u/Spark07

37 [M4F] South OC - Looking for my mistress

Hoping a human reads this, because this sub seems to be mostly bots/scammers pretending to be women.

I'm from South Orange County, 5'8 135lbs looking for something fun. I'm 37 but some people think I look younger than 21. I'm big on tech, videogames, chess, and writing software for fun. I'm mostly white and part Asian.

Married with kids. Sex drive of an 18-year-old. Wife is asexual, so she's given me a hall pass.

Right now I am just looking for a female friend that's attractive and intellectually compatible. Most of my friends enjoy how deep our conversations will get, like spiritual growth and supernatural experiences. When I look at someone, I like to pretend I see myself like through a mirror. So I'm here if you just want to talk about life too. My love language is Acts of Service.

I'd be happy to take you out for coffee or lunch any day of the week (my treat) - or play a videogame together - if we click, we'll see where it goes from there.

I don't have telegram, so send me a reddit chat request.

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u/Spark07 — 7 days ago

38 [M4F] #California #OrangeCounty - Unspoken Desires of a Married Man

(hope I got all the rules this time)

I'm from South Orange County, 5'8 130lbs looking for something fun. I'm 38 but some people think I look younger than 21. I'm big on tech, and I like videogames, chess, and writing software for fun. I'm a quarter Japanese, rest white

I'm married with kids, and I have the sex drive of an 18-year-old. My wife is almost asexual, and she wishes my dick was smaller because it makes her bleed, so she's been telling me for years to get a mistress. Some people might think that's messed up, but she is honestly happy to live like she's married to an emperor from the Chinese dynasty who has a concubine. All cards on the table, I've been snipped so apologies if you have a breeding fetish.

It's taken years for make a post like this because I'm terrified. As a teen, my neighbor cheated on his wife - gave his wife an STD - and his wife, mother of 3, died 9 months later. So forgive me if I'm a bit cautious.

I'm not looking for nude pics, but a pretty face goes a long way. I'd like someone who's intellectually compatible as well. Yeah, I want earth shattering sex, but it would be nice to hold a conversation too. Most people I that I get to know fear me for how deep our conversations will get, like spiritual growth and supernatural experiences.

Who knows... maybe there's a woman with an insatiable libido who's married to an asexual man and has his permission. I definitely do not support support cheating. I'd be happy to take you out for coffee or lunch any day of the week (my treat) - or play where winds meet together - if we click, we'll see where it goes from there.

And if you're not ready to commit to something, that's fine too. No reason a FWB can't start out as friends. When I look at someone, I see myself like through a mirror. So I'm here if you just want to talk about life too.~

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u/Spark07 — 15 days ago

I'm from South Orange County, 5'8 130lbs looking for something fun. I'm 38 but some people think I look younger than 21. I'm big on tech, and I like videogames, chess, and writing software for fun. I'm a quarter Japanese, rest white

I'm married with kids, and I have the sex drive of an 18-year-old. My wife is almost asexual, and she wishes my dick was smaller because it makes her bleed, so she's been telling me for years to get a mistress. Some people might think that's messed up, but she is honestly happy to live like she's married to an emperor from the Chinese dynasty who has a concubine. All cards on the table, I've been snipped so apologies if you have a breeding fetish.

It's taken years for make a post like this because I'm terrified. As a teen, my neighbor cheated on his wife - gave his wife an STD - and his wife, mother of 3, died 9 months later. So forgive me if I'm a bit cautious.

I'm not looking for nude pics, but a pretty face goes a long way. I'd like someone who's intellectually compatible as well. Yeah, I want earth shattering sex, but it would be nice to hold a conversation too. Most people I that I get to know fear me for how deep our conversations will get, like spiritual growth and supernatural experiences.

Who knows... maybe there's a woman with an insatiable libido who's married to an asexual man and has his permission. I definitely do not support support cheating. I'd be happy to take you out for coffee or lunch any day of the week (my treat) - or play where winds meet together - if we click, we'll see where it goes from there.

And if you're not ready to commit to something, that's fine too. No reason a FWB can't start out as friends. When I look at someone, I see myself like through a mirror. So I'm here if you just want to talk about life too.

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u/Spark07 — 16 days ago