for so long. I’ve been up all night throbbing and aching at the fantasy of pleasing someone’s man while she watches. I can’t help it. I want to text him when he’s with her. I want him to fantasize about me and text me to vent about how useless she is and how much better I feel. I want him to stare in her eyes when he’s cumming in me.

Ok, enough of that before this post is taken down. I get carried away when I’m edging and soaked. My sex drive is off the chain for this stuff 🎀💦

It’s just strange because when I have a boyfriend, i’ll tell him dirty things like about how I want him to fuck other girls. Telling him that I want to fuck my friends and make me watch. I’ll get very vulgar. He use to enjoy this. This turned me on more. My last boyfriend was actually impatient and made it seem like the only reason he dated me was to fuck my friends. Even though some twisted part of me wanted wanted to share his big cock (sorry if TMI), and let him try my friends, even fill them up while I watch.. we never got to that point before we broke up. He would tell me he wanted to come in my friend’s mouth and her spit it back in my mouth. If we were in a fight and he would tell me that he’s gonna find a girl to finally bring home and enjoy while I watch. We unfortunately fought outside of the bedroom, and while our fantasies grew, and he wanted to punish me for each fight, I became too worried he would leave me for whoever he started sleeping with. He looked at my friends like he wanted them so bad and part of me would get so turned on, the other part would be so jealous knowing it was wrong not knowing what to tell my girl friends or if they’d be comfortable with it. It made things weird because he was so ready to do it and we had not talked about it with my friend first so it just made me feel very jealous and worried she may not want to . It was all pressured in that moment because she didn’t know what was going on and he was staring at her like he wanted her and I wanted him to have her. I just didn’t know how to explain to her what was going on and we ended up breaking up a few weeks later.

Just wondering anyone else’s experiences. If similar or way different.

In one scenario I’m humiliating the partner and pleasing the man. In the other, I’m being humiliated and watching my man her pleased. Either way I know I love pleasing the man.

Curious what this means and curious to hear about others real life experiences or even fantasies.

I’m down to talk on here just vsend me a chat. Looking to connect with women, men, and couples who share this same type of fetish. If you live this lifestyle I wanna hear all about it and 😇💦

I'm a second generation American whose parents came over from Korea, I grew up in a neighborhood which was vast majority White people and went to a school district that was also majority White people. All my friends growing up were White girls, I started dying my hair blonde and everything. In college I even join a sorority which was mostly White girls. I wanted to be White so bad just how tall and pretty they were. I managed to find my tall White husband against the wishes of my parents who wanted me to married a nice Korean boy.

We have been married 5 years and even while we were just dating I fantasized about him with White women, I made him tell me about all his past sexual partners and made him role play fucking other women. About 2 years ago I finally worked up the courage to ask him for a threesome, It took awhile to convince him I was serious. I planned in with some of my friends from college who I knew would be into the idea.

It was incredible! I spent most of the time helping him fuck her and I got so turned on from it, I almost told him to take the condom off but held myself back that time. We started having more threesomes and eventually I sent him a date without me. I love bringing him women to pleasure him!

We have a few trusted regulars now and so I get the ultimate fantasy of watching him cum inside them and risk making them pregnant so that I can hopefully raise their White baby as my own. One of our regulars loves to regrade me and I love to take it. She is so tall and blonde. She brings over huge toys to stretch my useless tiny pussy out, so that I don't have a hope of pleasing my husband compared to her toy holes. She has worked up to fisting me as my husband fucks her. It both hurts but feels so good. My pussy is so gaped after that my husband can stick his cock in my pussy with no hands and basically no resistance.

My wife wanted to explore her bisexuality and we agreed to have a threesome with another woman. We both ended up loving it, but it really unlocked something inside her that she didn’t know was there. This sudden realisation was that she loved watching me fuck other women and it turned her on more than anything we did together.

We decided a second threesome was a must and organised to meet with another woman (who I will call K). The night arrived and after a few drinks, clothing was removed very quickly. One of us decided that it might be fun to shower together, so we made our way there.

My wife and K began to kiss before K spun around and focused her attention on me. We started to make out, grinding into each other and I opened an eye to glance at my wife. She had her back against the wall and one hand on her pussy, a finger inside herself as she watched us. She bit her lip and her chest rose and fell faster as her finger increased in pace. I couldn’t help but smile, so I broke the kiss and turned K around so she was pinned up against the wall. She arched her back, and begged me to fuck her. My wife moaned at the request and I slid my cock into K’s pussy.

I slid in deep, filling her up, and turned to my wife telling her how good K felt around my cock. My wife looked as if she might fall over, her legs shaking with pleasure. I thrust into K, my eyes never leaving my wife, and she began to rub her clit. “Harder,” my wife whispered. I didn’t need any encouragement. I pounded away into K, and she pushed back against me, forcing me deeper, while she moaned to my wife about how good my cock felt.

A soft little gasp escaped my wife’s lips, which turned into a big scream as she brought herself to orgasm watching me fuck another woman right in front of her. Her hand moved quickly over her clit and K and I slowed to watch. When she finished, she stood there panting, looking very satisfied.

We decided to leave the shower and move to the more comfortable bed, K desperate to taste my wife. We crawled on the bed and my wife laid down, with K immediately moving between her legs to taste her wetness. My wife, already sensitive from her first orgasm, shook with pleasure as K’s tongue touched her clit.

“You need to fuck her,” my wife gasped. “Please, I want to watch it.” I knelt behind K, sliding inside her for a second time. K moaned her approval and my wife watched me as I increased the pace. “Harder, harder, harder!” My wife yelled, her voice getting louder and higher pitched each time. It didn’t take long for her the second orgasm to take over, and she screamed, pushing K’s mouth further onto her pussy. During the whole thing, she never took her eyes off my hips driving into K.

I knew I wouldn’t last much longer, and we took a moment to catch our breath, and change positions. This time, I had something in mind for my wife so she could get a better view. I laid down on the bed and had K ride me, facing away. I pulled her down flat against my chest, my hands on her tits, thrusting up into her pussy. I turned to my wife and said “get between her legs”.

My wife moved eagerly, moving between us and getting a perfect view of my cock stretching K’s pussy. “Oh my god,” my wife whispered, and her hand reached out to brush K’s clit as we fucked. I slid in and out and my wife was mesmerised by the sight. A moment later I felt her tongue make contact with my cock, licking up and down the shaft as I fucked K deep. K let out a sharp gasp and I knew my wife’s tongue had found K’s clit.

My wife sucked K’s clit as I thrust deep into her. K was moaning, enjoying being the centre of attention. “He feels so fucking good,” K told my wife. “I’m going to cum so hard all over his cock.” This only made my wife lick faster. I felt K’s pussy squeeze around me and her body start to shake. A sharp wail left K’s lips, before turning into a wave of moans as she rode out her orgasm. My wife licked and sucked her clit through the whole thing, making the spectacle more intense. I could feel my cock start to throb and knew I was about to finish.

“I’m about to cum,” I gasped. I thrust a few more times inside K, her orgasm finished now, and my cock was pulsing. “I want to taste you both!” My wife said. I felt her grab my cock and pull it out of K and she immediately stuck it in her mouth, her tongue going to work cleaning K’s juices from me. The head of my cock hit the back of her throat as her lips suctioned around me and I knew it was time. I grunted as my cock swelled and blew a load of cum deep inside her throat. I moaned as she bobbed up and down, making sure a single drop didn’t escape. K turned her head and started to kiss me as my wife watched and I felt her moan around my cock in approval.

I heard a wet pop as my wife removed her lips, and my cock was now completely clean of both my cum and K’s. We all fell back into the bed, exhausted and satisfied, knowing it wouldn’t be long until my wife and I tried something like this again.

Hi… I’m Chloe, 28, single after a long time, I’m lying in bed in my new place, still a little flushed from the book I just put down. It’s called Losers full reverse harem, one girl and a bunch of guys who can’t keep their hands off her (or each other). I was supposed to just read a chapter before sleep. Instead I ended up with my hand between my legs, biting my lip so I wouldn’t make noise.

I’m not in a relationship right now. My ex left years ago and I’ve been focused on my daughter and getting settled. But the more I read, the more my mind drifted into something different… something that feels a little shameful and a lot hotter than it should.

I started imagining what it would be like if I finally started dating again and the guy I fell for… preferred other women. Not in a mean way at first. Just that quiet, aching knowledge that when he goes out, when he texts someone else, when he comes home smelling like her… I’m the one left waiting. The one who still opens the door, still kisses him, still lets him climb into bed with me while my stomach twists and my panties are soaked.

I pictured myself sitting on the edge of the bed while he showered after being with her, asking soft little questions “Was she tighter than me?” “Did she moan louder?” and him answering honestly because he knows it turns me on even when it hurts. Or worse… better… him making me wait downstairs while he finishes with her on our bed, then calling me up to clean him off.

I’ve never done anything like that. I’ve never even been in a situation where I could. But lying here alone after that book, the idea of being the devoted one who watches, waits, and still gets wet has me so worked up I can barely stand it.

Is anyone else here a single woman who finds herself craving that specific ache before she even has a partner to give it to her? Or am I just extra horny from the reverse harem and projecting?

Tell me your stories. Real ones, fantasy ones, the ones that make you feel a little guilty for how hard they make you come. I’m listening…