Am I a cuckquean or do I want a hot husband?

I thought I was a cuckquean because I really had no other word for it. I enjoy watching my husband fuck other women, but I don’t want the humiliation or degradation. We’ve always met and played with women together. I’ve posted that this summer I’m away for a few months, so I suggested that he “date” other women with the goal of having sex with them on his own. So he has been doing that, found a few women on Tinder, Feeld and Double list. (all with the goal of satisfying my kinks and completely with my blessing - I just want to put that out there upfront). Nothing has happened physically with anyone yet. When he schedules and goes in a date, my mind goes into overdrive and I get really anxious, which I know is part of the whole dynamic. We’ve been married a LONG time, live on a boat together and I know he is not going anywhere, ever. Yet I struggle with the texting, dating and meeting without me there or being involved (which we’ve also talked about). So I’m wondering if I’m more into the idea of him being a hot husband, where I can watch him with others, or more of a cuck quean. I think mainly I have FOMO and have too much time in my head! It’s really been confusing to him, because on one hand, I want him to flirt and have fun with women and on the other I tell him it makes me anxious (poor guy!) I’m curious what other CQ’s go through.

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u/No_Profession8670 — 8 days ago
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Transition

I’m curious how you cuckqueans out there from fantasy to in person meetings, either together with a cake, or him meeting women on their own. I’d love to hear som stories of how that unfolded and how did you feel the first time he was alone with her?!

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u/No_Profession8670 — 8 days ago

Trust is hard sometimes

So my husband and I have been exploring my kink for a number of years now and we’ve sort of started and stopped a few times (for various reasons). My husband is 6’2”, really handsome and in the past, I always insisted I be present for all encounters in person.

Last fall/winter, I was away a lot with my elderly mom. He met a beta-woman he would play with on occasion and dom her, without me being present. I met her prior to any of their encounters and was 100% on board with their interactions, mainly because (and this is going to sound horrible and I apologize upfront ) but she was not attractive.

So this summer, i will be away all summer to care for my mom and we decided (I suggested) that it would be super hot for him to meet and fuck other women while I’m away. We came up with a long list of rules that we both agreed with, one of which I have the ability to call it off if I don’t feel comfortable.

Last week he reconnected for lunch with one woman that we had texted with last year about all meeting for fun, but never did. Now he is making plans to have sex on Friday, which I’m super excited about, mainly because she is completely aware of our situation.

This week, he met a woman on Tinder (which I don’t love and is topic for another post) who he told me about, sent me pictures, and I approved. He met her for coffee and said she was super cute and they had a great connection. She also doesn’t live in our area, just visits in occasion so they are talking about getting together around the 4th. Apparently she was involved in a similar situation previously with a married man and would have text communication with the wife, which made me feel comfortable with her.

Last night, he texted and told me he has a date tonight, at our local bar with another woman from Tinder. She lives 2 miles away and is very pretty, so my immediate reaction was panic due to her proximity, her looks, she’s single and who knows why she would want to date a married man. So because I didn’t act very excited, he got upset and didn’t understand why I had an issue with her. We talked it out and he will still meet her tonight, and I am “tingly” about them meeting but he won’t take it any further without us both agreeing.

Although I love that he can have fun with these women, I’m really struggling with transitioning to him on his own with good looking women, whom I don’t know. We’ve been married 39 years and he knows that I trust him 1000% and he is not going anywhere. I just don’t trust them. Does anyone else feel this way?!

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u/No_Profession8670 — 13 days ago

Can’t stop!

I love being edged by my husband with the wand and his fingers or mouth, but I’m away from him for a few months. My problem is I’m super horny and when I edge myself, I can’t stop and end up cumming. I need some help and tips to how to stop myself before I orgasm? What do others do?!

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u/No_Profession8670 — 14 days ago

I just get to listen….

My hubby is meeting his new girlfriend this week for sex. She’s 5’2 with 38DD’s and he says he can’t wait to get his hands on her tits. Since I’m out of town and it’s their first time, I told him I would love to listen, have him call me and put the phone on speaker (and then forget I’m there). I’m dying to hear him talk about touching her tits and hear her moan when he firsts enters her. I want to hear the slapping as he fucks her hard from behind and grunt as he cums I’m here. I’m soaking wet now just thinking about it!!!!

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u/No_Profession8670 — 15 days ago

What have you learned being CQ

I never NEVER used to want him to be with another woman without me present, but as we’ve progressed and built up a TON of trust, now I’d rather he see women without me…can’t tell you why. We spent an evening establish clear rules and he absolutely agrees to all of them. He just met a person today and called me after - they will prob date a few times, flirt and that makes me so hot, they can whatever they want to do. My biggest issue is that I don’t like surprises and he gets that. I’m away for the summer taking care of my mom so I’m happy he has someone to play with. Makes me really squishy…

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u/No_Profession8670 — 17 days ago

Edging to the brink!

We have a magic wand and every night, I have to roll a die and whatever the number is the number of times he uses the wand on me till I get to the brink of orgasm and then he pulls it away, leaving me gasping and frustrated….im desperate to cum and can only cum when he says so. 😫

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u/No_Profession8670 — 17 days ago
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59[M4F] Need a man for my hubby

I’m the female half of a married couple who recently discovered that I am a cock, queen. I spent a lot of time out of time taking care of my mom and Wana to find someone who can take care of my husband while I’m away. This is a serious post. He is 6’ 2 inches and built like a rugby player, with 7 inch girth penis. I’d like to find him someone that he can have regular encounters with while I’m away and continue even while I’m there. DM me serious inquiries only. Females only sorry guys.

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u/No_Profession8670 — 17 days ago

A night with our cuckcake

My husband and I have a female friend that we’ve had multiple threesomes with over the years. This past weekend we connected with her and I got to watch my husband fuck her from behind while she licked my pussy, but I wasn’t allowed to come. She spent the night getting him hard and having him fuck her while I just watched and oh my God it was so hot. My pussy was dripping. Can’t wait to see her again.

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u/No_Profession8670 — 17 days ago

He dominates his GF

My husband met a woman who just wanted to be dominated and he asked me if I was OK with that and I said hell yeah. I’m away a lot seeing my mom so I want him to be taken care of while I’m away. So he’s met with her four or five times while I’ve been gone twice in a hotel room and three times at our house. She loves to be degraded and he makes her suck his cock and he sometimes fuck just her ass. they message and he completely dominates her and humiliate her. And it makes me so freaking hot. I love it. I don’t need to know all the details but just knowing he’s being taken care of is amazing. I don’t know why, but it is. He’s also meeting another girlfriend today and I told him to go have sex and have fun. Tell me about it afterwards or just send me a picture of her sucking his cock.

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u/No_Profession8670 — 17 days ago